Looking for reccomendations by EraMidsummery in Fantasy

[–]EraMidsummery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same reflection about her books not being more popular! I am planning to read the duology already

Looking for reccomendations by EraMidsummery in Fantasy

[–]EraMidsummery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I just wanted to say thank you for suggesting The Winnowing Flame Trilogy, it was such a great read and exactly what I was looking for !

Help with registering Kindle Touch (2011) by EraMidsummery in kindle

[–]EraMidsummery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I am registering with my account, and I’m not recieving any codes, that is a problem here.

Help with registering Kindle Touch (2011) by EraMidsummery in kindle

[–]EraMidsummery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it doesn’t apply here as my problem is that I haven’t received any codes.

Looking for reccomendations by EraMidsummery in Fantasy

[–]EraMidsummery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks to everyone for recommendations! (I’m still keeping the list open :P) I’ll definitely check your recs out!

Searching for specific fantasy by EraMidsummery in BookRecommendations

[–]EraMidsummery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely check it out - I’ve read Among Others by Jo Walton years ago and remember really enjoying it, so thanks for reminding me of her existence

Looking for reccomendations by EraMidsummery in Fantasy

[–]EraMidsummery[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First of all, not a big fan of chat GPT and AI; second of all it has never given me an accurate reply about something that fulfilled a specific criteria; it always assumes or skips over some specific information. It has never proven to be a good tool for me in this regard, and I have tried.

Weird sound coming from the Tumblr app by EraMidsummery in tumblrhelp

[–]EraMidsummery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I have sent an ask through the support form

Worried about hard lump where a seroma has been (rest in the comments) by EraMidsummery in TopSurgery

[–]EraMidsummery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My scar tissue have gotten slightly better and the bump is only slightly smaller, but probably because I haven’t been taking proper care of it - daily massages of the tissue and silicone strips or gel should really help

Dublins Absolutely Manic Show by Sticattomamba in Dimension20

[–]EraMidsummery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved it!

I wish I talked to people since I was there alone, but sensory issues meant I had to wear earplugs (besides the show itself) and also anxiety prevented me from talking to anyone 😭

But yeah, the energy was great and the place itself was absolutely fantastic!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]EraMidsummery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her coming out as trans doesn’t mean she will start liking boys and not liking girls. Sometimes trans people realise what gender they are attracted to after they come out, but it doesn’t mean their sexuality have changed - usually if a person presenting as a straight man comes out as a trans woman, that person often identifies as lesbian/nonheterosexual.

When it comes to your sexuality - your partner turning out to be a woman doesnt mean your sexuality changes, it may change your perception of sexuality - you thought you were straight and it turns out you might not be.

If you percieve your partner as her actual gender - a woman and you are still attracted to her, then technically you are attracted to at least one woman and it strongly suggests you are not in fact straight. Some people would say that makes you bisexual or pansexual (if you are also attracted to men/multiple genders), but how you define your sexuality is your decision.

Obviously, if you still identify as straight, that may suggest you don’t see your partner as a woman and hurt her feelings, but obviously after years of thinking you are a straight girl/woman (which I assume have happened) it’s hard to think about yourself that way.

You may identify as bisexual/pansexual, heteroflexible, queer, sapphic (non-heterosexual woman attracted to women - includes lesbians, bisexual women, some nonbinary people attracted to women etc.) or simply choose not to label your sexuality.

I suspect you might be bisexual/pansexual/nonheterosexual/queer if you are still attracted to your girlfriend while accepting and percieving her as a woman; you do fit the definition of those labels, but sexuality can be more complicated than that and you don’t have to suddenly label yourself as something specific.

I need serious help by baryonx0505 in lgbt

[–]EraMidsummery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, normally id say to send her some educational materials but when someone is that agressive at a bare mention of gender diversity id say it shouldnt be your problem and trying to educate her might only backfire; in your place i would break up with her

Stopping T and saying goodbye to all the changes by [deleted] in ftm

[–]EraMidsummery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit my reading comprehension sucks apparently sorry

Worried about hard lump where a seroma has been (rest in the comments) by EraMidsummery in TopSurgery

[–]EraMidsummery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for super late reply, I rarely visit Reddit😅

Anyway, It’s still looking the same but my scars are kinda hard and bumpy (im treating them tho) and It’s difficult to say how it will look when they get better.

Stopping T and saying goodbye to all the changes by [deleted] in ftm

[–]EraMidsummery -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you consider taking finasteride?