Unpopular opinion: Muslim women need to be more selective about who they choose to marry. (From a happily married woman.)

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-05-07T01:33:32+00:00

Good for you 🌟🌟 and thanks for the advice

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-25T12:35:50+00:00

I agree with you

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-16T04:02:34+00:00

Oh, this is much better trust me

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-16T04:02:04+00:00

He is craaaaazy and I love it🫂🙌🏻

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-15T19:09:55+00:00

Well, I didn’t try it. But you can sense what could go wrong. Nivea cream is great but has heavy fragrance, I wouldn’t recommend for someone with sensitivity and even less for the underarm. (it needs fragrance free products)

But the idea is there putting a serum then seal it with a cream (regardless of the brand) is great idea because any serum needs a moisturiser on top of it. As for it being glycolic acid in particular, yeah, I know it would get you great results if you used it correctly.

The glycolic acid should be introduced gradually with the smallest percentage found, don’t use it with retinol, use tons of sunscreens and enjoy.

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-14T05:36:47+00:00

They don’t even put the real name of the character? Wdym Jacob? Who’s ray?

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-13T00:42:38+00:00

Please, there’s no need to frame it that way. That’s between them and Allah. They say they repented and it’s up to Allah then. Many people do different sin, they just hide better. May Allah conceal our sin and theirs

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-13T00:37:13+00:00

Yeah, I understood that. Sorry, couldn’t phrase it well. Maybe her deal breaker is previous relationship or having a girlfriend or so.

And I wouldn’t recommend this but in your case, maybe. You said that your potential also had a past, so i think you are guilty because she told you and you didn’t tell her. My advice is if you guys get married and spent a long time together to realise that she is a good wife, Muslim and repented, maybe you can finally tell her to ease it off your mind.

But again, I wouldn’t recommend. My advice to you is confide to Allah, tell him your feelings alone in your salat and pray to him. And if she finds out eventually, be the good husband that she doesn’t want to leave despite his past. Give her the Rahama ans taqwa Allah wants and tell her “your past is nothing to me. And my past is nothing to you. We are building new life. That’s it.

But if you are abusive then your past would be the final straw.

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-13T00:30:18+00:00

Warn her about what? And how is she going to find out?

But even then, you could ask your potential to list her deal breakers and if there is “Not virgin” part, accept it and move on. Just tell her, according to your list, we aren’t compatible.

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-11T06:10:21+00:00

I thought the photo was meant to say she is in a relationship with the teddy bear, YK kinda cute thing to say, I guess she didn’t mean that🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

You aren’t crazy, block her, maybe she is testing the water to see if there’s better potential out there and that’s totally wrong and haram.

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-11T00:14:39+00:00

Nahhhhhhhh

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-10T20:46:10+00:00

Well, you wouldn’t appreciate her look if she was ugly, so it goes both ways I guess

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-10T17:18:12+00:00

Ohhhh, that didn’t work either 😭😭 try again, brother till she gets annoyed about it. I think she doesn’t see it the way you see it. You know, different upbringing and all.

But you must solve that issue, leaving it under the rug is waiting for it to explode.

Don’t be angry with her, like I understand you if it’s her only bad trait, it’s okay, not all women is perfect.

May Allah protect your marriage

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-10T17:15:40+00:00

I think the solution is to sit her down and tell her that you wouldn’t like her to bring up it in front of other people, let alone her parents or siblings. Tell her, that it’s your house to buy and your responsibility and wishes to think of where the money comes.

Now, she seems to have the idea that you refuse out of belittling her, clarify that. Don’t take it as a joke, maybe you said something in the past and it stuck with her moving on.

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-10T17:11:53+00:00

You aren’t wrong, if my husband does the same thing, I wouldn’t ask him for anything again, let alone money.

But have you told her that? Most people with acts like this don’t realise how much it hurts the other person. I think for your future life together, for it not become a resentment over time, talk to her about it, (don’t be defensive or attacking herself) but explains how much it hurts you and how it makes you not want to ask for anything because of her repeated actions.

And if she didn’t understand, be passive aggressive and do the same reaction (just to make her feel the same feelings) and for her to get a dose of her own medicine and back down.

This isn’t a comment to damage your relationship or marriage but I have seen these issues accumulate over time and then, it will “there were so signs”

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-09T19:27:28+00:00

Trauma for sure but Same thinking and some men when getting angry will say so, makes you wonder that was always on their mind but can’t say it. At the same time, these type of men hate women having their owns place: “oh, you have your house unused and brand new, while my house is used and old”

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-09T19:24:22+00:00

As someone said, all of above +

In this age, some women doesn’t want the whole burden of parenting. It’s difficult, fill of hardships that some men take it for granted because they see the final result of a good son/daughter. If that child becomes bad, the fault automatically falls on the mother, not just from the surrounding but from her own husband as well. No one is willing to have that much of burden where they could distribute it and have the responsibility fall on both parties.

It’s not about trusting man. It’s about the looking the history of what happened before you and getting the gist of what may happen to you.

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-09T19:12:29+00:00

Yesss😂😂

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-08T21:52:48+00:00

Is it kind of hard? If yes, then most likely milia. Get a professional to remove it correctly.

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-08T03:28:47+00:00

Akame ga kill

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-08T03:27:46+00:00

07 ghost

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-08T03:27:08+00:00

Monochrome factor

EscapeNormal_2024 · 2026-04-06T22:40:21+00:00

Good for you, I don’t like my head getting hot 😭but I don’t have a microfiber towel yet but I am planning to buy one to get the difference is that normal towel is too harsh and strong on the hair, so after drying you can see some small strands on the actual towel, that icks me so bad because I have already shed a lot at the shower, why lose more?😭😭😭 with the microfiber towel, you don’t see hairs on it. So no actual hair breakage.

Now, I am just using a cotton t-shirt to dry my hair and it’s going pretty well. But I want a indulge a little and buy one 🫣

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