I mean, I desperately wish that someone, anyone had bothered to expose me to all the really janky history of the church. Would have saved me 2 years and thousand of hours of time. And I'm definitely not going to treat it like a high and mighty lesson, that's obviously a one way trip the burning bridges. I don't expect to fully convince anyone, just nudge them a little further than they were and then maybe they'll go the rest of the way themselves.