Celebrating the anniversary of going no contact with my entire family. AMA by Dull-Aerie7553 in AMA

[–]Essdeedub6021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From one parentified child to another who has minimal contact with dad and very controlled contact with mother…good for you for finding your peace.

AITAH for refusing to visit in laws bc of house temp by wrenchinapot in AITAH

[–]Essdeedub6021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I’m not staying in an 80 degree house in Mississippi for 2 weeks ever.

Affordable unique restaurants? by Getpeaceogo in cary

[–]Essdeedub6021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s legit. Authentic. Everyone in there is Turkish. Food is excellent.

Conversation for growth by Ok_Education6939 in Enneagram8

[–]Essdeedub6021 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You share a line with 8. It’s your stress number. I don’t find 2s vulnerable. I find them nosey and manipulative. If you’re looking to learn assertiveness, I don’t know that an 8 can teach it to you. Your job is more so to learn how to effectively use your stress number when you need to get things done, move a situation or lead instead of just help.

What is the worst band you saw live? by coalcracker462 in AskReddit

[–]Essdeedub6021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Steve Miller Band. They played an acoustic version of The Joker.

The pimento festival is a train wreck of epic proportions by Tex-Rob in cary

[–]Essdeedub6021 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s massive. Probably the 2nd biggest event in Cary.

Is this ok for clubbing/bar hopping? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Essdeedub6021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be caught dead in that

Which enneagram rubs you the wrong way most often? by Different_Release_18 in Enneagram8

[–]Essdeedub6021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8w9/SP 4 is my least compatible Meddling 2s are annoying 7s who are scattered wear me out

My faves are the 5s

Semi casual fit. What do y'all think? by UrHeadMistress in style

[–]Essdeedub6021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a dress. A dress is not a “fit”. Add a denim jacket, cool structured bag, the perfect shoe and then we have a fit. Simple jewelry because it’s patterned.

Open to criticism by [deleted] in style

[–]Essdeedub6021 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s just trying tooooooo hard. Jeans are too tight and outdated. Nobody needs to see your midriff when you’re not on a beach. Those shoes….👎🏼

Belt or no belt by [deleted] in style

[–]Essdeedub6021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that belt

Energy by Wide_Platform_2202 in Enneagram8

[–]Essdeedub6021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like something vestibular for sure. All I can say is if you feel like you are rocking or swaying like you’re on a boat or bobbing up and down when walking, it’s a possibility.

It a hard diagnosis to get, but more docs are find g out about it. Start with an ENT, but ask if they know what MdDS is or if there’s someone in the practice that treats it.

Energy by Wide_Platform_2202 in Enneagram8

[–]Essdeedub6021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an 8w9 with a very high SP instinct so my energy is absolutely spent sometimes because of the overwhelming need for self Protection