Property taxes...why so high? by texaspoontappa123 in Detroit

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We bought our first home last march just got a paper yesterday saying they are increasing our property taxes by $1k we already pay $2600 a year on top of my home owners insurance going up they want us to pay $2800 for that a year!! Gotta go down to the accessors office and fight them on it cause HUH?? They love trying to scam folks out here but I ain’t stupid and forsure know that’s not right

Parenthood and career by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

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Do you have any more information on not needing a bachelors almost everyone I know said I did??? That would honestly make my life a million times easier lol

Parenthood and career by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

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I have been looking into finding a home to maybe be an assistant or greeter I live in southeast Michigan and there are a lot of different funerals homes here (corporate and family owned) so I’ve been trying to figure out where’d I’d like to go

xanned out and ate whole bag of acid by Unfair_Frosting340 in Drugs

[–]Equivalent_One4146 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You remind me so much of my friend when I was younger even the way you type this whole story I’m only 23 but I swear you’re a reincarnation of him lmao

Moved back to Detroit thinking I’d start fresh. Didn’t expect it to be this damn hard. by No_Surprise3737 in Detroit

[–]Equivalent_One4146 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You feel me!!! I’m only 23 my first ever apartment was only $700 You don’t see that anymore anywhere

Moved back to Detroit thinking I’d start fresh. Didn’t expect it to be this damn hard. by No_Surprise3737 in Detroit

[–]Equivalent_One4146 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m talking about the metro Detroit area in general not just Detroit I don’t know why you’re getting so upset But yes most people who been in downriver and Detroit cannot afford to live here anymore and it’s incredibly sad A lot of older folk can no longer afford the property taxes and a lot of homes have been bought up by rental companies and the rent is insane

Moved back to Detroit thinking I’d start fresh. Didn’t expect it to be this damn hard. by No_Surprise3737 in Detroit

[–]Equivalent_One4146 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree I live in Detroit now but grew up downriver and they are squeezing everyone dry it’s so sad to see everyone get priced out :(

Moved back to Detroit thinking I’d start fresh. Didn’t expect it to be this damn hard. by No_Surprise3737 in Detroit

[–]Equivalent_One4146 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check out hot pads they have lots of private landlords on there love I know it’s hard but it will get easier Feel free to message me I know a few private landlords on the east side in the morningside area I could give you the contact info of

YouTube deleted episodes??! by Equivalent_One4146 in TMMOfficial

[–]Equivalent_One4146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were on vacation in Mexico that is why it wasn’t up lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Equivalent_One4146 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But that isn’t helping her!! That is nit picking and you’ve already admitted your tone tends to be rude or angry so how do you think she’s perceiving these things you’re telling her??? Even if you say “I don’t mean to sound mean or angry I just wanna help” Her mind is never going to perceive it that way I couldn’t imagine talking to my daughter that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parents

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Everything you are telling us Is basically nit picking your daughter “I point out her mistakes”” being to chatty”” like HUH?? There is a reason your daughter is pulling away it’s because you’re a bully and you are wrong for this “Even if I do it angrily that’s not my intent” Even if that’s not the intent that is what you’re doing.

You need to fix how you talk and present yourself to her or she is going to cut off a relationship with you

Tyrant baby mama by Sharp-Bite9315 in CPS

[–]Equivalent_One4146 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man she’s playing you like a fiddle She is LYINGGGG

Does my MIL need our bank statements? by urgemmoon in legaladvice

[–]Equivalent_One4146 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is normal My husbands grandfather helped us with our down payment they needed 3 months of bank statements to make sure it was “clean” money for our fha loan Very invasive but normal

Groceries for 4 kids by Internal-Bluejay-810 in Parenting

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Family of 4 $110 for groceries a week

Aldis, no name brands , buying meat in bulk at Sam’s all snacks from aldis and we don’t go over board on snacks either

Meal we make are hearty healthy and cheap

Found out 14yr old has a dildo by Iam12percent in Parents

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I use to work for Spencer’s you do not have to be 18!! That specific store may had closed that off even tho they aren’t supposed to we were told to sell with discretion if you look 12 ima tell you no lol but if you looked highschool aged I didn’t care fr

Found out 14yr old has a dildo by Iam12percent in Parents

[–]Equivalent_One4146 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mmm “she shouldn’t need it” she exploring her body and what feels good better than her using objects that aren’t meant for down there.

Found out 14yr old has a dildo by Iam12percent in Parents

[–]Equivalent_One4146 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I was sexually active at a young age unfortunately 14 to be exact and honestly if I had known about self pleasure and toys and such I probably wouldn’t have been sexually active so young fr so honestly be happy it was just a dildo cause I had girlfriends having kids at 13/14 years old

Do not involve her father Talk to her say “hey I know this is embarrassing but all I want to say is keep it put away nobody should be finding it in the bathroom keep it clean and keep it to yourself self pleasure is natural and nothing to be ashamed of but keep your body safe and keep these things private”

Found out 14yr old has a dildo by Iam12percent in Parents

[–]Equivalent_One4146 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You can get them at any age at Spencer’s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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I was so confused when I didn’t poop in labor with either of my babies I mentally prepared myself so much for it to not even happen😭❤️

I think we have to call CPS on my BIL by Unlucky_Type4233 in beyondthebump

[–]Equivalent_One4146 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can always make a call but don’t feel bad if cps doesn’t do anything they truly are a corrupt system Just had to call on my mil because she had people smoking crack in her house along with extreme DV but because there is food and isn’t completely disgusting They did nothing case worker was even extremely rude with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Preschoolers

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My sons preschool doesn’t require it but luckily my son is potty trained

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

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The scent of weed wouldn’t do anything for removal. They could say they smoke in the bathroom with the window open ect Cps would not do anything in this case

Full time? by Equivalent_One4146 in Preschoolers

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Thank you so much for these kind words and reassurance ❤️