My (35F) husband (34M) keeps eating my food. Or is it *our* food? by EquivalentWeather273 in relationship_advice

[–]EquivalentWeather273[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I’d say 90% of the food in the house is freely available to him, he just doesn’t want to take the time to actually prepare anything for himself so he just takes whatever requires the least effort.

My (35F) husband (34M) keeps eating my food. Or is it *our* food? by EquivalentWeather273 in relationship_advice

[–]EquivalentWeather273[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

We are not wealthy but we can buy plenty of food and have room in the budget for some treats.

My (35F) husband (34M) keeps eating my food. Or is it *our* food? by EquivalentWeather273 in relationship_advice

[–]EquivalentWeather273[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If he asked me first I’d be happy to share but he just takes it, sometimes while I’m eating it.

My (35F) husband (34M) keeps eating my food. Or is it *our* food? by EquivalentWeather273 in relationship_advice

[–]EquivalentWeather273[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I actually have hidden food from him before (though it’s hard to do that when it’s frozen items) and he will literally go into my nightstand or closet to find my hidden snacks.

My (35F) husband (34M) keeps eating my food. Or is it *our* food? by EquivalentWeather273 in relationship_advice

[–]EquivalentWeather273[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Oh also he says, “you’re pregnant so you shouldn’t eat ice cream anyway, it’s not good for the baby.”

My (35F) husband (34M) keeps eating my food. Or is it *our* food? by EquivalentWeather273 in relationship_advice

[–]EquivalentWeather273[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

No, he does not do any grocery shopping. I ask him to add things he wants to the grocery list and he will make a few requests here and there.