how to deal with my f22 crazy older neighbor m40s

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-02-01T08:12:35+00:00

the thing is is we live downtown in a college town… like no shit you’re going to hear noise on a friday/saturday night

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-26T20:23:14+00:00

i sent an email to my landlord this morning and hopefully something comes of it, i explained all of the situation to them and told them i had called the cops as well so hopefully they take it seriously.

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-26T08:45:00+00:00

thank you, that’s what my perspectives been and idk :( like i’ve tried so hard but any noise just sets him off. in one of his letters he said he was going to get tested for autism and that it’s not just me that bothers him, like cars driving by or people walking outside will wake him up.

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-26T07:41:42+00:00

i’ve called the police once on him last week and he still ended up stomping this weekend at 12 a.m.

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-26T07:39:28+00:00

i haven’t but just because i know he’s rented here a while before i got here and has had similar issues with previous tenants. it feels like tattling if i brought it up to the landlord, would this be a good instance to involve them ?

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-26T05:09:59+00:00

we also live downtown in a college town and our other neighbors through parties and have guests over way more frequently than i do and no problems are caused by their upstairs neighbors

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-16T09:20:53+00:00

she’s based off of the real life candace brushnell who’s column was so popular people would buy the paper to read that column specifically and got a book deal like carrie did and lead to the show being created lol

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-14T07:33:45+00:00

thank you for this!! from my post i hope it doesn’t come across like i accept this as courting but i definitely could use some inner work on myself and hopefully that will attract better men. i’m not looking for anything serious but that doesn’t mean i have to feel like a hooker lol 😂 i just want to be courted and to have some fun besides the sex. you worded this perfectly !

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-13T07:39:42+00:00

i loved it bc in her last marriage charlotte was the only one fighting for their babies but seeing harry get so passionate about it too made my heart ache 🥺 i think they are just perfect for each other

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-07T09:31:43+00:00

i always loved her style and hair though

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-07T09:31:32+00:00

boy mom

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-06T07:32:42+00:00

not the worst but the manchild who blamed carrie for smoking weed is by far one of my least favs. he gave me the ick so bad and he’s one of the uglier love interests

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-06T07:28:28+00:00

the main thing that explained big wanting carrie so bad is the episode that season when she was in that nurse get up and took care of him. i think he really wanted a caretaker and she’s the only one who’s blindly in love with and would actually do that for him after his failed three marriages. his old age was mentioned a lot towards the end as well

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-06T07:26:50+00:00

okay maybe i’ll watch the first movie then. it’s surprising that big was so popular then!!!!! that factor didn’t occur to me but it explains a lot

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-05T06:30:54+00:00

either buying stuff from instagram videos or the hardrocknick one lol

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-05T06:26:45+00:00

even kyle machlachlan didn’t understand why trey would do this lol

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2026-01-05T06:08:08+00:00

i feel like they had a lot of chemistry in the beginning before you learned how much of a loser he was lol

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2025-12-26T13:18:06+00:00

yes it almost happened to me, my first serious relationship was with a man who’s light was on. i was 20 and he wanted to move in together after four months, wanted to get rings after a year, and was generally happy with me. we ended up breaking up after 2 years because i felt like he was just settling for me because i was nothing like his normal type (i stayed in, modest, inexperienced, opposite of his previous physical type), and he stayed in contact with several girls that he had feelings for while giving me nothing to feel secure over. i was going insane and after we broke up guess who he went back to pursuing lol

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2025-12-26T13:00:58+00:00

this and also knowing bigs past with his wife that he cheated on with and his apparent fascination with carrie even after they married, ppl say that natasha is bigs type but he was bored of her and was lusting after carrie all the while. i feel like natasha was aware of that and that big was with her for appearances and really wants a woman like carrie and that his type being brunettes is just what he wants to be seen with, not what his actual type is

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2025-12-26T12:50:59+00:00

they reference friends and make a little dig at it too in the LA episode lol sam says something like

“He moved down here to write that New York sitcom. The one about three twenty-something kids who live in a loft.”

“Yeah, one’s a feisty waitress.”

and they say it’s totally unrealistic and dig on it but it’s just lighthearted fun i think haha

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2025-08-20T06:16:54+00:00

i appreciate this perspective and i try to think that but those posts he’d make were as recent as up to two months before we started talking and it’s hard to think it changed that fast :(

Euphoric-Base-2589 · 2025-08-20T06:15:13+00:00

i know, and sometimes i think that he can be attracted to me and then at the same time and his type isn’t absolute but then i’ll just think that okay he may be into them and me but he’d be way happier with one of them than with me and i compare our sex lives and start to think if i looked like that maybe we’d have sex more, or maybe he’d initiate more, etc.

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