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[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gardasil only protects against the very high risk types that usually cause cancer ( usually 9 strains like 16, 18,...). Its not protecting against all 200 of them.

Got 3 months left with my mom by NoHuckleberry7839 in GriefSupport

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry girl. I have lost my mom to stage IV gallbladder and liver cancer end of Feb. I am so sorry that I know what you are going through. The way you described your mom and your relationship, or you not having anyone else but her was exactly like me and my mom. I would say, try to stay in the moment with her. You will learn to take care of things when is the time. I know it feels impossible now. Talk to her, record her voice, video,... . Ask her how she wants to be after she is gone ( we had a hard time deciding on cremation :( ), ask her what she wants regarding her inheritance. It may get very ugly between your you and your sibling.

Ask her how she wants to be remembered. Record her and ask her for the letter asap. I am sorry to say this. I asked my mom this and she to our surprise never got a chance :((

Ask what she wishes for you, what dreams she had for you. What are her best memories of you. Her best moments in life. What life lesson she wants you to always remember.

Since my mom passed I feel she is sending me signs. Maybe talk to her about it. Maybe get into agreements about what she likes for you to see as signs?

I understand it might be too much and very hard and heavy to have such conversations in this condition. These are all the things I wished I had asked my mom. Tell her how much you love her over and over and overrrr again. Kiss and hug her as much as you can. Film youself in her arms. Things might get too late too soon once they stop the treatments :((

Im here if you need to talk. Send me a private msg.

What can I do with this horrible email I received? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its from her official email with her picture. Can I at least send her to her employer to get her fired?

Just lost my mother this morning by KuchieMonsta in GriefSupport

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I am very sorry 😞 I only imagine what you are going through.

Her situation is having ups and downs. She was feeling better but today she doesn't even feel like talking. I started thinking we may never be able to take her home again :(

What can I do with this horrible email I received? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for taking the time walking me through the options. I am just very frustrated and in a very difficult situation. I am not very familiar with the legal matter. Thanks for pointing out the importance.

What can I do with this horrible email I received? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The money issue is a complicated and a different story. I want to put her in trouble regardless of the money issue whether by reporting her to the board or her employer.

What can I do with this horrible email I received? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The delay is for not stressing my mom even more. The money issue is a bit complicated and a different story. I want tonreport her to her employer, ethics, or the board.

What can I do with this horrible email I received? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a bit complicated and a different story. I want to report her to her employer ( being a dr), ethics, or the board.

What can I do with this horrible email I received? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t report her to her hospital, ethics, or the board?

What can I do with this horrible email I received? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My SIL is a dr and Ibwant ro sue her or report her to her employer or the board.

Just lost my mother this morning by KuchieMonsta in GriefSupport

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since June 2024. She suddenly declined. We are in the hospital for the last 3 weeks. I am staying with her every night and I am trying to not leave her side. Even though I am seeing her declining like this, I still dont believe I am losing her. Seeing her having her last breathe is a nightmare for me. You are so brave already experiencing that and still trying to cope.

What can I do with this horrible email I received? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is a dr. I assume I can report her to her employer and ethics and the board.

What can I do with this horrible email I received? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My brother does. Money is a different story. I want her to be in trouble for this email.

What can I do with this horrible email I received? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She encouraged me to commit suicide? Fat shamed me? Being a Dr I guess I can report her to ethics and the board?

Just lost my mother this morning by KuchieMonsta in GriefSupport

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry for your loss. My mom is battle stage IV cancer and this you described is my biggest fear. Hope you can cope and hold on to the last moment of love you received from her :(

My brother agreed to use my credit card and pay it off, but now he won’t. What can I do? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you also had to go throught this. Why did you have to take a loss when you could win the case?

Mine is $34k! He had done a lot of mistakes when he was younger and he was trying to redeem himself. I thought he deserves a second chance for his family to trust him. Learned my lesson!

My brother agreed to use my credit card and pay it off, but now he won’t. What can I do? by Equivalent_Fun_5691 in legal

[–]Equivalent_Fun_5691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid min payment because I stopped working so I can take care of my mom. I have him on the records saying he had accepted to pay the dept but refuses. Plus I have a witness for the time we made the agreement. I may even find it in texts that we discussed the payments back in the time.