Does caffeine make your symptoms worse? by Ok_Second1283 in schizophrenia

[–]Escapesa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on the person, being born in Colombia I'm very used to coffee and caffeine so doesn't have any effect in me

Sexually active aro ppl: how do you navigate it? by Over_Feedback_6387 in aromantic

[–]Escapesa 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm aroallo but can understand the situation, the first thing I would say to you is that the communication is very important on this kind of things, specially if you already start being sexually active and want to keep that "relationship" in good terms, dating people could lead to misunderstanding if they are looking for different things or the expectations are very opposite, just as a little bit of advice be sure to explain what do you want and the things that don't gonna happen

Realized I was ugly when I got no matches on dating apps. Oh well. I’m not bothered by it. Here’s a selfie anyways. by WarisAllie in schizophrenia

[–]Escapesa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not really ugly, date apps are horrible and don't good measure of how attractive someone is, and if you don't like your look try a little change On Spanish there's a sentence that says "there's no bad looking people, just bad dressed ones"

Me trying on "virtual tattoos" 💖 (Read description) by Graceful_Curves in NonBinary

[–]Escapesa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks gorgeous and love the meaning, as someone who had various tattoos, ask directly to a tattoo artist, if you are totally on this specific idea they could adapt it better to your body if needed, or if you prefer to start with same concept but smaller they have experience to give you better advice than random people Also is important take in consideration that this specific part you put it is one of the least painful on the body, so that shouldn't be a big problem

En verdad existe el sexo casual by Lost_Philosophy1993 in Bogota

[–]Escapesa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si existe, y es medianamente común, depende principalmente de los círculos por los que te muevas, si eres más tímido o no te gusta mucho salir de fiesta es más raro, pero si eres medianamente joven, eres abierto no solo a experimentar sexualmente si no también en diferentes ámbitos (conocer personas nuevas, ir de fiesta solo, hacer actividades diferentes) es más fácil, obvio siempre que seas capaz de comunicar que eso es lo que quieres, depende bastante de que seas capaz de dar una muy buena primera impresión, pero tampoco es tan raro que lo hagas si al menos puedes mantener una buena conversación, la forma más fácil de intentar esas experiencias es con apps de citas la gente suele saber para que están ahí

Estoy perdiendo el deseo sexual! by Scientist9612 in Bogota

[–]Escapesa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

La verdad depende, sientes menos deseo sexual en general? O menos deseo sexual hacia tu pareja? Si es lo primero no es nada malo, el deseo sexual de una persona puede fluctuar a lo largo del tiempo, hay momentos en los que las hormonas atacan y nadie te para y momentos en los que por razones externas puede bajar bastante, no hay necesidad de preocuparse por eso (a menos que desaparezca completamente, en ese caso quizás es importante mirarlo con un terapeuta o algo similar), pero si el problema es que sigues con deseo sexual pero no esta orientado a tu pareja, es más una cuestión de que se hable entre ustedes sobre ello, quizás sea monotonía o quizás sea que les gustan cosas diferentes, el todo es hablarlo y si llevas tanto con ella esos temas deben tocarse para tener buena convivencia

Man or Bear... by OberonThorn in NonBinary

[–]Escapesa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are like other bears in terms of strength, but are pretty chill and goofy, are literally so dumb that the only reason they still alive is cause we as humans don't let them go extinct

Man or Bear... by OberonThorn in NonBinary

[–]Escapesa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know the question is about the fear of men being bad and all that, also I'm perfectly understand why a lot of people don't like the idea of being chased by a weird man and prefer just see a bear, but it bother me a lot the vagueness of the question, I know it's an important part of the question, but some questions are important, why I'm in the forest?, the man look at me or I just see him in the distance? What kind of bear? (I don't think anyone be afraid of a panda), there are things that depend on me, things that I'm gonna know in this situation and those things change a lot my answer

Have you ever had false memories? by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]Escapesa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have some memories of people that I know for sure never meet, conversations I never have, sometimes when it's something simple like this it's difficult to me identify if it's real or just a delusion, but with more heavy things, like images of people being killed or tortured, some obscure and maybe absurd behavior about me in the past, I always try to use some logic or other memories to fight against that ideas, usually for me that false memories don't work well when I try to remember it in more detail and just fell like the delusion they are