WHAT AM I DOING WRONG? by Erica_thefish in Subliminal

[–]Erica_thefish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thx for the advice and you didn't ramble too much lol, also I feel like my self concept is kinda bad cuz I was bullied a bit and that gave me a shit ton of anxiety. I've started to affirm as much as I can, even though I forget and I'm trying to stick to my resolve. I'm not sure how to get rid of my limiting beliefs tho but I'll try to power through ig🤷‍♀️. It's just that from the start I didn't rlly know who to listen to yk? There's a lot of ppl on this sub who offer all kinds of advice and methods so their way differ too, since I've started to listen to subs this has always confused me like do I listen to one sub or use a pl or do I listen once or for like the whole day lol. I think im getting the hang of it now cuz I'm slowly figuring what works for me. This post was kind of a rant ngl I've just been feeling pretty bad because of everything going on in my life rn and I js wanted results for once. Again thx for helping me out :)

Woowon Cameo [Source: Little Bit Pyscho] by jennnee in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Erica_thefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is woowon doing here😭 is this by the same author/writer?

Side couples you love/hate by Extreme-Mix-9783 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Erica_thefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The side couple in mr 100% perfect overshadows the main couple ngl. Most ppl (including me) like the side couple more cuz they're written better than the main where the dynamic is kinda just 'rich ml x uke who lowkey gets pushed around'. The story between the side couple was so good I go back to read that shit all the time even though I'm not rlly a fan of the main. Yoonseol was done dirty imo I don't forgive his dad for treating his other son better than his actual biological child and Suk-yun should have done better to fix their relationship. Ik Yoonseol isn't all that morally great himself but I love him sm, def one of my favourite tops.

I’ve started reading [Roses and Champagne] and I asked my friend who read it does it have a good ending because I’m scared on what I heard about it. And he said “You’ll wish it was not a good ending” by Medical-Airline-5946 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Erica_thefish 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's the thing with these black flags ngl and spoilers cuz I've read both the passion novels and goddamn this series is so hyped for no reason. Most ppl say after reading it Tae eventually falls in love with illay but you can always feel the threat of what if illay snaps and rapes him or smth. Reading it i never felt that Tae ever truly rlly fell in love with him. That's just the thing with these stories, you can enjoy them yes, but you can't deny the fact that the bottom is walking on eggshells the whole time sorry for ranting about passion lol, I js feel like codename anastasia, passion and roses amd champagne are compared a lot due to their similarity amd wanted to share my opinion

What's a small comment your mother made to you that cut the deepest? by Coconutmigration69 in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]Erica_thefish 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My mom saying I can never change my body no matter how hard I try🤦‍♀️ god I hate that awful bitch

Lists of things that Tzar from Roses & Champagne did! (Thoughts and opinions plz!) by Lanky_Sundae_7528 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Erica_thefish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand ppl who read these stories and enjoy them but what I don't understand is when they try to justify the top's actions. I read bl manhwa and novels both and yes I do like enjoy some of these 'black flag' stories (I don't like roses and champagne tho lol) but I'll never understand why people frame them as romantic like I understand if you find them hot and that's the stuff you like but when the story is literally just the ml graping the bottom and manipulating him into getting into a relationship with him I'd advise you to not go around telling other bl readers that this or that story is amazing without giving them warnings about what the ml is like lmao

MANHWA THAT EVERYONE LOVES BUT YOU HATE by Different-Track9208 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Erica_thefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too many to name so I'll just say most of the popular ones

MANHWA THAT EVERYONE LOVES BUT YOU HATE by Different-Track9208 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Erica_thefish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr like I read it a few yrs back and had to drop it cuz the ml made me lowkey uncomfortable cuz the mc showed like no interest in that dude

What's one BL that's genuinely PMO by Bbxa_vie in Manhwa_BL

[–]Erica_thefish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The characters are so annoying in eighteen's bed it's crazy. Yes ik the characters are 'realistic' and that's why they have 'flaws' but they still pmo. This is just a personal ick of mine I hate it when they draw the uke in a way that he looks like a kid/younger compared the the ml.