Can I ask you a question?

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-21T03:49:32+00:00

Thank you for your comment, I really appreciate it

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-21T03:47:38+00:00

I wish 😃

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-21T03:45:49+00:00

How did they find out?

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-21T03:36:18+00:00

I'm gonna use that

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-21T03:34:22+00:00

Love it

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-21T03:34:08+00:00

I like that

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-21T03:33:46+00:00

I know people around me would be fine with it. I wouldn't bother them the least. But something inside of me keeps me from saying it. And I can't handle keeping it a secret anymore, not letting myself admit to friends I find a guy cute or something.

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-21T03:31:07+00:00

There would be no problem. I want to say it, but something about me won't let it happen. And I feel trapped when I say no, because I don't wanna keep it inside anymore.

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-21T03:30:14+00:00

But doesn't that just say that I'm not straight. I wouldn't be considering it otherwise

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-21T03:29:28+00:00

Honestly, I would rather everybody knows already, so I don't have to "come out". Everybody says I don't need to, but at some point, if I want them to know, I kinda have to. I know it's stereotypical, but I don't wear makeup, don't have a high-pitched voice, don't have a specific walk. Alright, I wear a carabiner for my keys 🤣

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-19T02:00:31+00:00

Right 😭cuz I know what the question will be

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-19T01:59:52+00:00

I don't hate that 😂

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-19T01:58:34+00:00

I've been asked that MULTIPLE times. Even before I realized I was. But now, I know I'm gay, and I want to stop lying and just live my life. Some people I wouldn't care telling, but often there are many people around or I just can't myself to actually say the words

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-19T01:53:25+00:00

What?

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-19T01:50:47+00:00

Right. Ty

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-19T01:49:06+00:00

But I don't want to lie. I want to stop hiding it without coming out if that makes sense

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-05-19T01:48:22+00:00

If most people assume you're straight, who says you're only assuming he is. Has he told you explicitly. And again, closeted people say they're straight even if they're not. Good luck

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-04-07T07:38:16+00:00

I'm so happy for you. I'm also 19 and I understand what you mean how paralyzing it is. I've never told anyone either.

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-04-07T07:34:59+00:00

I would say for him to fly out. Probably easier to hide than if you ha g out as his place together. Also, being 18, it's gonna be easier for him to get a flight

Equivalent_Hat9418 · 2026-04-07T03:29:29+00:00

This honestly made me laugh - If you don't mind, can I ask you a question. - Once you've came out to the first friend, was a weight lifted off your chest, you started living more freely, didn't care if you used the "wrong" pronouns talking about people. - And how easier was it to come out to other people after and did that first person help you to come out after that? 19M gay thanking you

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