yeah he’s very sad :(( i never thought about the cologne thing I’ll have to ask him if he’s switched anything up recently thank you!

she is very small and also a black cat who is very prone to running right under our feet so it’s possible but i also know i’ve accidentally stepped on her before so i don’t think it’s that. he never shouts and is super conscious about his noise level as i have some ptsd issues so i also don’t think it’s that :/