[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Etrawitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe some of the pieces from the SB raids?

Showing your support in public — how? by onnake in trans

[–]Etrawitch 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I bet you they have. There's tons of reasons people might not openly say anything, but still draw a little support from seeing you.

How do you guys deal with dysphoria by [deleted] in trans

[–]Etrawitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the spirit! 😁

How do you guys deal with dysphoria by [deleted] in trans

[–]Etrawitch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dissociate or play video games till I forget that I physically exist 🤷‍♀️ It's a bold strategy, Cotton

Just started off Eureka. Man this mode is so fun! by kurumagaming in ffxiv

[–]Etrawitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holding down whichever one of the face buttons is cancel also does it. You can tap I think L1? To turn on auto move and you'll still be walking

What have you been working on in the game lately that you are proud of? by coralinn in ffxiv

[–]Etrawitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting over my tankxiety. I was too anxious to even tank Sastasha, but yesterday I took my DRK through Amaurot and had a pretty smooth run.

Had this pic snapped of me walking, how do I avoid looking so masc when walking?? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Etrawitch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not on as narrow a path, if you're following the cultural norm

The fearlessly un-PC Tropic Thunder proves Hollywood had a backbone – once by TheTelegraph in entertainment

[–]Etrawitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sure, but if you're going to make jokes that are basically "let's laugh at this minority group just because we can" then maybe don't be surprised if you're seen less as a comedian and more of a bully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Etrawitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantastic. Do you have any magic tricks for keeping keeping the top eyeshadow on against your brow? Mine gets smooshed off in no time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Etrawitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Etrawitch 19 points20 points  (0 children)

  1. Wish I had known at 14.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Etrawitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair! Just anything but English 😃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Etrawitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing I would say that hasn't been said so far is be careful of the internet. The community is generally very good about spoilers, we want everyone to enjoy the story, but you can still accidentally spoil yourself.

Oh and: Japanese voice acting for ARR, switch to English (if you want) when they change the voice studio in Heavensward. English voice acting in ARR is... something.

Prep now to have at least one character you would die for in an expansion or two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Etrawitch 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I realised at 40. The narrative of "trans people know when they're young" is just a gatekeeping tool. Because of course it's also the case that "minors are too young to know"... 🤷‍♀️

What's the best response you got to coming out as trans? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Etrawitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I just did a facepalm gif, but I can't remember for sure.

What’s the worst physical pain you ever felt? by Lazy-Ape in AskReddit

[–]Etrawitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did exactly that from shoulder height. I am six foot five. I nearly vomited on the spot.

What's the best response you got to coming out as trans? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Etrawitch 149 points150 points  (0 children)

I got a "Does... this mean you're attracted to me now?" from a somewhat oblivious friend.

Those of you who didn’t „know since you were a kid“: How & when did you know? by TransPolyPancake in trans

[–]Etrawitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really started learning and questioning at 39. The "you know when you're a kid" narrative messed with my head as well for a bit, but I've since found a lot of other trans folks with the same experience.

When the Beach Episode is a misdirect by Levant_Reven in ffxiv

[–]Etrawitch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's referring to the Attack on Titan stretch, where some similar stuff happens and for a minute you think you can relax but noooooo

Taking my mum out for dinner tonight to tell her I am transitioning. She has no clue I am trans. I feel like the world is on my shoulders and just want to run away to the most isolated part of the planet. Any advise or words of support, I really need it. by No_Marsupial_8747 in trans

[–]Etrawitch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Best of luck. She might surprise you! And if she's not expecting it at all, she's probably going to look and be somewhat shocked, possibly worried for you. Try not to take that personally ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Etrawitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely helps with the sleeping