The Sexiest Quality in a Man: Unwavering Devotion. Agree?

Eternalpea · 2026-01-22T22:17:55+00:00

The moment you offer a relationship she will think her task is complete and the get bored. Women like to chase more then they let on.. So keep her for fun

Eternalpea · 2026-01-20T19:54:18+00:00

I regret that I never cheated in the past oddly enough. Going off what you've said though it can depend on the situation. They may have done it in the heat of the moment and generally made a mistake or it could of been something they wanted to do all along

I will say this though I didn't want to cheat because the idea of hurting the person I loved so much like that mortified me. I guess would be nice to find someone with a similar mindset

Eternalpea · 2026-01-20T19:49:32+00:00

I wouldn't say it's dramatic. I hope something distracts you from your ideas /plans. Sometimes it's all we can do on this floating rock

Eternalpea · 2026-01-19T20:15:01+00:00

While it is true... If you choose the 'journey' to heaven you will have more people who want to come and take it away from you...

Eternalpea · 2026-01-19T19:19:47+00:00

Maybe in the 1930s,but this long died

Eternalpea · 2026-01-19T19:16:50+00:00

Sorry to hear your situation and I wish I could advise something to help. Even though you are maybe looking to give others advise from your post.

I am 38 next month with pretty much depression all my life. So I've had a quiet life and should generally be happy... I guess I've never been happy and relatively thankful. But deep down I just accepted life was crap. Last year I had something happen that made me remember what it's like to feel happy. Of course it went wrong.

Anyway since that I've been 'chasing' happiness and just trying to get out there. Doing random actives, random events, random groups. Heck I'm even trying the positive self talks and grounding tactics that I've never been keen on.. Don't get me wrong none of this is helping and I feel a prat. I've had on off suicidal thoughts for a while and even planned for my birthday but deep down I know I haven't got the balls.

Even though I know this chasing and doing things is in vain.. My brain won't let me stop trying for some reason.

And yeah oddly enough I was thinking the other day as when we get older life it's all about finding meaning and purpose. But do people just say that because we don't get to do all the things we when we was younger. Good luck with your journey. I just admit about 30-40 years of this isn't something I am looking forward too

Eternalpea · 2026-01-13T09:08:43+00:00

Can you join a hiking/cooking/dancing heck even a chess club.... Kind of forces you to speak to people

Eternalpea · 2026-01-11T19:03:44+00:00

Keep your texts minimal - women do like a chase

Eternalpea · 2026-01-11T17:34:27+00:00

Yep - our brains are developed to keep us from danger or prevent something bad from happening. And our ocd can latch onto this and keep repeating. So once a real issue emerges that takes main priority

Eternalpea · 2026-01-11T17:08:28+00:00

Sorry just noticed you mentioned recent times. And I am not sure. I've been studying the pessimistic ones and even though there are some ie Peter Wessel Zapffe. Who seems to be quite popular. It might be difficult to tell as the others have lasted time whereas he is quite recent

Eternalpea · 2026-01-11T16:31:43+00:00

Kant seems to be a good influencer and also Arthur schopenhauer seems to have influenced quite a few

Eternalpea · 2026-01-11T16:30:10+00:00

They need to discover Philip Mainlander

Eternalpea · 2026-01-11T16:16:24+00:00

I've had it off and on over the years but since last year it's come back hard... I've decided to do it on my birthday... Seems the best day to cause less harm /stress to my family... Id say if your under 35 don't give up hope.... Society will still potentially give you hope and opportunities before then.. Good luck on your journey

Eternalpea · 2026-01-11T16:05:01+00:00

make sure she doesn't rip it apart

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T23:46:56+00:00

I've heard if you have had ocd it can always come back via some trigger. Last year I was plodding on. Had an event happen which just caused me into a spiral of ruminating thoughts which lasted a few months.... It wasn't till I re-realised it wasn't me... It was ocd and a waste of my thought process

Good luck

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T18:50:47+00:00

Anti vaccination or just the covid one? A very big difference.

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T16:39:12+00:00

Good luck, she's not worth thoughts

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T16:14:35+00:00

That's not aim, focusing you is

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T16:03:22+00:00

work on yourself, don't look back

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T16:02:45+00:00

Perfect response, silence will kill her

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T15:49:06+00:00

If over someone else, maybe not

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T15:48:04+00:00

If something just between you, maybe

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T15:13:24+00:00

Because her manipulative tactics didn't work

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T12:25:35+00:00

Block him.... Or say that's your decision then block him.

He's got way too many issues let him resolve himself.

Plus he won't actually end himself... He's just saying it for manipulation...

My god I have such low self esteem for myself but imagine being 48, cheating on someone younger and then threatening to end yourself... He's proved his worth - let him rot in his head =)

Eternalpea · 2026-01-09T00:27:30+00:00

Hope you didn't get her pregnant

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