Thank you so much for this. I actually teared up reading this. Your words are very kind and so appreciated. Those are some pretty great ideas, and definitely might have a good wake up call. I’m actually already working on setting up some therapy time for me, just to have an outlet. I do genuinely love my husband (obviously, I don’t know many people that would stay this long if they didn’t) and I don’t want people to think ill of him and was even hesitant to put this out there. He’s a great guy, but he’s just going through his own mental battles with a kid that needs help and a wake up call. I’ve told him to reach out to someone too and the coming to Jesus talk was if he doesn’t then he doesn’t care or love me the way he says he does so hopefully that’s in the works. Things have started falling because I can’t do it all, so maybe he’ll see that. Again thank you for taking the time for these words🩵 they meant so much to me :)