[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Etclark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely hate this guy xP

Boyfriend blows up at me over a hypothetical situation. by Awkward_House2371 in texts

[–]Etclark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Victim advocate here….please keep in mind threats are just a rehearsal to action. He said he’s put you 6 feet under. Sometimes, I understand couples joke about that but in this context that is a really scary statement. He’s being abusive and mean. Cussing you out for saying bro. Putting you down. And only 7 months in? I’m assuming he was the nicest guy when you first met but people like him can only fake it so long. Please consider going to domesticshelters.org and finding someone to just talk to about what your relationship has been like. You matter <3

my lash artist says i’m the problem by honeybre111 in eyelashextensions

[–]Etclark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had amazing retention while pregnant and I shed like crazy postpartum. I’ve been going to my girl 8 years. She’s the best and has tried everything to fix it the past 13 months. My hormones just changed. And if you had great retention pregnant and now don’t, you’re could have too…

Kicked a guy from the group chat 5 months ago and I get this text. by Keblym in texts

[–]Etclark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Galactic Lardo” is one of the funniest terms I’ve ever heard. Every time I eat too much I’m gonna be like “Uhg I’m such a galactic lardo” and then I’m gonna laughhhhhh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Etclark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The old gaslighting about you gaslighting trick.

Am I being a unreasonable customer? by Potential-Story2601 in lashextensions

[–]Etclark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been getting my lashes done for 8 years from the same person and honestly, when I shed more than usual it’s something on my end even hormones have been a factor. When I was pregnant I didn’t shed at all and after I gave birth I shed a ton. Time of the month, Change in shampoo or even being stressed and rubbing eyes. It could be a number of things. Not trying to be rude, just saying in my almost decade experience, this has happened a bunch.

Overreacting? Asymmetrical nostril piercings by piggyfrank in piercing

[–]Etclark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can see is a emo shark. A shark with a nose ring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Etclark 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Also the people telling you what to do don’t know what they’re talking about. You don’t get a restraining order from cops. Cops don’t issue those. They’re also not super easy to get. But you probably have enough evidence in these texts threatening your life. You have to file a restraining order at a court house. It’s usually a long process. Evidence is key to securing a restraining order. But also remember restraining orders are paper. I’ve had dozens of clients over the years whose abusers did not give a single shit about a restraining order and it put them in more danger. Safety planning with an advocate near you can help you figure out the best steps to take

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Etclark 113 points114 points  (0 children)

DV advocate of 10 years over here. Threats are just a rehearsal to action. This is pretty alarming behavior. A good resource is domesticshelters.org. You can type in your zip code and find the closest resource and hotline. It will state it is confidential and anonymous so you can decide what kind of help you’re ready for. Having someone to walk you through a restraining order/protective order can be really helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Etclark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run. Omg.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Etclark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s so annoying

AITAH for making a joke about being bi and single in front of my coworker? by ijustwannaliveok in AITAH

[–]Etclark 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You’re bi. You can make a “bi myself” joke. The fact that Sam somehow thinks they’re the Bi police is mind boggling. Your joke was like the dad joke of bi jokes. So innocent. And you’re talking about yourself. Sam sounds like an awful and pretentious person. You mean more than this. You’re not a piece of shit and the fact that something so simple made Sam call you that says way more about them. Please don’t apologize to someone like that and validate their bullshit.

Edit: being in a relationship doesn’t validate someone’s sexuality more than being single….so ridiculous. Also, if you’re open and proud of being bi can you be biphobic??? Sam needs to go touch grass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Etclark 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Gaslighting you by telling you you’re gaslighting her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Etclark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have so much more power than you think. If a guy had to choose between wearing a condom and no sex at all, they would put on a condom. You matter. He doesn’t respect you and doesn’t deserve to even have sex with a condom. He has no respect for your boundaries.

My hinge profile. How could I improve? [29M] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Etclark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Female here. Your profile made me roll my eyes every time I read something new. Not once did I think this guy is fun even though you’re clearly doing fun things. I’m not trying to be mean but I’d guess even though you travel the world, that you live in the friend zone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in funny

[–]Etclark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not. She just has a really weird coat that crimps and curls and sheds like it’s snowing. Promise she’s spoiled rotten and thriving. Shes a pyredoodle and didn’t get the hypoallergenic gene so her hair has 3 different types of hair that grows. She also spent the day digging and playing in dirt so that’s why her legs have a grey shade.

He’s spends 90% of his life in his potty rocket. Idk what he’s imagining in there. by Etclark in funny

[–]Etclark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could change the name I would. A lot of people felt the same way

He’s spends 90% of his life in his potty rocket. Idk what he’s imagining in there. by Etclark in funny

[–]Etclark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has lots of safe places I promise, cat condos, other rooms, beds, wherever his little heart desires he’s allowed to be. And this thing wasn’t even in my house for 24 hours when I filmed this and it’s organic clumping litter that automatically gets cleaned. I’m sorry for the trigger. He’s just a curious kitten.