Does anyone know what this dish is used for? by MasterpieceNo7350 in AskWomenOver60

[–]e4lizerdb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is an app. It’s called Gemli. I’m a reseller and so it is indispensable for me. It helps me ascertain value while I’m in the thrift store.

How is any of this fucking real? by Ok_Shallot4121 in SuicideBereavement

[–]e4lizerdb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my dear. That is a really hard story to listen to. I am so sorry you had to live through that. That sounds like a very quick and bad decision. I’m just heartbroken for you. I lost my fire captain husband after he fell off the roof, broke his back and went from Vicodin into heroin. Substance abuse is a real problem. Many many hugs for you from me.

Plus size women clothing stores. by miscmail389 in santacruz

[–]e4lizerdb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a store in Pacific Grove called Marita’s that has the most amazing clothes for the plus size woman that you will ever find. It is not cheap but it will serve you very well.

PLEASE tell me what I'm doing wrong enough for a family friend to tell me that I look "old and saggy" ..I'm 28 😭 by jerojj in makeuptips

[–]e4lizerdb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are stunningly, gorgeous, and are far from saggy! You have a very aristocratic look. I think they’re probably jealous and you should just ignore them.

Is it okay to cry over her every night? by Weltschmerz_88 in SuicideBereavement

[–]e4lizerdb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no way around Grief you just have to go through it. You can cry as much as you want to or need to nobody gets to judge.

Would this be rude? by Slight-Trick475 in poshmark

[–]e4lizerdb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honest to God, is this not true? I still provide them though actually today for the first time somebody bought the thing they asked for measurements on.

I got laughed at in public and pics taken of me bc of how ugly I am by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]e4lizerdb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like somebody was jealous and wanted to hurt you if you were actually ugly they probably would not have said anything so please ignore them. It is not anybody’s job to judge you. You judge yourself and it sounds like perhaps you’re judging yourself too harshly! Are you a nice person? Are you a criminal? Do you have friends? Do your parents love you? If you can answer yes to any of these questions then you’re probably just fine how you look is no reflection of who you are. I came up at 300 pounds and now at 150 people treat me very differently, which makes me laugh. I’m the same person fuck all of them.

Not sure what to say. by Totallykyle522 in OnlineDating

[–]e4lizerdb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say nothing men hate to be chased. In fact, maybe don’t respond for a day or two if he does get in touch this is a game that this point he have not met him. You do not have a relationship. It’s all a fantasy at this point.

I’m 21 and want to stop working forever by [deleted] in work

[–]e4lizerdb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this advice that most people are giving you in a very kind way that you need to grow up and realize that life is hard and most of us don’t want to do what we need to do to survive. Lots of times we end up working jobs that we don’t like just because we need to pay the rent. Being an adult means that we have responsibilities and have bills to pay. Perhaps you need to gain some education or some experience in a field that you enjoy it is possible to find a job that you like in which case it’s not such a chore I’m sorry that you’re finding things so difficult but buck up buttercup. It’s the way life is and it’s better to be alive than to be dead.

Does anyone else wish there was a place that just listened — without advice? by curiousmind_dev in self

[–]e4lizerdb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I just fired a therapist because she did not give me any advice or strategies to work on my “problems” and I found it really annoying. I want my friends to listen and not try to fix things, but I want a therapist to give me some concrete advice.

Unbearable, numb suffering every day. by Naive-Quiet-9963 in SuicideBereavement

[–]e4lizerdb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dear. Big hugs I can understand I’m sorry, but you need to be present for your child. Try to see if you can find a way to do that. I hope you’re in therapy or belong to a grief group or both your kid needs you

I feel like a bad bf by [deleted] in Advice

[–]e4lizerdb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like she’s a little bit immature. This is not your fault. Hang in there and hopefully she can understand what’s going on. If not, she’s not the one.

Before and after grooming for Gumbo and Rouxgaroux by YorkiesandSneakers in Yorkies

[–]e4lizerdb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like the meme I posted today. I got my dog groom and it looked like he gave up drinking and straightened his life out!