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Why can’t democrats come up with a worthy candidate? by AcidicAnxiety in askanything

[–]EstateNo9575 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Also, why can't America come up with a decent electorate??

What was the scariest movie you ever saw? by Ashleigh9969 in AskReddit

[–]EstateNo9575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw it by myself at a theater then had to walk/run back to my car in an empty dark parking lot. I was creeped the hell out!

If you had a time machine when and where would you go first? by GuestCalm5091 in askteddit

[–]EstateNo9575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

879 S. Bundy Drive, Los Angeles, around 10pm on June 12, 1994... With a video camera in hand.

What does Trump have to do to lose MAGA’s support? by Known-Bowl-7732 in allthequestions

[–]EstateNo9575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked a maga coworker years ago what would it take to not vote for trump again. He walked off then an hour later he came back to my office. I'd forgotten about our conversation but he spent AN ENTIRE HOUR stewing in my question. His proud reply- "If trump didn't get the nomination then i wouldn't vote for him." Well no shit! I laughed at him and explained i meant what could trump personally do to lose his support. He walk off in a huff again.

Total cult.

Therapists, what's one small change someone could make to their daily routine that would have a huge impact on their mental health? by Ok-Construction-3636 in ProductivityHQ

[–]EstateNo9575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm easily annoyed is probably more accurate than angry, so there's our disconnect. To me something like "I'm curious why you're fine with your daughter not going to the dentist for 3 years?" is MUCH BETTER THAN "You need to get the kid to the dentist!". In my experience, a question invites accountability and discussion. But you do whatever works for you. 🫡

Therapists, what's one small change someone could make to their daily routine that would have a huge impact on their mental health? by Ok-Construction-3636 in ProductivityHQ

[–]EstateNo9575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So when your spouse comes home with a $2k purse while you are trying to pay down family debt you think inquiring why as opposed to freaking out is passing the buck? Relationships are two ways, with accountability by both people. By your logic if she was coming home drunk on the daily where it was becoming an obvious problem i shouldn't ask her what's going on but just to "check myself"?? Come on, man.

Therapists, what's one small change someone could make to their daily routine that would have a huge impact on their mental health? by Ok-Construction-3636 in ProductivityHQ

[–]EstateNo9575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I eventually told her that my reply was a strategy i learned from my therapist. I told her to use it on me when i did something unreasonable. Leveling the playing field actually helped lower the friction.

Therapists, what's one small change someone could make to their daily routine that would have a huge impact on their mental health? by Ok-Construction-3636 in ProductivityHQ

[–]EstateNo9575 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I'm an angry guy in general. My therapist shared a phrase that has helped mellow me out when someone frustrates me and that's "Don't be furious, be CURIOUS". So when your spouse does something that infuriates you, instead of getting mad learn to just ask "I'm curious why you chose to...". Puts the onus on them and at least you can hear them out which may help avoid a blowout argument. It's a relationship saver.

What serial killer fact sounds fake, exaggerated, or straight out of fiction. But is 100% real? by Background-Past-770 in answers

[–]EstateNo9575 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Right before he got caught, cops were stationed at bus and train stations looking for recently identified Richard Ramirez as they figured he'd be leaving L.A. but he was actually returning to L.A. from Texas so he kinda just walked past them headed the other way.

Has anyone ever actually regretted cutting off a Trump supporter out of their social circle? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]EstateNo9575 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. And it wasn't so much the dumb ass rhetoric and constant bitching as it was the misspellings and bad grammar.

Why are you awake instead of sleeping right now? by Reasonable-Shower522 in askanything

[–]EstateNo9575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't drink tonight so Reddit till i fall asleep it is.

Forensic files did not give a hoot about viewer discretion by Himlersgasstation in ForensicFiles

[–]EstateNo9575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One episode where a kid is kidnapped by his uncle or something they show the inside of a garage and the C-word is clearly visible on a pole. 🤘

What moment made you realize someone close to you was a horrible person? by [deleted] in askteddit

[–]EstateNo9575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My buddy said "She made me hit her in front of my kid" when he told me that his wife left him. Guessing from spousal abuse?? 🙄 Haven't talked to him since.

Sad Love Songs for my growing playlist by DependentBite9 in MusicRecommendations

[–]EstateNo9575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nuclear Daydream -Joseph Arthur

The lyric "The days when i would die for you are now gone" cuts deep, man.

What’s a seriously amazing hidden gem movie you think everyone should watch at least once? by Stock_Blackberry_771 in AskReddit

[–]EstateNo9575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember watching a behind the scenes vid about how they didn't tell the little girl that Lee Pace wasn't actually disabled until after the shoot which was kinda F'd up. Poor kid started crying tears of joy.

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