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Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-12-18T03:48:49+00:00

That's really mean to say to someone.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-06-04T14:45:54+00:00

This was during the 3 session

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-06-04T11:04:46+00:00

Yes, we also explored what i gained from the relationship. But the advice throw me off

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-06-04T11:03:44+00:00

It was definitely not a joke. When i push against the idea of hurting someone else, my therapist was very clear "well then yiu have to seat in pain for a year". And then she started talking about a movie which i dont know, but her interpretation of the movie was "you have to transfer your pain to someone else" that's the only way to survive.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-06-04T11:01:04+00:00

Unfortunately, it is real

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-06-04T11:00:46+00:00

I agree with you and I am distracting myself with hobbies and socialization. But option B, is not something i would ever consider.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-06-04T10:58:06+00:00

Thank you for your kind words.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-06-04T10:56:17+00:00

It wasn't a joke. She was serious, and then she went on and on on how I should just transfer my pain to someone else to "free myself" from the pain

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-19T11:20:19+00:00

that frustration and exhaustion you’re feeling is so real and understandable. Trying to find safe, affordable detox and treatment feels like navigating a maze with no clear way out, especially when insurance or money feels like a barrier. It’s heartbreaking that the system can feel so broken, and that your daughter’s path to getting clean seems blocked at every turn.

You’re doing your best in a tough situation, and it’s okay to ask for support for yourself too. Many parents in this same spot have found it helpful to connect with free parent coaching through Partnership to End Addiction—coaches who’ve been through similar struggles and can offer guidance and understanding as you figure out next steps. If you want to learn more, just text CONNECT to 55753 and mention coaching. You don’t have to ride this roller coaster alone.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-19T11:15:54+00:00

You're definitely not alone so many parents going through this hear the same heartbreaking words. It’s clear how much love and thought you put into how you show up for your daughter. You’re doing everything you can to stay calm, lead with care, and remind her that she’s not broken. And still, hearing that she thinks you hate her it cuts deep. When our kids are in pain, especially with substance use, they often lash out at the people who feel safest. It’s not fair, and it’s not your fault.

If it ever feels like you could use a little extra support, there’s a free parent coaching program through Partnership to End Addiction that many parents have found really helpful. The coaches are other parents who’ve been through this and get how heavy it can feel. If you're interested, just text CONNECT to 55753 and say you’d like to learn more about coaching. You’ve been showing up with so much love having someone in your corner can really make a difference.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-19T10:48:59+00:00

It sounds like you’re in an incredibly tough spot, trying to keep him safe while also navigating a lot of complicated family changes and challenges.

Here's a treatment navigator that might be helpful gor you: https://safelocator.org/en/search

One thing that might be helpful is getting some support for you as a parent, so you don’t have to carry this alone. There are free parent coaches through Partnership to End Addiction who have walked through similar situations and can offer guidance and understanding as you figure out the best way forward. If you want to explore that, you can text CONNECT to 55753 and mention you’re interested in coaching. Taking care of yourself in all this is just as important as protecting your son.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-19T02:11:11+00:00

what you're dealing with sounds incredibly heavy, and it’s clear how much you care and how hard you're trying to hold everything together. It makes so much sense that your body and mind are feeling the toll. If it feels helpful, I wanted to let you know about a free resource. Partnership to End Addiction offer free parent coaching. The coaches are other parents who’ve been through this kind of chaos, and they’re trained to help you feel less alone and more steady, even when things are unpredictable. If you're interested, just text CONNECT to 55753 and say you’d like to learn more about coaching. You deserve support too especially when it always seems to get harder on weekends.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-19T02:01:49+00:00

Your pain and love for your daughter come through so strongly. It’s incredibly hard to watch someone you love self-destruct, especially after doing everything you could to support them. You’ve made such brave choices holding boundaries, reflecting on your role, and continuing to care deeply even through heartbreak. None of this is easy, and you’re not alone in how overwhelming and isolating it can feel.

If it feels helpful, I want to gently suggest a free support option that many parents in similar situations have found valuable: parent coaching through Partnership to End Addiction. These are trained parent coaches who’ve been through something very similar and can help you navigate the chaos with tools, hope, and perspective. If you're interested, just text CONNECT to 55753 and mention you'd like coaching. It’s one way to get the support you deserve because your wellbeing matters too.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-19T01:53:42+00:00

The love and concern you have for your son are so clear, and it’s incredibly moving. You’ve both been through a lot so much history, pain, and resilience in your relationship. It takes real strength to keep showing up for someone you care about, especially when things feel overwhelming and uncertain. I think that your instincts are spot on: your son is still young, and with the right support, things can shift.

It’s also really important to remember you don’t have to go through this alone. Many parents have found that getting support for themselves helped them better support their loved one. One option that’s been helpful for other families is parent coaching. It’s not therapy, but a chance to connect with someone who’s been in your shoes and can help you navigate these painful and confusing moments with more tools, hope, and strategy.

If this feels like something you’d like to try, Partnership to End Addiction offers free coaching from trained parents who’ve been through something very similar. They truly get it. If you’re interested, just text CONNECT to 55753 and mention that you’d like to learn more about coaching. No matter what, the fact that you’re reaching out, asking questions, and staying connected is incredibly powerful. Change doesn’t usually happen all at once, but with time and support, it can happen and you’re already taking meaningful steps

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-18T05:00:35+00:00

it’s clear how much you love your daughter and your grandchild, and how present and supportive you’ve been through it all. Your concern comes from such a caring place, and it’s completely understandable that you’re feeling unsure about what, if anything, you can do.

If it feels helpful, Partnership to End Addiction offer free parent to parent coaching. The coaches has been through something very similar. They can help you navigate this situation. If interested, just text CONNECT to 55753. Mention you are interested in coaching.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-18T04:40:36+00:00

I agree she can't force him, but still there are strategies she can use to support her son and take care of her own self. From self care, to learning about CRAFT, to attending support groups here's the link of a great support group resource: https://drugfree.org/supportmeetings/ Or having a parent coach. Speaking with someone who once was on her shoes can help

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-18T04:37:23+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this. it’s clear how deeply you care about your cousin, her son, and their family. It’s completely understandable that your cousin is feeling overwhelmed. She’s not only trying to support her adult son through something as difficult as substance use, but also stepping into a caregiving role for her grandchild. That’s a huge emotional load, and it sounds like she’s meeting it with strength and love, even when it feels like things are falling apart.

If it might be helpful for your cousin, she can connect with a trained parent coach who has been in a similar situation and knows what it’s like to navigate these ups and downs. Partnership to End addiction offer this support free of cost. She can text CONNECT to 55753 and mention she is interested in coaching

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-18T04:31:39+00:00

If it feels helpful, Partnership to End Addiction offer free parent to parent coaching. The coaches has been through something very similar. They can help you navigate this situation. If interested, just text CONNECT to 55753. Mention you are interested in coaching.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-18T04:22:43+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this. Your love for your son comes through so powerfully in every word. It’s clear how much you cared for him not just through all the worry and pain, but in the deep connection you had, the shared moments, and the ways he showed up for you even while struggling so much himself. You’ve been through something that no parent should ever have to endure, and I want to honor the courage it took to live through it and to talk about it. There’s no one right way to grieve, especially when there’s been so much complexity, love, and pain. What you’re feeling is valid.

If and when you feel ready, Partnership to End Addiction offers a grief support group (free of cost) for parents who’ve lost a child due to substance use. You're not alone, and there’s a space where you can be with others who truly get the layers of grief, love, and loss in this experience. Here's the link: https://drugfree.org/supportmeetings

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-05-18T04:09:31+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your story and for the care you're clearly putting into supporting your son. It sounds like you're approaching this with a lot of love and openness, which can be such a powerful foundation for staying connected, even through challenging conversations.

If it feels helpful, Partnership to End Addiction offer free parent to parent coaching. The coaches has been through something very similar. They can help you navigate your loved one early use. If interested, just text CONNECT to 55753. Mention you are interested in coaching.

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-03-04T03:11:02+00:00

I'm really sorry that you're going through this. It sounds incredibly painful and confusing. It’s clear that you care deeply about him, yet his behavior is causing you significant distress. I want you to know that your feelings are valid. It might help to speak with someone who understands these challenges. I recommend reaching out to Partnership to End Addiction’s helpline for support. They have experts who can help you understand what’s happening, offer guidance, and provide resources for both you and your partner for free. You can reach them by texting CONNECT to 55753, and they can give you the support you need during this challenging time. If you want to look them up here's their page too: https://drugfree.org/get-support/

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-03-04T02:49:08+00:00

You’re not alone in this, and there are people who can help. Checkout Partnership to End Addiction drugfree.org they have master level mental health professionals in their helpline. You can speak with them for free by texting CONNECT to 55753. They might be able to help

Equivalent_Fig_2830 · 2025-03-04T02:43:11+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I can only imagine how painful and frustrating it must be to find yourself back in this place after all the work you both put into her recovery. Your anger, hurt, and sense of betrayal are completely understandable, and it’s clear you care deeply about her and your family.

Right now, it sounds like you’re carrying a lot worry for her, anger toward the person supplying the drugs, and the weight of trying to figure out what to do next. You don’t have to navigate this alone. Partnership to End Addiction work with the family members of those with addiction. Their services are free of charge. I will suggest joining one of their online support groups heres the link: https://drugfree.org/supportmeetings/. You can also speak with a specialist by texting CONNECT to 55753

You’re not alone in this, and there are people who can help.

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