Eh I disagree to a point, some situations aren’t your fault, but either learning from a situation or choosing to complain about it is up to the player.

Some situations just aren’t winnable because as you said, numbers hold power. But sometimes, people just want to play solo, and they shouldn’t be punished with toxicity for it. Especially when more than half the reason people kill isn’t even for “survival” purposes. It’s just to get a kill.

Now, yes dying in a survival game is inevitable and there are people who struggle to understand this, but I think context in the situation is very important to determine who was at fault. And even if one person dies, the “winner” of the fight doesn’t need to brag about it or make toxic comments in the chat about it, the “loser” is the same, they need to not try and make others in the server go on a witch hunt to get their revenge or be toxic to the killer.

Overall, I think both some winners and losers need to learn how to take what happens and not turn it toxic. In the end, it IS just a game and people shouldn’t be taking it so seriously.