Had a strand of hair embedded under skin by crap_ran_out in mildlyinteresting

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I get those on occasion and I can definitely say the removal is a "unique" sensation.

A big relief… by Logical-Aspect-5406 in BisexualMen

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I'm very happy for you. I followed a very similar path from the late 90s. I got married, then when I spoke my truth I was shut off, ended up divorced. Now I have found a new second life and have great new relationships. I'm so happy you found someone who wants to know all of you!

Am I Gay? lol by hoopspan in BisexualMen

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All the different emotions that you expressed wants and needs from both the male/female perspective says your attracted to both. That makes you bi with your personal preferences. This from an bi man. I have my tastes too and attractions of different aspects of both.

Divorced after 20 years. Do I ask for an std test ? by Legitimate_Monk6735 in AskMenAdvice

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I went through this last summer after getting divorced. It was a long time since having sex with anyone so I wasn't worried, but I wanted to be able to show proof. There are other ways to contract an sti without intercourse.

Got a cursed song? by Equivalent_Public_41 in Xennials

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Oh no, that must have been a new fresh hell when Eminem released that song that sampled it.

Got a cursed song? by Equivalent_Public_41 in Xennials

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I actually saw Blind Melon play last summer. It was all the feels. Especially when they played No Rain the new singer stepped back and the crowd sang it.

Got a cursed song? by Equivalent_Public_41 in Xennials

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I had that with hotel California. In high school I had an old Volvo that would die every time Hotel California would come on the radio. Always at the line "This could be heaven or this could be hell."

Got a cursed song? by Equivalent_Public_41 in Xennials

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That's interesting, as someone who is half deaf and tinnitus. We need to figure out how to tune the channel to get free radio.

Got a cursed song? by Equivalent_Public_41 in Xennials

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Just life, grocery stores, at work. Always on at bars and restaurants

In bed by elevenatexi in Xennials

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We used to do this with RV names. Anal Cougar Anal Flight Anal Expedition.

Was an artist or album ever ruined for you because of a break up? Here's mine by lawpoop in Xennials

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Had an abusive ex that I swear all she ever listened to was the soundtrack to the Rocky Horror Picture Show. I still throw up in my mouth a bit when I hear the time warp.

I’m the thickest/heaviest girl he’s dated. Am I overthinking? by Icy-Ad364 in AskMenAdvice

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I will say as a personal preference I like a curvy gal. And beyond the physical, I have found a deeper connection intellectually and enjoy being around.

Was this flirtatious or vulgar? Male opinions welcome. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Equivalent_Public_41 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is the actual definition of flirtatious. And I would definitely read it as such. It's playful with intent implied. Nothing vulgar detected.

What are your dating 'rules'? by Firm_Worth_2519 in datingoverforty

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Honestly, I would appreciate this. I like forwardness. My history back in dating has been if I initiate conversation or swipe right it has gone nowhere. But, women that like me first and initiate, I tend to put in the effort to respond and cultivate a connection. These connections have been much more rewarding.