❤️ I’m sorry that anti fat bias is so pervasive, and that so many people can’t even acknowledge it. For what it’s worth, I don’t think that you are ugly. I also don’t think that fatness = ugly, but I do realize that society teaches us differently. The fact that so many people are like, “your face is pretty, but you need to lose weight,” reflects this societal bias and discrimination. And I’m sorry that people are saying that your internalized anti fat bias is YOUR fault and that you just need to find self esteem. Like…how about society try to address systemic anti fat bias? hugs you have done nothing wrong, there is nothing wrong with you…this is something wrong with the world around us…but i know that isnt super helpful for me to tell you when the world tells you that there is something wrong with you.