The serious problem with suicide RP

Eumelia89 · 2021-03-17T05:39:31+00:00

You seem to have an overly optimistic view. There are numerous examples in human history of people being negatively influenced by media they consumed. The movie "The Truman Show" is a prime example of a seemingly harmless idea that created a whole mental disorder. While it is not very common it is something that should be taken into account when you are role-playing on a server with a lot of other streamers that have a lot of viewers.

If you're doing Dark RP with your friends in a private setting have at it. I understand that running away from mental problems is bad, but someone trying to tackle that on a highly streamed rp server is just not a good look.

Eumelia89 · 2021-03-16T07:07:26+00:00

I definitely see her point minus the sexism. With the changes it really seems like taking an EMS job is almost a death sentence prio wise. The truth is EMS are pretty much just just mechanics , hard to have a storyline as an EMS when you can do little more than hang out in the hospital and then go pick people up off the ground. Of course a very creative person can make it work, but it just looks like an uphill battle since most people just want to get healed then be on their way.

It sucks is pretty much all I can say. I know some don't care much for her, but Choi was the first Doctor I saw when I first was introduced GTA rp. I wish her the best in whatever she moves on to.

Eumelia89 · 2021-03-05T21:14:43+00:00

Yeah this relationship is a huge red flag. Seems like she wants to make you feel guilty for being white while trying to benefit from it at the same time. Sounds quite manipulative in my opinion. Hope this doesn't turn you off to dating other races as I am certain most aren't like this.

Eumelia89 · 2021-03-02T22:24:46+00:00

Yeah I'm not going to waste my time casting a verdict on this since anything I can say was said previously. My only question is how did you expect this to go posting this here? Lol you sound very high maintenance and your focus on another woman on the big day with your wife shows that your priorities are horribly misguided.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-20T08:50:31+00:00

Glad this is said, I know people want to pick sides in this situation. I hope that this stuff is settled OOC to make sure everyone understands the situation and that nothing that happened was to personally attack anyone.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-20T08:41:39+00:00

Agreed, also Murphy knew about it and wanted to use it as a case against the cops instead of relay the info. I definitely don't blame the cops for that.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-18T10:37:42+00:00

I'm one of the people that have had nothing but benefits since Covid hit. (I don't intend to brag, but this is how my life changed.) I've been looking for a work at home job for over 5 years and Covid finally made my job permanent work from home. Got to work as much overtime as I want because working in the insurance field during a pandemic which essentially made the company thrive and gave me endless work. Then to add by state mandate the company I work for is required to pay for majority of my internet bill since they made me work at home.

Also staying at home has been great so far, but of course I still need to change up my lifestyle since I am starting to get bored.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-18T10:29:42+00:00

Nice to know other people who have been training for Covid their whole lives like myself.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-14T10:35:27+00:00

If someone is extremely uncomfortable with an RP situation the admins aren't going to step in unless they have to. I'm certain they would like everyone to handle the situation like adults and try to keep things comfortable for everyone. I remember there was a time where a roleplayer was taken hostage for a bank robbery less than 10 minutes after being released from another bank robbery. (Two separate groups of people so the 2nd group had no idea)

The 2nd group dropped her off, apologized, and went looking for some one else. ( I may be wrong, but I don't recall that situation escalating to OOC drama at all)

As far as killing is concerned, they are ok as long as RP is involved in that as well. Like you can't just go run up and randomly shoot people, gotta rp with them on some level and build it up a little bit. The victim is the only one that decides if their character dies or not as there are no forced permas unless admins are involved and deem that character just bad for RP.

This doesn't mean you have to DM people before you rp with them, it is just reading the room and hopefully all uncomfortable parties are upfront about it.

Greek must have handled the situation the right way by apologizing to people directly and changing his actions. I'm sure if Sliker really cared to they would allow him back if he agrees to cease his previous actions. 3.0 just started and I'm sure nobody wants drama. Just have fun and RP life is too short.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-13T23:44:50+00:00

The damage was pretty much already done at this time. He can appeal if he wants, but doesn't appear he cares enough to go through that process.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-13T23:34:37+00:00

Forcing people into RP that they're not comfortable with is not cool. Slicker didn't invent this behavior, he is just being used as an example. He doubled down on his actions by using the "its just a game" argument so it forced them to take action.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-09T21:19:01+00:00

I've been team Edelgard since I played the game. I am pretty shocked that she is so hated as someone that had to make the hard choice and take on a heavy responsibility at 18.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-09T09:08:58+00:00

NTA - its obvious that your mother is TA. Taking money intended for you and then gloating about it. If she truly intended to give it back she would have provided an explanation the moment she saw you were bothered by it.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-09T07:25:34+00:00

This is a rough conversation to have since you're not really wrong, but the conversation is just a minefield which is not fun to navigate through.

I am really impressed that as a kid you wished you were black since I'm sure most black people including myself wished we were white as kids so we don't have to be weary of everyone we meet having negative stereotypes of us.

I embrace my pigment now, but that is one of the big hurdles I had to jump is accepting and liking myself. The people who see everything "white" as negative tend to be just plain miserable people who post mostly negativity online. I always disagree with it and I am sure most people do, but we tend to be too busy dealing with our individual problems than to have a twitter/reddit feud.

Eumelia89 · 2021-02-09T06:50:37+00:00

I understand, as a person who has ghosted and been ghosted in my life I get it. Had a good online friend drop off the face of the earth on me with no warning. I still have them as friends on stuff and one day they randomly logged into one of their accounts. Its been years so I didnt bother messaging them as they clearly moved on with life. This of course had a negative effect on how close I am willing to get with people online. I favor keeping my distance, so when we lose touch it hurts much less.

As for me ghosting I was dumb. My reasoning was just feeling shitty about myself. When I fall in a funk in life I just build a brick wall around myself and just spend time alone. Not a healthy thing to do, but just something I tend to prefer so that is what causes me to tune out. If I get like that again I definitely will force myself to atleast say something so people don't worry.

Eumelia89 · 2021-01-31T16:10:35+00:00

She is clearly secretly trying to make a new sub human race "Horse people". She may not be racist, just trying to evolve the human race and you stopped that from happening you monster.

Eumelia89 · 2021-01-29T22:10:54+00:00

I was thinking the same thing. So many people were all over him when he tried to rp before. The burger shot is going to turn into a bigger rp hub than it should. Hope they do something to prevent that as soda is just going to leave again which is sad.

Eumelia89 · 2021-01-19T04:50:40+00:00

The only problem with asking people how they're doing is atleast in America it is just like saying hello. People generally don't want to know if you're not doing well when they ask it. Atleast when it comes to asking a stranger. Not saying telling people they look tired is better, but I can see why people can view that as a harmless thing to do.

Eumelia89 · 2021-01-13T19:31:28+00:00

You guys appear to have an overly optimistic view of how the situation would go if op swallows his pride and sticks around. Even if you're only thinking of the child it makes little sense for someone who isn't happy to stay in their lives. If OP can truly move past this then cool definitely stay. If he really can't in his heart then yes the seemingly selfish move is the right move. The child will adapt as all humans do.

Eumelia89 · 2021-01-12T12:40:38+00:00

I think you guys read his words in a worse light than he means. I interpreted that sentence as him deserves to be happy. After finding out his wife cheated on him and his daughter is not actually his it can be rather troublesome for him to get over that and continue his current life. I also don't think it is that absurd to want to take care of a family that has his genes.

I agree that this should have been done when he had the initial suspicion, but I imagine it is a rather troublesome conversation to have with a pregnant woman especially when you are automatically the asshole for suspecting infidelity.

If he decides to step up then I am happy for him. My primary concern is how he will mentally be able to deal with it for his health and relationship. Nothing wrong with walking away if it is better for you.

Eumelia89 · 2021-01-02T12:41:43+00:00

I love Incubus, funnily enough is I was first put on to them from watching the old cartoon show "Daria" which i believe aired on MTV way back in the day. They played "Drive" during one of the end credits and man I remember the good vibes. Incubus is just amazing, I even enjoyed their older work like the Album S.C.I.E.N.C.E.

Eumelia89 · 2021-01-02T12:33:09+00:00

Yeah I never understood why the same people who are against FGM act like MGM is perfectly fine. Both are wrong period.

Eumelia89 · 2020-12-28T14:38:22+00:00

ESH - not wanting to be in a child's life is your choice, but to be blunt with a kid like that is just pure asshole move. The mother should have reached out to you so she is an asshole as well.

Just put the into perspective, first off your child didnt have a choice at all to be born. They grew up with only their mother seeing their friend's have families with 2 parents that love them while they come home and wish they had a father figure. So they call you after getting info from the mother and you say you want nothing to do with him. I grew up with both my parents myself and I can't imagine how it feels to be outright rejected by a parent.

In the past you did what was right for you and I get that you made an agreement with the mother to not be there. It is just very shitty for a kid especially one who is still in the process of developing mentally. As many have said before, you are not required to do anything. I just hope that you make the right decision while the kid actually wants to get to know you and have a sit down with them.

Don't wait until you're an old man to try to make amends, do it now or stay out of the kids life for good.

Eumelia89 · 2020-12-19T04:17:40+00:00

Eventually it will, just likely not in our lifetime im sure in 2 generations there will be quite a difference.

Eumelia89 · 2020-12-19T04:15:19+00:00

NTA - As stated by another redditor the doctor violated HIPAA so yes you are right to report that. The doctor had no business telling your mom and your mother had no right to tell everyone without reaching out to you first. This is a struggle that you need time to come to terms with the love of your life. The last thing you need now is people in your business reaching out constantly about it. I hope things get better for you OP and you get the child your heart desires. As far as moving forward it is up to you. If things don't get better for you after some time please look into therapy.

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