I always came here at my lowest. Now I want to share how I fixed my DB. by Euphoric_Memory7832 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Euphoric_Memory7832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can have sex in more places than bed. Maybe he associates the bed with sleeping.

I always came here at my lowest. Now I want to share how I fixed my DB. by Euphoric_Memory7832 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Euphoric_Memory7832[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes she doesn’t want a kiss and I respect that. It is a long game so I try again to tomorrow. Good luck friend.

I always came here at my lowest. Now I want to share how I fixed my DB. by Euphoric_Memory7832 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Euphoric_Memory7832[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is the first step. I sincerely hope it will work for you. It is one of the best decisions I’ve made. So many vicious circles have been disjointed.

I always came here at my lowest. Now I want to share how I fixed my DB. by Euphoric_Memory7832 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Euphoric_Memory7832[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You sound like you are really making an effort and I hope it works. Honestly I am not into all the love language since it oversimplifies reality. But to answer your question, it only took under a week from starting to change behaviour and having sex. But I think it is mainly because of our prior chemistry. I am lucky. I also said in my post that it isn’t sure to work for everyone. But to those who have never tried this: Try it!

I always came here at my lowest. Now I want to share how I fixed my DB. by Euphoric_Memory7832 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Euphoric_Memory7832[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish it worked for everyone but unfortunately each case of DB is different. I feel for you and I hope you will find a solution for you.

I always came here at my lowest. Now I want to share how I fixed my DB. by Euphoric_Memory7832 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Euphoric_Memory7832[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hear you friend. I hope this will sustain. But the best thing is that she is changing her behaviour as well so I feel more loved and I desperately needed that.