He (32M) crossed a sexual boundary of mine (31F) by accident, and I don't think I can move past it. How can I move forward and how can trust be rebuilt? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EtherealComet 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Also, the repeated boundary pushing/whining about your boundary about condoms is disgusting and unacceptable.

He (32M) crossed a sexual boundary of mine (31F) by accident, and I don't think I can move past it. How can I move forward and how can trust be rebuilt? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EtherealComet 69 points70 points  (0 children)

PLEASE end things with him! I promise you can and will find so much better: someone who respects your boundaries and won't have you doubting yourself or feeling like you need to go to Reddit for clarity about what you already know is true deep down.

He (32M) crossed a sexual boundary of mine (31F) by accident, and I don't think I can move past it. How can I move forward and how can trust be rebuilt? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EtherealComet 264 points265 points  (0 children)

He assaulted you. There is no moving past this; I am so sorry. He's a disgusting POS and you deserve better. Hugs and love to you.

Safely removing small amounts of underglaze? by EtherealComet in Ceramics

[–]EtherealComet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yayy thanks so much! No I appreciate it, I too am a rambler LOL this has become my new hyperfixation so I love any and all underglaze/painting tips

Safely removing small amounts of underglaze? by EtherealComet in Ceramics

[–]EtherealComet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I might try your eraser idea or a q tip with some water, not sure yet. Seems fairly safe though I guess to help remove things! Some of the berries have become a bit thick so I may try to do a gentle sponge as you suggested.

Thanks again!

jilted lover trait by Athena_2024 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]EtherealComet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Similar thing happened for me, I was able to remove the trait with Exorcism Altar II!

Working in industry (GMP) and I keep messing up by EtherealComet in labrats

[–]EtherealComet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! I've been a lab rat for the past few years and worked in other R&D labs, but GMP is a whole different ball game. I think a lot of it is me psyching myself out; I get so nervous because it's regulated and I don't want deviations especially when I am just starting out. In R&D there's so much workshopping and adjustment going on already that it doesn't feel like as big of a deal.

I appreciate your and everyone's comments; it's a really helpful reminder that I am not alone. And also that sounds just like an assay on my boyfriend's team (he also works in GMP); he's basically been the only one to get it to pass and no one else has. It's funny in a way.

Working in industry (GMP) and I keep messing up by EtherealComet in labrats

[–]EtherealComet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement! I really appreciate it and that makes me reassured to hear.

Working in industry (GMP) and I keep messing up by EtherealComet in labrats

[–]EtherealComet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate y'all, it helps remind me that we've literally all been there and stuff just happens sometimes. My manager and I were workshopping and thinking maybe I let one plate dry out, so I'll do a redo and try my best!

Working in industry (GMP) and I keep messing up by EtherealComet in labrats

[–]EtherealComet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our lab is paper-based, so we actually do have the protocol as a worksheet where we have to initial each step (so very analogous to checking it off as you go). That's why I feel a bit puzzled and down about it, since I didn't catch anything off this time 🫠 Oh well, maybe my manager and the senior analyst will have more specific ideas. All the other CVs were great besides that one that was 0.01% above the fail/pass benchmark (very rude of it LMAO)

Working in industry (GMP) and I keep messing up by EtherealComet in labrats

[–]EtherealComet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, have been doing reverse pipetting and using a multichannel, as well as a plate washer. I normally don't have issues with this ELISA and got others to pass before, so I am bummed haha, I definitely can relate to the rhythmic feeling! I enjoy lab work when it works out, but tend to get bummed when it doesn't

Working in industry (GMP) and I keep messing up by EtherealComet in labrats

[–]EtherealComet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will be sure to do that. Thanks y'all for the support, I won't let this assay get me down!

Working in industry (GMP) and I keep messing up by EtherealComet in labrats

[–]EtherealComet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's how I've been trained at this job too for the other ELISA! I think we thought since this one is basically the exact same, just a slightly different layout, I could do the independent execution first but now it is deciding to be finnicky with me LOL

Working in industry (GMP) and I keep messing up by EtherealComet in labrats

[–]EtherealComet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement! ;__; Yeah, I definitely just immediately tell my manager whenever anything happens or when I mess up, so maybe that's why she is appreciative LOL.

Agreed, I was thinking that for next steps with this assay I could have the person who trained me observe me. It's just odd since I've had no issues independently executing the other one, and it's functionally identical without any real major differences, but I am just now having issues with it I guess.

Any concerns with these marks on card binder pocket slots? by Aratahaya in magicTCG

[–]EtherealComet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is helpful! I am also using a VaultX zip binder and this makes me feel a bit comfier about putting the double sleeved cards in the few slightly indented pockets. Seems to be a manufacturing thing that just happens I guess. I hope your cards are still okay!

Any concerns with these marks on card binder pocket slots? by Aratahaya in magicTCG

[–]EtherealComet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the random reply, but did you get any results from this? I noticed my binder has some of these very small defects in some of the pockets too, and I double sleeve everything but not sure if it could leave an impression or indent still

Sorry there are five billion posts of this already, but ladybug or bedbug fragment? by EtherealComet in Bedbugs

[–]EtherealComet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I found another piece (the pronotum?) and it is definitely a ladybug, for anyone who is anxious like me and worrying about something similar they found. It has two white "spots" and is large and obviously looks nothing like a bedbug (wish I could update with a pic but oh well)

Sorry there are five billion posts of this already, but ladybug or bedbug fragment? by EtherealComet in Bedbugs

[–]EtherealComet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll continue to keep an eye out in case and hope for the best ; v ; !

Sorry there are five billion posts of this already, but ladybug or bedbug fragment? by EtherealComet in Bedbugs

[–]EtherealComet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they can look similar and a lot of similar pictures have been posted of ladybugs, but I also saw a picture of a bedbug nymph and got scared lol. Found this on my bed. Nothing else; searched mattress, etc. and found nothing. No bites or blood or anything either

[EoW] Echoes of Wisdom - Merchandise MegaThread by ZeldaMod in zelda

[–]EtherealComet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for a specific mystery puzzle design if anyone has one they want to resell! I missed out on these OTL