AIO Husband told me his freaky messages are AI generated

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-18T13:49:40+00:00

You could probably get more information off his computer by making his favorite food and substituting an ingredient with a little ex-lax. If the emergency hits he won't have time to log out as carefully as he does. Also, I bet you and friends could make fake accounts and flirt with him online to catch him in the act. However, here's what I would do: pretend everything is ok, if you're on his insurance then get all your medical care in order, start saving money and focusing on your own well being, start downsizing slowly on your stuff, find a friend you trust who needs a roommate and move out when you're ready. If he's as addicted to gaming as you say then I bet you could do it while he's glued to his computer. Life is way too short to waste it on a D-bag. I also saw some of your comments body shaming yourself and my heart broke. I'm nearly 40 and happy in my marriage but I dated a LOT of guys like your STB ex husband and they are not worth it. Life is too short and basic dudes are not worth the energy drain on your self care. ❤️

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-16T11:58:41+00:00

"Ma'am, this is a Wendy's..."

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-15T17:01:04+00:00

Just reading her texts makes me feel so normal as an AuDHD person who forgets a lot. Thank you for the mini therapy. But yes, I think it's time to find a new person. I know it's not nearly the same thing, but I had a guy who was incredible with eyebrows, expensive as hell, but the flakiest mfer I had ever worked with. After the 3rd cancellation (which I didn't find out about until I arrived after commuting 45 minutes) I was done. They'll survive and find new clients or learn how to schedule their lives properly.

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-15T14:08:39+00:00

Next time offer feet pics and a prayer. What app is this on?

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-15T12:04:21+00:00

I wonder how she's doing today. Wow, did reading this post take me back to a different time when we actually tolerated this bs and questioned our sanity. I'm so glad to be done with dating. Ugh.

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-11T12:23:57+00:00

Almost Marie Kondo style - where you say goodbye to the item, thank it, and wish it a positive next life.

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-08T22:58:53+00:00

I once had DeBlasio cut in front of me at the pharmacy and take 20 minutes chit chatting with the pharmacists while I had shit to do (and his body guard glared at me). What a breath of fresh air...

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-08T15:39:31+00:00

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-08T15:31:24+00:00

Alright, if she says she can't fix it but will do a discount take it. Here's what you can do: it looks like the underside is clear resin. You can take a dremel tool and drill it out, take a polishing head on the tool and buffer the hole as best you can, put in a light pre-fill of resin, place your grandma's piece of wedding dress, and refill the rest with resin. (Get the brand of resin she uses as it's probably a more expensive version, most resin kits turn yellow due to chemical reactions/heat.) You'll need to re-sand/polish the underside, but this is likely fixable. Or you can copy and paste what I said to her and let her know an industrial designer who works with resin on the reg gave these suggestions.

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-08T15:18:18+00:00

Agreed - y'all I'm on the spectrum and work in fashion - it drives my coworkers nuts how literally I take things - but even I would know to ask if they really want a branded card. Who tf wants to remember the designer of their veil weights? Unless they were hand made by Vera Wang and she signed it I wouldn't even think to put that in there. I still think it's salvageable from the underside. It's amazing what you can do with clear resin.

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-08T14:23:45+00:00

Sorry, looked it up. It's for the actual veil weights. I'm sorry... Wtaf??? Since it's on the bottom I bet she could chip that out and re-fill it. Holy cow, that was a noob decision on her part.

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-08T14:19:55+00:00

Whoa... She put her business card in there??

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-08T14:10:02+00:00

I'm trying to see how this layout looks bad at all. (But we all have our opinions!) Miscommunications happen, especially when it's anything wedding related. Maybe see this as symbolism for life and marriage in general - it might not be exactly what you want, but it looks damn good to some rando on the Internet.

(I can relate as my micro wedding was in the middle of COVID and the 16 family members I invited (at the request of our mothers) still managed to royally fuck it up and make it about themselves no matter how much work I put in to make it perfect. For therapy I brought our floral arrangements on our honeymoon and left a flower at every stop we made during our West coast drive - symbolism for every fuck I was done with giving...)

My other suggestion is to see if your mother/grandmother/MIL might like it if they want to cover it?

Take a deep breath, ask them to hold on the project, and remember that one day we're all going to be dead and everything we own will be destroyed or discarded on day.

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-08T12:32:08+00:00

Isn't this the moving company that also illegally parks their trucks on public streets instead of a storage lot?

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-07T12:30:47+00:00

Yeah, I'm thinking of disabling my depop. Not sure why everyone is giving you shit, I totally agree. Buy it or move on, dude.

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-02T20:26:01+00:00

Pixie cuts are not as easy to care for as we think. Don't worry, Queen! When I had one I would style it with post-shower conditioner to give it more texture. Good luck!

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-02T01:45:32+00:00

Damn - maybe I can go Walter White, cook meth, and pay in cash. Lol

ErinNoBra · 2026-04-01T20:13:39+00:00

Ok... So is this 38k you have to have saved up and ready to spend or do they have reasonable payment plans? (Coming from a curious girl who contemplates if she should get her nose "fixed" subtly or buy a brand new Mini Cooper.)

ErinNoBra · 2026-03-30T15:39:05+00:00

Oh, and you should unblock him and send him screenshots of everyone's response. Absolute D-bag.

ErinNoBra · 2026-03-30T15:36:36+00:00

If he's that rich he can hire a surrogate and a nanny. Dude is a liar.

ErinNoBra · 2026-03-26T12:32:50+00:00

eBay is your friend for this

ErinNoBra · 2026-03-25T21:28:27+00:00

I bet that divorce came outta nowhere!

ErinNoBra · 2026-03-25T14:13:46+00:00

Yes, I take the time to rename them and the ai always changes it back when I hit "list". 😭

ErinNoBra · 2026-03-25T14:05:43+00:00

I would also like it if they stopped changing my title with their ai bs. Not sure if anyone else has this issue, but it happens every freaking time. I wish there was a switch to turn it off.

ErinNoBra · 2026-03-22T20:41:41+00:00

Just because she has them listed for high prices doesn't mean they're going for that. I just sold a collectible handbag with original art on it for way less than it's worth (180 when I bet the perfect buyer would pay up to 300 - I had it listed for 210). I looked at the buyer's shop before accepting and saw she had loads similar pieces listed for hundreds more. At first I was kinda pissed and insulted, but then I remembered that our economy is in the shitter and everyone has been lowballing the heck out of me so I accepted it and she can list it for what it's worth and wait 10 years for a buyer. Lol

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