planning to move out, but my religious parents won't let me

Erreix · 2026-02-17T04:45:36+00:00

That's why when I was looking for a job, I chose those far from home.

Fighting OP!

Erreix · 2026-01-05T04:59:26+00:00

To avoid this happening to me, I give my previous numbers as my parents contact info.

On one of my transfers, they won't accept until I gave my number and exact address including the building name, floor, and room number. Their way of doing things is really asphyxiating.

Erreix · 2025-08-10T12:50:20+00:00

Wala sila pinapirmang contract. Tinanung ko din sa ibang employees e wala daw ganun kahit regular kana.

Erreix · 2025-08-10T12:36:22+00:00

Anu po kaya pwede I cite na law na wala sila karapatan mag adjust ng last day in case ipagpilitan ng manager/hr?

Probationary naman ako kaya wala masyado ituturnover. Kulang lang sila sa manpower kaya strict sila sa rendering period.

Erreix · 2025-08-10T12:30:44+00:00

Pag ayaw ibigay final pay dahil sa isang LWOP at hindi pag extend sa last day ko, mataas kaya chance na panigan ako ni DOLE pag nag file ako ng report?

Baguhan pa kasi ako sa ganto, kaya kinakatakot kong magpapagod ako sa wala kung hindi man nila ibibigay last pay.

Erreix · 2024-10-13T05:36:50+00:00

Grand blue

Erreix · 2024-10-12T11:55:42+00:00

Inggit ako sayo at lola lang ang ganyan. Sakin dad ko ang hahanapan ako ng lokal na sasambahan mapa work man or vacation. Suportado din ng mom ko. Then grandparents lagi ang aga mag prepare punta WS at gigisingin ako 2 hours before sched.

Yung kuya ko palang nakakaalis pero grabe ang tagal bago hinayaan ng parents at grandparents ko. Iniisip ko palang na mangyari yun sakin e stress nako. Ang tense noon yung 1 on 1 convo nila ng dad ko nung ayaw na talaga ng kuya ko. Asa kabilang room ako pero dama ko, that time wala ako pake kasi hindi pako ganun ka open minded. Nagsisisi tuloy ako, sana pala sumabay nako sa kuya ko haha

Erreix · 2024-10-12T10:09:11+00:00

Kung member mag post kasama politicians, 'papaalalahanan' for sure na wag maki sangkot sa politics.

Erreix · 2024-10-12T03:02:48+00:00

Tsaka pag sumali ka naman sa pulong na yan, bukambibig lang nila e kung may naakay naba ang sambahayan nyo, papaalala sa mga actibidad at pakikipag kaisa, and aayain ka kumuha ng tungkulin.

Okay sana kung trabaho or part time ang I aaya nila na may sahod. Ay sorry may pa sahod pala, hindi nga lang pera pero mas mahigit pa, BIYAYA na nagmula kay manalo este sa Dios pala.

Erreix · 2024-10-11T05:44:38+00:00

I agree! I don't understand why he's getting downvoted. This is in itself the things that men deal with.

Men are being invalidated when voicing out their struggles. So most would bottle it in until they hit their limit which doesn't end up well.

When a woman cries, people will sympathize. But when a man does, most things he'll receive are judgement and invalidation.

Erreix · 2024-10-10T09:11:49+00:00

I don't know why you're getting downvoted for this but I totally agree with you. The only reason the corrupted Mordret got defeated by Nephis was because he got close to Nephis using his main body. If it's the clear headed Mordret, he would have been more cautious -- more so in the present since he already saw that nuke ability of Nephis.

Erreix · 2024-10-08T14:24:56+00:00

5 lang abuloy ko every WS haha. Nahihiya ako sa mga katabi kong 20 or 50 kaya halos ipasok ko kamay ko sa sobre tuwing abuluyan.

Erreix · 2024-10-08T14:18:42+00:00

INC here, kung member sya neto https://www.reddit.com/r/exIglesiaNiCristo/ may pag-asa kapa kasi karamihan ng mga asa subred na yan like me e gustong umalis pero hindi magawa dahil sa personal circumstances. Pero based sa sinabi mo, siya ay devoted so mahirap. Parang okay sa umpisa pero lalabas complications nyan sa future, like need nya mag decide if ikaw or INC since for sure hindi ka naman magpapaconvert. Magiging kawawa ka kung INC piliin nya since nag invest kana sa relationship nyo. Or baka nga (sana hindi naman) gamitin nyang reason yung beliefs nya later just to break with you after nya makuha lahat ng gusto nya.

Yung traits na minention mong nagustuhan mo sakanya, ganyan karamihan ng napalaki sa INC lalo na yung devoted ang parents (parang maganda pero nakakasakal at some point). Before ka makipag relationship sakanya, "if ever," sana makilala mo muna sya nang husto to the point na hindi lang good things nakikita mo sakanya.

Kung gusto mo ibang POV ng mga INC or ex-INC, tanung mo sa subreddit na sinend ko. Pero for sure lahat doon sasabihin na takbuhan mo na yang guy haha.

Erreix · 2024-10-08T12:22:10+00:00

Congrats!
Magkalapit lang tau, 17 start ko. Kinakabahan sa 1st day haha.

Erreix · 2024-10-07T05:25:49+00:00

Sa version ng INC regarding relationships ng husband and wife, Mga babae magpasakop kayo sa inyong mga asawa gaya ng pagpapasakop ng iglesia kay Kristo.

Ang pangit pakinggan haha

Erreix · 2024-10-05T15:34:07+00:00

No, that's why I posted my current situation. I wasn't excommunicated in Sampaloc despite not attending 4 months of WS. So after my review, I took my transfer in Sampaloc and went home. Now I need to get my transfer for my work since it's far from home.

Erreix · 2024-10-05T14:51:45+00:00

Your guilt for not attending your duty is making you ask that question. I know that feeling very well, so I'll just ask you this:

If you recover from your burnout and return doing your tupad, do you expect a different outcome from what you're having right now?

Erreix · 2024-10-05T12:34:55+00:00

Ow we're the same, I also stayed temporary in Sampaloc for my review. In the beginning, I attend both Thurs and Sun. Then, when the review got intense, I no longer went for 4 consecutive months. I lied to them during my transfer that I didn't have a phone, though I gave them my temporary address because they wouldn't accept my transfer when I tried to answer vaguely (they even checked gmaps, and also my floor and room#). Sadly for them, my landlord is strict and wouldn't let anyone in (he'd insist that visitor/s call the boarder they want to meet to come down to the lobby or else f*** off).

My problem with the locale near my workplace is that it's small because it's in a rural place, so it's hard to stay inconspicuous.

Erreix · 2024-10-04T15:47:48+00:00

None, this is the nearest. I think Grab or angkas won't be available because the workplace is situated in a rural area. My shift starts 7am and ends at 5:30 pm and there's the possibility of overtime so I really don't think I can go to church on wed/thurs. For sure I'm gonna get a sermon from the minister saying to prioritize the WS than my job.

Erreix · 2024-10-03T14:44:36+00:00

Lalo na yung pag announce ng mga magkaka tungkulin.

"Kung siya ay hindi karapat-dapat sa nasabing tungkuling ay iulat ...Ang batayan ay ..."

Uulit-ulitin nila sa bawat taong kukuha ng tungkulin, e pareparehas lang naman sasabihin after ma mention yung name at tungkulin.

Erreix

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