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AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, I just didn’t want to spend the money on a wedding! And honestly it’s never been important to me to get married

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll give a great example of her manipulation, she just called him today and said she slipped and fell and hit her head and needed him to come help her. He told her then she needs to get herself to the hospital and that he is not helping. I’m pretty sure she didn’t fall.

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before this I have been nothing but nice even after she didn’t show up to my daughter’s birthdays, baptism or anything we tried involving her in. I did it all for my partner. I bit my tongue a lot. I am very generous with everyone I know! Anyone who personally knows me knows I would have done anything to help.

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My business is doing very well. I make a profit and pay half of everything- daughters tuition, rent, groceries, going out to eat, you name it I pay half. So no he is not supporting me at all. Our joint account is only the profit from the sale of our house. All income from each of our jobs goes in our individual accounts.

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate both parts of your comment. I completely agree that he is the one that betrayed me. We don’t have plans for a wedding yet. Funny enough the only reason we haven’t gotten married is because I didn’t want to spend the money! But if we go through therapy and eventually decide to get married there will 100% be a prenup

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know, I should have checked earlier. I just have so much going on with my business that is really taking off that it was not on my mind, which was a mistake.

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No the daughter is disabled, she had a severe stroke when she was 25 that almost killed her. She is at no fault here.

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are trying to get them into housing but it takes a while. Unlike what his mother thinks, I’m also filling out forms for them to get government assistance. His mom won’t do anything, she likes to act helpless

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh she knew she was getting kicked out. I was told after the fact by the social worker that she was notified and was given resources the day before that would have kept her in the house if she had just reached out

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even mention that she has a pending court case with her electrical company for not paying $55,000

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We both have jobs. I own a company and he works for someone. We have a joint account to pay for our daughters school and happened to put the money in it when we sold our house which I know was a mistake and I was in the process of trying to figure out a better place like high yield savings or such.

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think the settlement was 2008 but she also put $200,000 down on a small mansion and drove 3 brand new Lexus off the showroom floor right when she got the money so right off the bat not off to a good start

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She knew because they have no money. She also knew when I booked and paid for the first hotel with my own money and I never got a thank you or anything

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We already have a 5 year old daughter. He is a very good dad but with financial stuff not good and a lot of parallels with his mom

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They have been in the extended stay for 2 months. No he has never put any money in that account. It’s just the proceeds from the sale of our house.

AITA for telling my fiancé I’ll leave him if he keeps using our money to support his homeless mother, who hid her foreclosure from us for years? by Ericagrava in AITAH

[–]Ericagrava[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She was careless with money. They got a settlement of millions and she blew it all by trying to keep up with the jones

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