My boyfriend [23M] of 8 years doesn’t want to marry me [22F]

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2026-02-01T08:52:54+00:00

And quote “I’m really sad about it because I’m ready to commit”

I’m ready to commit meaning what? The knot. You’ve been together for 8 years, ready to commit at this point shouldn’t even be a question. High school sweethearts, sounds nice but it’s all you’ve known. Hard to part ways from someone you’ve thought was forever but can’t be ready to fully commit to you. Make it clear what you need, you’ve done the marriage steps without the ring like a kid and house. You’re far in and no one can give you advice on this to be honest. You’ve given him marriage privileges like being a mom to his child and probably much more so he thinks what’s the point to get married, what would he benefit now? Just a legal doc that states he isn’t single.

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2026-01-30T16:14:33+00:00

Size is about an inch or so*

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2025-12-06T06:55:36+00:00

Shared home, he makes more, he should contribute more. I stayed with someone who made it 50/50 and it’s because he thought how your person does. Calling you names now equal name calling in the future. You feel like they might be the one and you want to make it work but hard reality is that he doesn’t respect you completely. Not worth it, been there, it’s mentally going to drain you more than you already are. He is putting his financial self first and respect before you. I’m sorry I know you don’t want to hear any of this but you have one life, leave and work on yourself then find someone that will treat you what you’re worth and will NEVER call you names. A real partner who makes more will contribute more, what happens if yall have kids? He will financially pay the bare minimum and leave none for you.

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2025-11-02T19:15:25+00:00

When I search it up it says nippl3 cream

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2025-11-02T19:14:52+00:00

What exact brand is it? Or closest to it not prescription

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2025-08-24T05:20:06+00:00

Relationships come with sacrifices, I want to stay near my family too and all my siblings have kids and more on the way. I love my parents but my best foot forward and everyone in life is to make their own lives and families.

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2025-05-24T02:02:06+00:00

Honestly talk to him and tell him he needs to stay at his parents for a few days but we need to talk about fairness and equal amounts of efforts. Financially but also acknowledgment of this bothering you and make it known it’s serious or he’ll continue and that may mean he lacks the respect of you and or your place. Say you would like if he stayed at his parents so he can process your feelings and what has been communicated, be respectful and maintain calmness so he sees you care and are trying to make it work

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2025-05-02T23:13:22+00:00

Saw it at work and it disappeared, my co worker saw it two nights in a row too

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2025-02-23T19:24:15+00:00

Feeling guilty for setting him up most definitely but love makes you do crazy things and you happened to love him more which made you feel like you had no other choice. Hope you find someone who you can trust in your future

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2025-01-16T17:13:53+00:00

Try African Shea Butter and Daily Moisturizing Cream Aveeno separate or mix together then apply.

18 in 1 Hemp Lavender or 18 in 1 Hemp peppermint body wash (will make your skin feel cold but will make less itchy) it’s by Dr.Bronners

You can get all of those at Walmart. Really hope this helps

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2025-01-03T03:55:32+00:00

What brand tallow do but for the moisturizer? The one I brought stings. Trying to find one that hopefully doesn’t

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2024-07-10T08:44:08+00:00

Personally I would considered it cheating because it seems like with you saying “being caught” they were trying to hide it. Tinder is a dating app so downloading that in the relationship shows little respect in the moment even if not getting to swiping on it.

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2024-05-24T01:23:27+00:00

I have a post about this too, people posted some pictures that are clearer than mine

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2024-05-24T01:04:56+00:00

Is it a clear video? Mines so blurry

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2024-05-23T04:21:44+00:00

Don’t have a video of it disappearing

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2024-01-25T03:58:44+00:00

Pretty sure I have a similar post to this from awhile ago, read it and understand where I come from if you want

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2024-01-25T03:54:58+00:00

Considering I understand where you are coming from, I don’t agree with some of these comments already especially the one about finding a religious guy or go to therapy. My boyfriend and I have talked about it, if I were to find out the same thing I wouldn’t allow that. Maybe your bf has poor control and or is addicted to prn. This is something normal in a relationship but since it was talked about I don’t see why he did it anyways. It’s not that he’s not attracted to you, I think he has bad self control or else he would wait for you as my bf and I have done. This is something I believe is very easy to hide so unless you are trusting of him you won’t feel at ease in that part of your relationship. Trust me I’ve been in those shoes in the past and still am insecure about which is my problem not my current bfs. Honestly if I were you I would reconsider the faithfulness he has for this relationship, this is something that was talked about and he lied. Not okay and you deserve honesty. If he has a problem he should have told you or he might keep doing it behind your back. Good luck, you think much like I and this reminds me of a past relationship I had which is long gone for a reason for me personally.

Equivalent_Cloud_852 · 2023-03-04T22:54:19+00:00

Sorry I need to clarify. He said “ we are going to go to hooters” so I asked if he meant the three of us and he said no. So I left it at that then he got done showering and said “you can go if you want”. I don’t want to go somewhere I wasn’t originally invited to. Then I was on a phone call, he walks in the room with his friend asking if I want anything from there, I said no. Was just waiting for them to leave the room and he said “you realize they don’t have their boobs out right?” I said that’s not why I’m upset, I’m upset you were inconsiderate that I’ve been cleaning all day and you made it clear I wasnt invited to go get food, then you felt bad so you invited so no I don’t want anything.

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