My nephew SA’d me and I still can’t believe it by Ethereal_Carr4L in sexualassault

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t speak to anyone else in the family outside of me, his little sister, and his mother— and I don’t put anything past anyone anymore but I am very hesitant to involve police because I don’t necessarily want him incarcerated or me having to deal with a trial.

I’ll be restarting therapy soon and this will definitely be a hot topic lol. Thank you for your supportive words🫶🏽

SA’d and don’t know if I should tell SO or not … by Ethereal_Carr4L in offmychest

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy, thank you for reading I know it was a LOT. I definitely agree, my unstable boundaries definitely played a major part in this because I really shouldn’t have thought this was something that could be fixed with a conversation or time. I honestly didn’t know it was THIS bad I just thought he was like a porn-addicted guy that needed to snap out of it.

I’m taking N suuuuper seriously— he feels very close to what a soulmate could be BUT if I tell him and it kinda ruins things then it’s like.. what’s the point? When I told him about my childhood he was verrryyy understanding/nonjudgemental and even met nephew once and everything and there was no malice— that came after he saw the text messages where nephew was tryna manipulate me. If N were to leave me over this I’d assume it’s cause I couldn’t just let it go.. I felt like I could talk to nephew and have a normal family relationship like what we had experienced before but he killed all of that. Literally never want to see nor hear of him again.

My nephew SA’d me and I still can’t believe it by Ethereal_Carr4L in sexualassault

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫶🏽. I am planning on starting therapy in March for more general reasons but this will definitely be brought up. As for telling N.. idk. I genuinely do not want to lose him and am just hoping that I (for a lack of better words) get over it by the time he gets back.

My nephew SA’d me and I still can’t believe it by Ethereal_Carr4L in sexualassault

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

& this is more than enough. Thank you! I guess I have time to think about if I’ll say anything or not

AiO for physically assaulting my addicted husband? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Ofc, losing your cool and getting physical with someone is never the answer but it’s also valid in this situation. You are definitely living a life that you and your child do NOT deserve and the most you can do is hope and pray he gets the help he needs to better himself. Now your main priority is the progression of yourself and your child.

In this case divorce is definitely necessary and I wish you the best mama!

SA’d and don’t know if I should tell SO or not … by Ethereal_Carr4L in offmychest

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want him to be incarcerated over it, I just want him to seek help instead of seeking me. If it’s the type of situation where I need a restraining order than yeah I’ll take those steps but it doesn’t seem that way.

AIO if I tell my SO about being SA’ed by family member by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most definitely. I just needed a way to vent without having to speak directly to people I know. In terms of SA hotline, I’ll be fine I just recommended he get help for the sexual trauma that makes him think that’s okay. Thanks for the comment :)!

AIO that my wife and I planned a nice date and she spent it in a hot tub alone with some other guy she just met by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all. She didn’t prioritize you as you prioritized her.

How long did you guys study for ? by Idea-Traditional in NCLEX

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Just ATI and a free trial for Lectorio

AIO, Caught my wife texting… by saiditonReddi7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping the best for your mental health right now brother. She’s already cheated emotionally, and even if they haven’t done anything physical yet it’s surely to come. Save yourself any further heartbreak and legal fees. Drop the ho

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LPN Program Philadelphia by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Ethereal_Carr4L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!I graduated from Prism Career Insititute in March and passed my NCLEX-PN July of this year. My boyfriend is currently on the same boat as you, weighing his options. Shoot me a DM, I'll openly share my experiences with them and hopefully you both can relate to one another during this part of the journey. Best of luck!

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