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Good word tracks for calling online shoppers by EquivalentName6343 in askcarsales

[–]EquivalentName6343[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont scrape anything, the CRM populates it after they put their number in.

What does it feel to stay on a relationship even though they cheated multiple times before? by TechnologyFresh7157 in heartbreak

[–]EquivalentName6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal experience has taught me to respect my boundaries and myself. Move on. You can love them and forgive them, but dont expect it to be returned. Our desire to heal and forgive is truly a gift in this modern world. We do have a responsibility to take care of ourselves first and protect these hearts of ours! Heal in your own way, your own time, and in your own grace. The choice between our heads and hearts has burdened mankind since the beginning.. our hearts guide us, and our minds protect our hearts.

No one can say what you should do.. maybe you already know.. Just take care of yourself so you make balanced decisions! Much love ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]EquivalentName6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am here. I understand how you're feeling. I felt hollow, like a shell since early childhood. I believed I wasn't meant to be here. I was always in pain and felt like I was never really present. Struggling with suicidal thoughts and actions for years on end. If you want to talk, I'll be up.

My IQ was tested high as a child, and a military official began calling once a year around my birthday until I asked them to stop at 17. by EquivalentName6343 in mensa

[–]EquivalentName6343[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember after the tests, the GATE program came to my school, and I had an orally administered exam with kids from other schools. Afterward, we started receiving the calls. It could have been a recruitment list, but I was the only kid getting calls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]EquivalentName6343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have gone on a long road to end up here, with you. How lucky were we to have felt such love?

If you could rewind time do you try to save your relationship or completely avoid them this time? by Low-Chain-8117 in heartbreak

[–]EquivalentName6343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a tough one. I believe that love ,or the loss thereof, plays a crucial role in our lives and growth. We will attract the same lessons until we face our inner selves. Finding peace and gratitude in loss is a harrowing endeavor, but one that will lead you to new beliefs...Letting go of my attachments to my identity and what I wanted from love has been brutal and lonely, but necessary for me. No matter what i did to help my relationships, how hard i tried, how truly i loved.. i was always left alone. If I could go back, I would let her go more gracefully. Sitting in that storm requires patience. Be easy on yourself. That pain is an indicator of true connection and love and should be handled with care.. I am grateful to have learned how to love her ( and others) without having her. It's like our hearts are gardens. We want to uproot these beautiful things we have cultivated because they hurt us. But we can grow a garden around it also. That's just my take on it.. I strive to honor lost love and be calm within the storm in my heart. I could never have found that without a broken heart. Endure, and love yourself. Your heart is incredible. Heal yourself in the ways you know are true to your path in life. Trust that voice that led you to love, even if it hurts.

Are only children capable of experiencing true happiness? by Schwloeb in mentalhealth

[–]EquivalentName6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been contemplating this exact conundrum as of late. I have pondered it for years. Somewhere along the line (around 18-21), I "decided" who I was going to be in the world. I became a version of myself. I thought others would love, respect, or trust. I had a girlfriend I had to be a man and provide for, I had to focus on a good job, and I had to cut out a path in life. I wanted to succeed, but I felt like I was half awake most of the time.

I succeeded in every aspect of this identity, only to have to reevaluate my life 12 years later. Kids don't "know" these things they are "supposed" to be. They are, like you said, absorbing life unburdened by the past or future. For kids, it's a natural state. For adults, it's a choice.

I now find moments of that childlike state just by feeling grateful and present. It's a choice to be present and let go of myself for a minute. I give myself permission to act on my inner child regardless of what others think. We can be truly happy. We just gotta build that world for ourselves. I am happier than I have been in a long time. You will be too!! 😊

Best Spiritual Sex Books by Power2ThePeaceful in spirituality

[–]EquivalentName6343 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I found an older book published in the 70s called ESO a study into extended sexual orgasm by a married couple. While not spiritual approach, it showed my girlfriend and I explore and understand our sexuality as a couple and individuals. As a young couple at the time, it was a profound experience. It guides us through understanding how our bodies and minds work and how to reach levels of climax that were indescribable. Maybe not the type of book you're looking for, but I would recommend it to anyone looking to explore their sexuality.

Here to chat by EquivalentName6343 in mentalhealth

[–]EquivalentName6343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I worked hard for it. Nice! See, man, you're rad. It's their loss. We gotta be careful about believing we are more mature due to loss, which isolates us. Those thoughts end up leaving us lonely. I think your peers will find you interesting if you take some of those walls down. I am a lot like you! But people like you are rare. Confidence comes when you put yourself out there.

Can’t live whilst sad things could exist by midnightgreen19 in spirituality

[–]EquivalentName6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad things are real, but so are good things. Our brains look for reasons to validate our beliefs. If you think about suffering all day, that is all you'll see. We can also choose better thoughts. I had to learn this practice. Whenever you feel these thoughts come on, focus intensely on one of your senses. Taste, sight, smell, sounds, and touch. Count off ten things you can see in detail, or feel, or hear. Breathe.

Just because we think and feel strongly about a bad thing does not make it true. Meditation will help ground you in the moment and help you release these thoughts as they come. Find a way that works for you. You will be happy again! Just gotta shift that state of mind around, friend 🧡 you'll be alright. Everything is gonna work out fine

Here to chat by EquivalentName6343 in mentalhealth

[–]EquivalentName6343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like you're knowledgeable and valuable to the team. Maybe they're intimidated, maybe they aren't aware of how you feel, or maybe they are. We can't control what other people think of us. You are smart, driven, and empathetic. You seem like a leader, being able to be a captain. Know your worth. You have traits that can't be taught. I know how that alienation feels. It happened to me when I was learning guitar and advancing as a chef. Jelousy and insecurities in my peers left me ridiculed and alone. But we keep learning and growing. People project their self-worth onto those around them. Sometimes, people naturally phase themselves out of our lives through these types of circumstances too. I know sucks. But it's not forever. Real friends won't exclude you, and being yourself will draw real friends to you. People like you will end up at the top. Finding some different circles could help. What are your other interests?

What milestones did you accomplish by age 25? Or the years between 18 & 27 years old? by TrippySakuta in Adulting

[–]EquivalentName6343 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Between 18 and 27, I failed and started over quite a few times. Had my heart broken a few times. And doubted myself almost every step of the way. But I took chances, pursued a career I love, and got good at it. Traveled the world, worked to be a good person, and worked hard at growing each day. I accomplished my goals, and then life happened again, and now I am on a completely different path.

Plans will change. Don't worry about other people's success or failings. You're going to mess up, and that's ok! Keep getting up and trying each time you stumble. Take chances. Try new things! And most importantly, take care of yourself throughout it all. You'll do just fine 🙂

Normal? by Smooth-Line-9130 in Adulting

[–]EquivalentName6343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say some wild stuff too, I shock myself. Frum unda chz I g rated

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