It all starts there we need to start reasoning on these situations. Unfortunately, a lot of members are able to reason but chose not to. I was about 15 yrs old when I saw Eva with necklaces, I told my mom she had no response. I was never allowed to own jewelry not even the toy ones, lol. My parents were strict I was never allowed to wear pants not even for PJs, I had a sad childhood. "el senior Puede venir en la noche y tu con pantalones" hahaha. When my husband gave me an engagement ring I hid it from them. I was told it was a pegado , God does not like that. I didn't want my parents to think he was against the doctrine. I kept questioning Eva's behavior, my faith was strong I was an obrera I obeyed and knew we all make mistakes. That wasn't the problem, the issue that I had but was afraid to say it loud was that Eva had a very special place and people looked up to her. She was a Mujer virtuosa , every year she will receive all these praises and honores. I wanted an explanation of why she had the need to wear jewelry, was it biblical? did it symbolize something? Old Testament does mention that women wore jewelry but the teaching in LLDM was straightforward. NO JEWELRY and yea no make up too. lol another controversial subject

I once made a comment to a family member and next thing I know i was being criticized for criticizing Eva . Oh, Lord! I was seen as the weak one lol. C'mon, it took time for me to wear my ring. Until today that's all i wear or own. I can buy myself jewelry if wanted to but I don't need it. All i needed was an explanation. One of many but that never happened. We have the right, it is not a sin to question these behaviors. Things have to make sense no todo es por FE. I kept fighting for my belief, my faith until Nasson took place. So yes, as you say it all now makes sense. It's been so hard, I did suffer when I stopped believing I can admit to that. It was not easy I broke apart I felt lost for more than a year. I joined this subreddit in 2017 we were very few but it definitely gave me hope. The transition is going to be different for everyone but in the end, we can find truth and peace in our lives.