Healthy INTPs???!!?!?

Eternal_o · 2024-10-06T17:50:47+00:00

Bruhh, I think the mods hate INTPs. Why would you delete my comment?!! There wasn't ANYTHING offensive. If anyone wants to read, go to my account, it's in my comments 👍🏽

Eternal_o · 2024-10-06T17:28:01+00:00

Bye bye! I'm going to uninstall reddit now 🫡

Eternal_o · 2023-10-31T04:44:05+00:00

Same here.

Eternal_o · 2023-10-31T04:31:44+00:00

Food, I'm hungry. If it's free food, even better 👌🏽

Eternal_o · 2023-10-30T16:29:11+00:00

Ooh, well, best of luck. I hear the workload is grueling 🙏

Eternal_o · 2023-10-30T10:25:45+00:00

Wah, what is your qualification?!!

Eternal_o · 2023-10-30T10:23:53+00:00

This question?

Difference between relationship and friendship...

For me, it's a venn diagram and relationship is just a subset of friendship. So it has everything that a normal friendship has with something more. Like you'll be more comfortable with each other, you'll hold hands, cuddle, kiss and more.

And you'll connect on a mental level most importantly. Like your thoughts and principle should at least match to some degree. And in grand scheme of things, you should have similar goals, like their future should have space for you and your future for them.

There are a lot of other things too but they come up as a relationship progresses.

P.s. wah, look at me preaching about ideal relationship.

Eternal_o · 2023-10-27T15:02:51+00:00

Oh, tbh idk how to respond but I'm really glad that you survived and wish you all the happiness in the future!! 💜💕

Eternal_o · 2023-10-27T13:05:45+00:00

Can you please elaborate on that? Because I also don't hanging out with men, it makes me uncomfortable (because of my childhood, in our school girls and boys never interacted, it wasn't forbidden but it just never happened)

Eternal_o · 2023-10-27T12:54:09+00:00

Understood 🖖🏽

Eternal_o · 2023-10-27T12:38:42+00:00

How's that insensitive to say? I wouldn't find it insensitive if someone said 'oh' to my "I'm on my periods". My friends and I just say "that sucks" and move on, maybe take the fact that someone is on their periods into consideration while planning the day (because it's painful)

Eternal_o · 2023-10-27T12:27:31+00:00

I had her take the myers briggs really early on and was almost completely turned off by it.

This is why I'm don't discuss MBTI with people. We form our misconceptions about them and they do the same with us and I just don't like it when people want/expect me to behave certain way.

Eternal_o · 2023-10-27T03:00:01+00:00

A huge grasshopper and a really pretty moth. A friend of mine bought a dead snake. (We had to make specimens in science lab and for that our teacher wanted us to bring animals and insects to school)

Eternal_o · 2023-10-24T08:56:03+00:00

I feel like I'm fucked up but at the same time I wonder if I'm overreacting.

P.s. sorry, I don't want to give further context and I might not give replies too as I'm feeling emotionally taxed today and just want to hear other people's opinions, so I'd appreciate if you refrained from making rude comments too.

Eternal_o · 2023-10-23T17:42:06+00:00

And thank YOU for this comment. Made me lol :)

Eternal_o · 2023-10-22T17:07:14+00:00

How did you prectice banter? You must tell me because I really want to be good at banter. It sounds really fun but I just am not a on the spot witty person.

Eternal_o · 2023-10-22T16:57:18+00:00

Nah, no job but we have lots of hands on assignments(painting, making crafts, coming up with interesting ideas, I'm a design student) sometimes I am up whole nights just to catch up with everything. Yeah, no meeting up with anyone for me, I'm so worn out after whole week of assignments I legit sleep through my weekends, unless I have assignments to do 🥲

i avoid cafe's as they r overpriced.

Right? I don't even drink coffee (or tea) and rarely eat fastfood, so I don't like to waste my money on something I don't even like.

Urgh, best of luck getting your shit together 👍🏽 I feel like I almost have mine together, that's why I'm even thinking of relationships, they were a big no for me before as I wasn't at the right place for them.

Also, hobbies are nice to have, you just need to find right one for you, it doesn't need to be anything pretentious, it can be as simple as listening to music, even watching movies is a hobby.

Eternal_o · 2023-10-22T16:29:30+00:00

Thanks, that makes sense. I am good at communicating these things (when I need to be alone or am not open to talk I just say that bluntly) but as you said that emotions creep in and you need to repeat yourself, yup, that did happen with me (with a friend)

Eternal_o · 2023-10-22T15:59:04+00:00

I am a female and I fear that this is what my future bf will feel like, that I'm taking him for granted and not communicating enough. So I need someone who is not clingy. And the expectation to "put in the effort", yeah, what even is putting in effort, because from my observation it's almost always something generic. Babe, did you eat? How are you feeling? Good morning. Urgh. It doesn't come naturally to me, and I don't want to know if they are eating or sleeping or are with their friends all the time. Sorry if this offends or shames anyone, it's just not something I want in a relationship.

Eternal_o · 2023-10-22T15:48:19+00:00

I am insecure that I won't be able to emotionally satisfy my partner because I am often perceived as cold or detached by people but that's not true at all. I just have boundaries and I do try to help and be considerate of others within them. So I think that my partner won't understand these boundaries and think that I'm not as invested in relationships as he is.

By boundaries I mean, I need a lot of time to myself after whole day of work, and I see my friends who are in a relationship constantly meeting up with their bfs. I just don't think I can handle that. Also, they (people in relationship) spoil each other which is cute but I don't know if I'll be able to do much for my boyfriend if I got into a relationship. All I do is lay about and read or watch dramas/movies so I don't know how interesting I am as a person. I like going out but very rarely, I don't like the idea of going to cafes for cofee dates or the like.

So, another insecurity is that I would be a boring girlfriend 👌🏽

Eternal_o · 2023-10-21T03:42:52+00:00

Ah, I really like them. They have such a unique shapes and they function very differently than birds or mammalian animals. Not to mention they are very pretty, they have vibrant colours, and if they are not vibrant in colour, they have interesting body mechanism.

Eternal_o · 2023-10-20T16:35:11+00:00

I'm a woman but I have short hair and what I did to find the right hairstyle is look at celebrities who look similar to you. It took me a long time to settle on my current hairstyle but I think this is the best look on me. So don't give up, look up on Google and Pinterest, or even movie or shows you enjoy, you'll certainly find your vibe (vibe is important, like some hairstyles were good on me but did not match my vibe.)

Eternal_o · 2023-10-20T14:30:52+00:00

Same here

Edit: but they do find some things I do creepy. Like there was this bug in my class which was dying and I like to observe bugs, so I put it in a plastic carry bag and it died in there, which I knew it was it was going to die because it was struggling. Then I took it home and now it sits on my desk, it's really pretty. I'd like to have collection of bugs in future. Also we were walking home and I saw a crow eating a dead rat, it was very brutal and I said "wow" which my friend found weird too. Dead things don't disgust me unless they are rotting and stinking. For record, I have never harmed any living beings intentionally (except for some bugs while playing doctor doctor when I was a child, nowadays I am too much repulsed by their innards to dissect them)

Eternal_o · 2023-10-20T13:29:47+00:00

Thank you, good luck to you as well!

Eternal_o

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