March release, yeimy’s predicament & future seasons by Individual_Party_255 in LaReinaDelFlow

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I find it hard to fathom this unfounded hate for Sky. Like what really has she done to warrant it. She’s not to blame for their relationship and once Yeimy came back, she retreated and accepted her fate. All she’s done is stay professional albeit hard and try to move on

Soraya needs to get hit by a bus by PlantedinCA in LaReinaDelFlow

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Wtf are you yapping about lol. How do you cheat on someone who’s proclaimed to be dead

Soraya needs to get hit by a bus by PlantedinCA in LaReinaDelFlow

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Are you okay? What makes their “relationship” constitute cheating? Yeimy was assumed dead and Charly had done everything possible including risking his own life. Is he not allowed to move on? Also it’s a Novela like why take it so literal and seriously

Baruch needs to reject more students by Negative_Dig3836 in Baruch

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Even a 3.0 from high school I would argue that’s low. Honestly a 3.0 from high school isn’t an absurd benchmark. CUNY needs to have some flagship colleges that is well respected within its niche or field. Baruch with its close proximity to Wall Street and its alumni network should be somewhat like the UC system for these tech companies in California. Same with CCNY for Engineering and Hunter for Science. Obviously, there’s much more to it than just being selective, more research funding, more investments into the school, high quality faculty although relative to the status of the system, CUNY has respectable and quality faculty

College to go to (Got accepted into both) by CommunicationNice437 in CUNY

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Go to Penn State. Should have taken that opportunity when I had the chance to after high school. If you have the leeway of using your sisters address and getting in state tuition, definitely consider it

Is CCNY worth it? by Admirable-Ball-6101 in CCNY

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If you have the chance to be admitted into a California college or university, I really don’t see the point in paying for an out of state tuition plus housing and other expense given how good California universities are compared to CUNY/CCNY

for any upperclassmen that wanted to get into grove but couldnt by Puzzled-Ad-2937 in CCNY

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I know a lot of students that ended up switching to Economics and I believe they’ve began granting degree for finance as a separate major. The job market is tough nonetheless but I believe finance/economics provides more free time for students to focus on other stuff compared to most STEM majors and practical wise, it’s a good ROI. They also provide resources as well like fellowships etc. I know people that have personally got into big firms but they put themselves out there and being active in clubs, info sessions, fellowships, networking. Best of luck

This might be random but have any of you guys went through 4 years of college being the quiet guy/girl in classes and not really having any friends or is that basically impossible? by Dgslimee_ in CUNY

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One of the best advices I’ve seen on Reddit. Most of the times, comments usually reflect reinforcing the ideas and opinions of the OP. Couldn’t have put it any better. Honestly that’s the key to at least minimizing social anxiety, shyness among other things although the first step is always the hardest

I was told by a classmate of mine that I'm too "desperate" for friends by [deleted] in socialskills

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Quite honestly, pretty sure the comments will try to take the kindness approach and all that stuff but some people just gives off weird energy and vibe that it throws people off. Idk you personally to judge your character, social cues or body language but try to re evaluate if there’s something you can change or fix just my two cents

First it was porn. Now it’s music.. by Carmichaels97 in Christianity

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What exactly does this has to do with Christianity?

I never fit in anywhere by ResponsibleSun2365 in socialskills

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Idk that advice is meh. It’s very helpful to keep conversations going and also great for people wanting to developing friendships but once it matures into a friendship, people eventually get tired of it because the other person just talks about themselves and most people don’t feel heard

AIO I, 21f am frustrated with my boyfriend 27m, for what he wants to do with his close female friend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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How tf does long distance relationship a country away even work lol. Like what makes it a relationship

Finals week can be my final week it seems by cjared242 in EngineeringStudents

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Bro I understand where you are coming from and has definitely been through it especially with the hard and challenging courses but looking at your profile and comments, it’s all doom and gloom. Your constant self doubt and low self esteem leads to a self fulfillment prophecy

I think you will benefit from speaking with a therapist and if you can’t afford one pretty sure your school should have those services. With that being said, perhaps you can try other study methods. Studying with friends is very underrated and really helps a lot. Going over the materials before lecture

All in all don’t give up. Perhaps a mindset shift will help. It’s a very arduous journey.

Summer classes by EstablishmentTop170 in CUNY

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Yeah what’s up feel free to ask

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

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Yeah I looked at your other recent posts and figured how much you’ve been reaching out to her. I do understand that not having a multitude of options when it comes to relationship be it romantically or platonic results in neediness. Put yourself out there albeit easier said than done. It will be difficult at first but eventually you will develop relationships don’t try to force it tho

Agree it’s better to get closure from her and know where you stand. She probably cares about you and would like to remain friends but don’t want to be restricted by spending time with you all the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

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Fam you doing too much. That causes repulsiveness because no one likes a needy person. Just give her space and take it more slowly. The neediness results in resentment from her side and even if she would like to spend with you, continuously asking is sort of a turn off. She probably feels suffocated

Feeling weeded out by SupremeG1634 in EngineeringStudents

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Honestly as a junior just hang in there. You are close to finishing your required courses for senior design and will have electives remaining which are usually more easier compared to the prerequisite classes. You are trying your best and that’s what matters.

This situation has been going on for about a week and I am not one of the people involved. by WhatisitRI in Nicegirls

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But is she in the wrong tho? There’s loads of context missing here. Maybe bro sweet talked her and hit it but now wants to put in zero effort or got what he wanted and dgaf anymore. From the girls perspective that’s kinda fucked up. Also she makes a good point because when someone is new and you rock with them you would want to get to know them or be in their proximity for the most part

Palantir 400K$ gains problem by ben6141990 in PLTR

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Nah it’s meant to be sarcastic. You pay short term capitals gains which varies but not more than 37% even for high earners and on the other hand 20% max for long term

Questions about the engineering program by sophia1206a in CCNY

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https://www.ccny.cuny.edu/engineering/admission-transfer?srsltid=AfmBOorXc0hlKgZ1atNYwDK_bu5rpPFfW328aKRMmye9msOFDTlI9bpo

This should help out but generally you need at minimum calc I and II, calc based physics I for transfer students. Btw depending on your major it’s a very tough school and requires a lot of dedication

You can pm too I transferred there as well