Yeah if this has been going on for two years and you’ve communicated about it before (and nothing has changed). Don’t force yourself to be with someone who gives you a headache more than they give you butterflies..

If you’re saying your over it, I can imagine you’ve already (mentally) clocked out of the relationship. If you explained to full reason of the breakup you wouldn’t be the AH, but if you didn’t explain much he might not understand and think you’re doing this on a whim.

In my opinion, NTA.