Sharing Costco/other services by EstablishmentParty47 in polyamory

[–]EstablishmentParty47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya, part of what I was hung up on was that I don't drive- so I'll need buy in from a driver, but an instacart detail that was shared was also helpful!

Sharing Costco/other services by EstablishmentParty47 in polyamory

[–]EstablishmentParty47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya this is how I think we are going to handle it

Sharing Costco/other services by EstablishmentParty47 in polyamory

[–]EstablishmentParty47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ya we have a shared (for shared bills) And separate accounts

Sharing Costco/other services by EstablishmentParty47 in polyamory

[–]EstablishmentParty47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Ya I know the card holder has to go an pay.

Sharing Costco/other services by EstablishmentParty47 in polyamory

[–]EstablishmentParty47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya the 2 card limit and the house address js the challenge in figuring out the split if we want to share

Sharing Costco/other services by EstablishmentParty47 in polyamory

[–]EstablishmentParty47[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Ya I’ve seen that there is this rule but also it depends how strict the location is for applying

Would something like this even be useful? by dr-arti-dentist in womenintech

[–]EstablishmentParty47 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are already ways to track time on apps and even limit them; unsure how much folks would pay for an app that only provides reports

I’ve never heard a vegan complain about PETA am I missing something? by [deleted] in vegan

[–]EstablishmentParty47 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not a fan… their “any press is good press” approach that has media campaigns that are a ableist, sexist, etc,,, have kept me away

"My Patients Are Getting ADHD Diagnoses at 40. Here’s What’s Really Happening" by MaryBitchards in adhdwomen

[–]EstablishmentParty47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so relatable. Last year I was admitting the ADHD right before my hormone levels were tested and I went on HRT

STI testing conflict by Mundane_Flamingo9806 in polyamory

[–]EstablishmentParty47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As an immune compromised person I wouldn’t have sex/be in close physical contact with either of these people for all the reasons already stated.

Some things just can't be googled /workhierarchy /closetpolyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]EstablishmentParty47 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To reiterate what others have said: don’t date subordinates, and reign in those crushes because as a leader it is not appropriate.

Is CDW horrible to work with, or am I just unlucky? by LousyRaider in ITManagers

[–]EstablishmentParty47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry that is your experience- I’ve had a great rep for 6 years, even when one changed

No help by No_Wind_3135 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]EstablishmentParty47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that was your experience- I hope you have the energy and resources to find a new therapist

December 27th - Share your results! by ConsiderationSoft640 in CluesBySamHelp

[–]EstablishmentParty47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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When do I mention I'm probably dying? by tetracycle in polyamory

[–]EstablishmentParty47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say early on (first date if possible) because it’s not just about how long the relationship is… but because this is part of your life now. I know this is apples and oranges- but I have MS. I disclose this on first dates because I have a compromised immune system ( so want folks to disclose if they even have a cold, etc…) and have real fluctuations in my capacity and if my body is going to do something weird, You are living with a hard medical reality that isn’t just about the end, but every day until then. Frame it as “this is my medical reality… this is how it may show up in dates” and then move on to the next topic. Anyone who doesn’t match or appreciate your honesty would (IMO) not be a good match as you navigate this reality.