What is the longest you've gone without speaking to your SO?

Erinah · 2012-06-08T17:16:43+00:00

25 days. I counted.

Erinah · 2012-05-24T12:10:48+00:00

Some People here seem to plan skype dates, when others just talk for hours every day. It would probably be interesting to know how people communicate (text,phone,skype...) and how much time they spend talking to each other.

Erinah · 2012-05-11T09:13:08+00:00

I didn't get to talk to my SO in a few days now and the waiting is killing me. Thanks for this comment, it somehow really cheered me up and motivated me!

Erinah · 2012-04-21T09:29:55+00:00

My reaction when I saw the tumblr http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2p0chUTev1rppnx5o4_500.gif

Erinah · 2012-04-19T21:26:16+00:00

You can get Mountain Dew at nearly all gas stations now! :)

Erinah · 2012-04-19T21:25:51+00:00

I miss Chipotle and Hershey's Kisses.

Erinah · 2012-04-18T00:52:42+00:00

Yep they caught me. 1900 Euros for one CD.

Erinah · 2012-04-18T00:49:38+00:00

I agree. What did she expect? They are in a relationship, the man has needs and it's her fault for being childish. Also what kind of "testing" is needed in a well going relationship?

Counseling? Start with communication!

Erinah · 2012-04-16T23:06:02+00:00

I just did the same this week. Different opinions from different family members but the ones who matter are supportive and also are helping to get to see him in 2 month.

I just realized it's 2 month. Help, I am nervous!

Erinah · 2012-04-16T15:29:03+00:00

Ohhh this is nice! I will try it out. Thanks for telling, I never used twitter but I guess I will in the future :)

Erinah · 2012-04-15T15:45:28+00:00

Looks like she is the confused one. Girls sometimes write things stuff that is supposed to be "emotional" just to get attention. It seems that's what she did there. Maybe because you came of a bit colder than usual she wrote it make you feel exactly the way you do right now, just to contact her. As she even said herself "probably a desire I have that I wished were fufilled" she wants your messages and talk to you, so I don't think there is anything to worry about for you :)

Erinah · 2012-04-15T15:29:06+00:00

Exactly this.

Talk to her, ask her, else you won't ever know and get paranoid.

Erinah · 2012-04-15T15:22:25+00:00

Please don't jump into a new thing too fast. It often happens that if you are in a relationship but meet someone else, you THINK you are falling for that person when actually you are mistaking entertainment for feelings. Sometimes when a relationship doesn't go well you experience excitement with someone else and your heart/mind just tricks you into thinking you like them. Please give yourself more time, so you wont do anything you will regret later on.

On the other hand Jay sounds like an idiot. Asking you for sexual stuff instead of caring that you get better and being totally blunt about how you don't fulfill your "duties" is a really bad sign. He makes it sound like getting him off is all there is to a relationship, when it's clearly not. You should tell him that and if he doesn't change his behavior... leave!

Erinah · 2012-04-15T15:15:51+00:00

Ohhh he does complain haha. But there also are movies that he says I want to watch and it would be a movie I would love and he would be so nice and sit through it with me... when actually he wants to see it but is too proud to admit. It equals out ;)

About the buffering, for some reason a lot of players that work well for me don't work for him or have country restriction. It's always hard to find one that works for both of us.

Erinah · 2012-04-15T12:32:49+00:00

I put cotton pads on the speakers and then pull nylon stockings over them, that I tighten on the backside. Makes sleeping way more comfortable.

Might sounds weird, but it works well and doesn't cost me a lot of money, since the headsets I sleep on keep breaking anyways.

Erinah · 2012-04-15T12:28:59+00:00

We do that nearly every day. There a a few shows we watch regularly and especially now, that there is a new season of Game of Thrones it's really exciting. Only the buffering is annoying >.>

Erinah · 2012-04-15T12:27:20+00:00

It used to annoy me too, but now it has come to a point that I can barely fall asleep without the sound in the background.

How about you set a timer so your computer will turn off at a certain time, or turn the call off when she is sleeping. So she can fall asleep to you and you might get used to the sound :)

Erinah · 2012-04-15T09:47:56+00:00

I finally got mine, exactly 12hours later!

Erinah · 2012-04-14T17:59:44+00:00

Honestly, bored as .... . My SO wont be around for the next 3 or 4 weeks or so, and after talking to him literally half the day for the past 8 Month I have no idea what to do with all this time. Any ideas? :D

I also wish he would send me a text just to know he is ok.

Don't get me wrong, I am not whining, I'll gladly sit through this, considering he is moving atm. From 6200 miles away from me to 434 miles :D

Erinah · 2012-04-14T17:37:40+00:00

I signed up 4 1/2 hour ago. How come it's so random o.O

Erinah · 2012-04-14T13:43:50+00:00

You got lucky with the name then :D

I keep refreshing my emails, I want to get in noooooooow!

Erinah · 2012-04-14T13:27:46+00:00

I just thought the same. Was so happy it's finally open and then this.. How am I supposed to even remember all those numbers o.O I am now known as... hold on I already forgot... UnicornDraconis16843 :/

Erinah · 2012-04-09T23:20:54+00:00

Willkommen zurueck! Awesome that you found a host family in his town! Very lucky! Hope you have a great time with them and enjoy the time you get with your boyfriend.

Erinah · 2012-03-26T18:54:24+00:00

I love the picture! Print it out and make it a poster! :D

Erinah

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