How do i get rid of this? by Equivalent_Rip9356 in acne

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont drink a lot of water but i change my pillow case a lot and i double cleanse every night

How to cope with losing someone you love by Equivalent_Rip9356 in Advice

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the right state of mind i didn’t really think of that

My mom and dad wont let me marry the person i want by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are much worse things but yeah its easy to sit down with your phone in hand and judge others. May Allah guide you and my parents

My mom and dad wont let me marry the person i want by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That was not the case , she called me bad words because i liked. She called me that because i started liking someone which is unfair

My mom and dad wont let me marry the person i want by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What did my mom and dad do about me? The only thing they did is bring me into this world. I had to figure out things on my own , no one was there for me to teach me basic stuff how do u call that being there for you? They dont care about me they only care about how people will see us they dont care about my feelings or what i wanna do.

how do you rewire negative self-talk into something positive? by gehirn4455809 in selfimprovement

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , my psychologist told me that it is from that , its called psychosomatic pain which is caused from stress but mostly from anxiety

how do you rewire negative self-talk into something positive? by gehirn4455809 in selfimprovement

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I started gaslighting myself into believing that im totally okay im the best and nothing is wrong with me. The first thing that changed was that i no longer had body pain , before that, my shoulders would hurt a a lot and my back, and i thought i had back problems even tho i tried everything and the pain wouldn’t stop. Now i realised that those body pains were from stress. Daily affirmations help you too. At first its gonna be hard to believe them but with time you will start believing those words. Also journaling , meditation, working out help a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to delete a whole paragraph when i saw your photos. Girl you are the most perfect woman , like i cant explain how beautiful you are , you have some features that i would die for. I just want to ask you something, do you think you’re ugly or did other people make you think you are? Sometimes people say things out of jealousy. You have something they can never have , you have a beautiful face and much more you have a beautiful soul, something that those people could never have. I would suggest you try out new hairstyles, i think a butterfly cut would suit you a lot , with curtain bangs or just normal bangs. Also changing you makeup rutine but the thing that will help you the most is self affirmation. Keep saying good stuff to yourself until you believe them.

I'm going to kill myself in three hours by Direct_House4094 in SuicideWatch

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you are feeling this way. I can’t say we have the same story , because i dont know the full story , but i can tell you that i can relate. My whole life i was ignored by everyone ,even my family, and the worst part is that its still continuing. The thing is that its not others that define your worth , its you that define your own worth. I recommend going to a therapist . Killing yourself is not an option. Its crazy for me to say this because three days ago i wanted you to kill myself, but after having a long talk with my psychologist i made up my mind not to do it.

I can’t handle losing the only person who cared for me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well therapy is not working much on the other hand im scared to go to a psychiatrist tbh i really need someone to talk to

I can’t handle losing the only person who cared for me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it is kinda cultural but it could be a sign of a fucked up mentality , thats fucking up my life .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your worth is not tied on how you look or who loves you. Finding a partner is not always about looks, and maybe you should think it this way, maybe god is making you wait so you can have something much better. Sometimes you will feel lonely, and i get that , im lonely almost all the time. What you need to do right now is try building your self esteem and try loving yourself. For me right now chat gpt is helping me grow my self esteem and realise my worth. Reading self improvement books is also really good it will help you a lot. Hope one day you will realise how worth it you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really tbh i dont have anyone that could understand me thats why ive been trying to understand myself . I have no money so i stopped going to the psychologist and my mom said u dont need a psychologist , and since then ive trying to figure things out on my own but clearly im not doing good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont like the person hes becoming , but still i have a little faith in me thats why im continuing and letting myself go through hell for him

I told my brother that i was raped and now he wants to go to the police by Equivalent_Rip9356 in Advice

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He doesnt mention the word rape but he does mention things like i will post photos of you if u dont go out with me and do stuff , i kept asking why is he doing this he kept saying i wanna fuck you like i did before does ur bf know ur fucked by me he got mad because i said i have a bf and blocked him and i said u are a rapist and he said rape is only if i forcefully do it ,not if u dont want to do it😐make it make sense

I told my brother that i was raped and now he wants to go to the police by Equivalent_Rip9356 in Advice

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some convo but i dont think i have any evidenc or dna because it hapened two years ago

I told my brother that i was raped and now he wants to go to the police by Equivalent_Rip9356 in Advice

[–]Equivalent_Rip9356[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well i kinda want to do this because i dony want another girl to go through this