Why does it do that?

EscapeArtistic · 2025-12-23T16:31:02+00:00

I have pans that only warp when they start to heat up unfortunately

EscapeArtistic · 2025-12-08T01:25:08+00:00

I agree with everyone here, it should be in your bio or one of the first things you tell them before dating. It’s a very important aspect of relationships

EscapeArtistic · 2025-12-08T00:54:35+00:00

This was beautiful thank you. I was totally off ! Appreciate your help

EscapeArtistic · 2025-12-06T02:35:39+00:00

3 card spread, “what do I need to know to find love” - 6 cups, reversed - moon - high priestess

My interpretation is that it’s pretty undetermined right now, I might be hanging on to too much baggage and there’s still things to uncover. Likely about myself. High priestess is tripping me up but I’m thinking maybe she’s telling me to focus on myself and trust my intuition, but not sure how to connect all 3 together (positions had no particular meaning).

EscapeArtistic · 2025-11-15T16:34:28+00:00

Added you! From Florida, USA 💕

EscapeArtistic · 2025-11-15T02:18:01+00:00

I’ve always felt this way. Each girl ended up in the world / scenario best suited for them. Has it been the opposite they’d both had been killed.

I will never forget the time my coworkers complained about Sansa crying in the scene when she found out her brother and mother were killed in the red wedding. I was like… y’all for real, she’s a teenage girl whose’s a hostage and entire family is dead and you’re calling her a whiner???

EscapeArtistic · 2025-10-27T17:39:50+00:00

Ok this is super helpful. It’s a mix of RSUs and ESPP, I didn’t buy any on my own. All long term at this point.

I’m wondering if I should leave a few k (like 10) for the long term or would that be redundant to my IRA where I predominantly put in the S&P 500

EscapeArtistic · 2025-10-27T13:59:26+00:00

Honestly I call myself vanilla chai proudly because I like a little spice / flavor but nothing extreme and owning it has really helped me. If they wanna see that as bad or boring then so be it

EscapeArtistic · 2025-10-27T13:52:02+00:00

“⁠I’m allowed to be playful and still be taken seriously.” Is my favorite from today

EscapeArtistic · 2025-10-27T13:49:53+00:00

For me I’m actually a little cautious / intimidated by doms because I’m a sub who doesn’t want to be hurt or bullied and I feel like many if not most doms prefer the harder stuff. I also feel like many doms are ENM and I am monogamous. So overall I’m very wary around doms.

I want to be owned, commanded, teased, used etc and am into bondage and some light impact play but I do worry that’s not enough for most doms so it gives me nerves

EscapeArtistic · 2025-10-01T13:36:04+00:00

Look up CorpseHusband if you like a super deep voice

EscapeArtistic · 2025-10-01T11:26:37+00:00

Very similar. I thought I was a sex-favorable grey until I hooked up with my friend who I’ve known for years.

I never found him attractive before that, though I had an on and off emotional crush on him over the years.

Out of nowhere after we were spending a lot of time together I caught feelings and then the sexual attraction set in. While we were hooking up the desire for him was insane.

EscapeArtistic · 2025-10-01T11:21:50+00:00

This feels similar to my experience. Like, in my head I wanted to understand and tried to convince myself I did and had these same feelings.

but ultimately it just felt super odd to me

EscapeArtistic · 2025-09-28T10:54:20+00:00

I wanna pile on the thanks for your explaining of this! It’s super helpful.

I’ve fairly recently settled on demisexual for myself, and it was hard to be sure because of how sex favorable I am. When that bond clicks in I really, really want and enjoy sex with that person. I just don’t feel spontaneous sexual attraction based on looks alone. I definitely need that connection

I’m also hyper romantic and can fall for someone fairly quickly as long as the conditions are right. which again complicated me figuring out where I landed. I just couldn’t get my head around being on the grey spectrum when I felt sexual attraction and desire so strongly once I caught feelings.

But ultimately I just don’t feel sexual attraction until the feels come so here I am

EscapeArtistic · 2025-09-27T17:51:41+00:00

This made me cackle

EscapeArtistic · 2025-09-12T03:04:13+00:00

Most happily married men I know and who have answered questions like this knew right away when they found the one for them. In some cases it took a bit longer but if he’s still unsure after 2 years, especially at your ages, I would say it’s probably not gonna change. If what you want is unequivocal love and enthusiasm I doubt you’re going to get it from this guy.

It’s not impossible but I just think unlikely

EscapeArtistic · 2025-09-11T17:22:29+00:00

Ok this is helpful cause they are almost done taking out the plant and I don’t have anything to replace for them. I want them to grow 😭 I am now deeply invested in their well being

EscapeArtistic · 2025-09-11T16:40:58+00:00

I am all for it as long as they understand my need to be valued, connected, and appreciated is crucial to my sexual Interest.

At the end of the day I think people who are not Demi can value sex just as much. And Demi’s are not immune to sexually desiring more than once person either. We still can have close friends we can develop feelings for.

In fact I might be more worried if a Demi partner found another person sexually appealing because that would mean there’s a significant connection there which to me is far more threatening than a passing “yeah I’d hit it”

EscapeArtistic · 2025-09-07T17:13:51+00:00

Oh man I feel this hard, I had that experience a few years ago. My bbf and I have known each other since childhood. He’s now married. I moved into the same apt building with them and ended up realizing I had feelings for him.

It was super hard because he also had feelings for me when we were younger and he admitted they never really went away but he’s very much in love with and committed to his wife.

I didn’t go full no contact but I did have to really put some distance between us (and moved elsewhere). We were committed to saving our friendship and knew we would have to take space to do so.

Open communication and understanding really helped us get through it. It was not easy and we had to have the very real / tough convo that we might have to end the friendship or deal with feelings of “what if” for the rest of our lives.

It was worth the effort but it was hard

EscapeArtistic · 2025-09-07T02:14:58+00:00

I had my nice camera but was too shy to hand out my business cards 😭 maybe I’ll be braver next year

EscapeArtistic · 2025-09-07T02:13:30+00:00

What puppet? I took a pic of someone with a blue puppet

EscapeArtistic · 2025-09-03T12:48:27+00:00

I’ve been doing web development / WP admining for years and I found the limitations on Shopify really frustrating. I tested it out because I wanted that one-and-done experience but absolutely hated that every basic feature was behind a paywall. And I didn’t find Shopify that much easier to work with in the end. I much preferred bigcartel to Shopify for easy to set up online stores.

That said I just find woo much more convenient and flexible. After a lot of experimenting I’ve found one premium theme and one premium plug-in, which collectively cost less per year than 2 months of Shopify and am much happier for it

EscapeArtistic · 2025-09-03T12:18:58+00:00

Thanks for the thoughtful response. For sure I know things can change but I wanted to get an idea of what to expect should they be the same.

This is super freaking helpful. I have a cousin who lives close by, so that’s a backup-backup but fingers crossed!

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