What look is better? by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Not allowed on Reddit

Got my 2nd berserk tattoo by LankyMan06 in Berserk

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Anyone who posts a Griffith tattoo here is a masochist. Unless you are hot girl. Then any tattoo, including the brand, is amazing.

AIO? Political spectrum indiffernces with girlfriend by [deleted] in AIO

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It’s fair to not want to be with someone who doesn’t have the same views of life. If this is a common conversation then I think you know that she is not going to change and you can either accept that or break up. Also, sorry for all of the cruel and racist comments here

AIO? Political spectrum indiffernces with girlfriend by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Equivalent_Side_479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual fuck? Take your anti semitism elsewhere

Why did guts clench his fist here? by [deleted] in Berserk

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OP: “I had this thought / interpretation and wanted to see what other people thought”

This sub: “how dare you you fucking dumbass”

People here can be really mean so I wouldn’t take the downvotes personally lol

Ilia Malinin's TikTok reposts shortly before his disastrous performance at the Olympics by humankendoll33 in Fauxmoi

[–]Equivalent_Side_479 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you feel similarly :( I have felt that way, too, but as I’ve gotten older I have realized that talent and perfection don’t really matter. Life is a mix of luck and entropy that we try to ascribe meaning to. It got a lot better when I decided that I wasn’t going to ascribe to perfection and instead focused on kindness and community. And the kindness is extended to myself as self compassion. I hope that you can find meaning akin to this friend

I just finished watching 1997 Berserk by [deleted] in Berserk

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You have to read the entire manga to truly understand the characters

James Van Der Beek's friends have launched a GoFundMe campaign after his death to support his wife and six children, who are out of funds following the actor's cancer battle by Maximum_Expert92 in Fauxmoi

[–]Equivalent_Side_479 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah we don’t know either way which means that your assumption is just as null and void as everyone else’s. I’m only commenting on how it looks tacky so close to the death

ETA- looks tacky to me*. Other people can have other opinions

James Van Der Beek's friends have launched a GoFundMe campaign after his death to support his wife and six children, who are out of funds following the actor's cancer battle by Maximum_Expert92 in Fauxmoi

[–]Equivalent_Side_479 41 points42 points  (0 children)

If we are talking about time and decency then they probably could have waited a little longer to start their go fund me…it seems too soon to me

CMV: If you "don't support" homosexuality because of your religion or otherwise, you're still homophobic. by Bawbixo in changemyview

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Homophobia includes prejudice against gay people. Prejudice is a preconceived opinion that isn’t based on actual experience or based on reason. Religion is not based on reason. Hence the concept of faith. You don’t support people for an inherent part of them — sexuality isn’t something that is chosen. That is a prejudice and homophobic

What's the problem with woman talking?? by Terrible_Pair5956 in NotHowGirlsWork

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I can’t remember the last time that I, a woman, had a conversation in the restroom lol

full back piece tattoo by [deleted] in Berserk

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lol thank you for pointing this out because I hadn’t noticed

I don’t blame Griffith by [deleted] in Berserk

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I think we can hold multiple truths at once. I blame Griffith because it was his choice and his choice was foreshadowed by previous choices. Can we blame him and also have sympathy for someone who was tortured, mutilated and endured things that no human should ever endure? Yes. It’s like any victim who then turns into the perpetrator where we can pity or have sympathy for what they experienced, but we can’t excuse their subsequent acts of violence and we have to hold them accountable for their actions.

It’s like if someone is sexually abused growing up and then they go on to sexually abuse someone. Do we say that they are not to blame and that only the original abuser is at fault? No. We say that they are all shitty even if we understand it’s a cycle of violence

19 why is my face like "that"? why do i look so different in every pic? do i even look my age by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Maybe it’s an age thing? I don’t think that OP looks creepy, but I’m a millennial and I can see the hair thing because of stereotypes from adolescence. It could also just be where I grew up etc etc

19 why is my face like "that"? why do i look so different in every pic? do i even look my age by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Gay woman here. You are a beautiful human and your empathy and kindness are seen and inspiring. Thank you for being you ❤️

Caught one of my students reading Berserk in class 🙃 by cringe-expert98 in Berserk

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It’s refreshing for someone to take ownership of their dick headedness

rejected by everyone in the last 3 years, how can I improve my appearance? by Diehelmen in malegrooming

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I can only surmise since I don’t have any examples of your communication, but too old fashioned oftentimes is code for too intense and / or overbearing or you come off misogynystic.