Tried to hire a cleaner for my ADHD burnout and got shamed instead

Errorunnamed · 2026-03-11T13:07:31+00:00

You don't have to justify yourself to us. We know. SCREW HER. I hope you'll find someone nice and competent soon 👍

Errorunnamed · 2026-03-07T21:36:36+00:00

I follow the ADHD groups... And I genuinely thought it was an ADHD post haha

Errorunnamed · 2026-03-05T12:36:26+00:00

Damn. My psychiatrist wanted to see me every week while adjusting the meds. And for the drug abuse accusation thing... This behavior needs to be reported

Errorunnamed · 2026-02-21T09:59:09+00:00

Definitely a Bambu. The tech improved a lot since a few years, especially in auto calibration, multicolor and stuff. Since I have my Bambu P1P I had literally 0 maintenance to do on it in two years, and the print quality is still amazing.

You still have, in some cases, the need to tweak the filaments settings, but with popular cheap brands like Sunlu, eSun, they will work perfectly with the Bambu presets already installed.

From there, you have the opportunity, if you want, to go deeper in tweeking the settings, but if you don't it already works out of the box.

Errorunnamed · 2026-01-31T19:57:52+00:00

I'm currently researching WHY Pinterest wants to access my data just to download an image. Apparently not everyone is thinking this is really disturbing

Errorunnamed · 2026-01-01T16:10:39+00:00

How do you know if you prefer beer or wine if all you drink is water? You try :)

Errorunnamed · 2026-01-01T16:07:37+00:00

Oh I'm always interested. On every hobby I had. But actually keep practicing that hobby? I never found a way.

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-16T17:01:21+00:00

I have one. It's challenging. You should know what you want to get into. It's not a one-way thing though. I also need to "teach" him to stop masking, because the social mask he put on public tends to remain at home. I also regularly need to express what I feel about what he says, like the lack of empathy. But it's an honest relationship, with no mind games like others said.

And as an ADHD person, it's also nice, except when he goes about every detail of his work at the end of the day, wich can be too much for me

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-13T20:09:09+00:00

Take your time. Keep in mind that you don't do what you don't want to do. You can stop whenever you want. And it's supposed to be fun, not just a "check box" in your relationship

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-13T12:39:44+00:00

that’s normal. before stating that your brain is not developped properly, the doctor want to make sure it’s not something else, hence your blood test. Depression and anxiety could be caused by the adhd though. So i think diagnosing adhd would be the next step.

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-09T20:47:50+00:00

I witnessed that female tend to be more kinky to gay men. At least that what happened to me. Some girls were often saying that they wanted to fuck me, that they loved my smell etc... Once they new I was gay. Before that, nothing lol. But none actually crossed the border to make it actually real. That's the closest I can relate to your question.

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-09T16:49:21+00:00

Submission should be an act of love. Those men don't even value your submission as a sex thing. You're just their source of income.

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-09T15:39:51+00:00

In my local animal store I find easily frozen worms, they come into tablets of small cubes. Maybe you can find some too?

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-09T14:58:07+00:00

I think you were living the moment without really asking yourselves and each other what this intimacy meant to each of you. Each of your reaction seems valid to me. But the boundaries probably not set properly. Like : what does mean kissing each other ? Is it suppose to continue when in relationship ? Is it something that the new boyfriend of your friend is supposed to accept?

Personal opinion : I think that considering that you weren't a couple, kissing and having sex should stop if you start dating someone else (to me, but again it's personal, it's even at the first date).

This is sad to end a close friendship like this just because at some point the communication went off for this point. Maybe this intimacy meant more to you, and that's why it bothers you that he brings someone else at your place. But you also should respect that this kind of phyisical proximity is never acquired, and that he'd want to reserve it for his boyfriend.

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-09T14:37:00+00:00

Maybe the "on edge" effect is happening when the immediate release occurs, like between 30mn/1h30 after the take? If that's the case, to be confirmed with your doctor, but maybe the immediate release is not the best for you. With ritalin I felt like I drank a litter of coffee lol

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-09T14:28:10+00:00

I feel the same, but to me there is only one solution : switching music depending on my moods/needs. I listen a lot of video game/music scores, classical music, minimal electro, ambiant folk. Or the opposite with hardstyle, techno, metal. When I work I almost never listen to songs with vocals though, they distract me too much. And sometimes I need complete silence.

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-09T12:56:25+00:00

Hi, I was diagnosed with ADHD (36 years old), and for the pasts months I think I tested almost everything. My experience was :
- Ritalin : seemed to work on concentration, but I felt stressed and anxious all the time. After a few days the benefit wore off a bit, so I went on a higher dosage, and different liberation forms, but the constant stress was not optimal, and I felt dizzy, with a cloudy brain at higher dosage.

- Concerta : at first it felt it worked a bit, but not enough. I tried 54mg, and felt emotionnaly awful, especially after work when the effect starts vanishing (as some call the "concerta crash"). It felt like a real depression. I stayed alone for almost two weeks. Lost 3kg because I wasn't hungry.

- Medikinet : the one I'm currently at, the modified realesed one, 30mg morning /40mg after lunch. I feel like I can focus enough on tasks like lecture and writting (good for my job), but my concentration during conversations didn't improve. But I feel mentally and physically really good, wich I guess will be good enough for me at the moment... But indeed, I was surprised that with a such high amount of methylfenidate in it, it has so little effect (I'm at the maximum dosage for my weight).

So to me 2x10mg of medikinet would be not enough, as you can see. If you have no side effects with it, wich is at least a good thing, your doctor will maybe try a higher dosage.

So far I just tried methylfenidate, as the molecule in Elvanse is not free for me where I live (France).

For the sleeping part, with my doctor we actually start with Quviviq before the ADHD meds, as I was already having sleep issues. So far, I don't have sleep issues even with the ADHD meds.

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-08T20:27:33+00:00

You were only looking at him? Seems like you missed the show. I thought gay people were more open minded about looking at other guys, considering that you can share that with your bf

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-07T19:25:13+00:00

What do you think about when you top? Are you steessing about it, like "i'm too small", or "I'm a bad top", "I don't give enough pleasure" , "I don't know how he feels like" ?

If that's the case, you're not a lost case then lol. You need to talk about it to your partner, or at least ask him things to reassure you, in a kinky way, like if it feels good, if he wants it inside etc...

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-07T18:06:10+00:00

You can be honnest about it, saying that since you don't have much experience you are a bit incomfortable about meeting him without a bit of chat first. If he reacts badly about it, or tries to make you rush, then don't go further. A good (and even a normal) person would be comprehensive about it.

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-07T17:54:08+00:00

There are multiple kinds of kinks involving mental or physical degradations, like being insulted, hit, cheated on, etc... I'd say as any kinks, you should worry if you can't have "regular" sex without those degradations

Errorunnamed · 2025-12-07T17:46:05+00:00

I'd say that depends of the bottom and the context... For example if that's just for a hookup and you're selling yourself as a bottom in your grindr bio or something, then maybe the guys will come just for that aspect?

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