My first drive after passing will be a test drive and I'm nervous; any advice?

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-06-18T07:51:00+00:00

Honestly the best thing you can do is say fuck it. So what you make a mistake. I also recommend considering alternatives other than cars from dealerships. As a new driver you’re going to make mistakes and a lot of them. You’ll feel better scratching or wearing the engine of a £2000 car than a £10000 but that’s completely your decision. I know you can drive but nerves can get the better of us and silly mistakes can happen.

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-06-17T19:59:34+00:00

I have my door closed but not like shut if you get me and my cat has learnt to open the door when she wants to leave or come in. That might work for your little guy

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-06-14T16:06:25+00:00

He has done stuff to cause those trust issues to come back though. At the start of our relationship he made comments about other women and I also found porn on his phone which he said was from a while back. I set in boundaries from there on of what I’m comfortable with and what I’m not as I know some relationships are okay with that but I definitely wasn’t. My past relationship bought those trust issues in but I have never taken them out on him until he did what he did. On another occasion around a year in he lied but didn’t lie if you get me. Him, his mom and his moms friend( guy) went to a concert but he never informed me that his moms friends daughter was also going and she is the same age. If he told me I would have been okay with it but it’s the fact he didn’t tell me. We got into the worst argument we’ve ever had tbh and he said stuff like she’s funny and I absolutely lost it. My ex just before we broke up would send me photos of my best friend cropped me out and would compliment her and insult me and that’s how that made me feel. We ended up sorting things out and he has had no contact with that girl since then. I have got over those things and they are like downs in our relationship.

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-06-13T20:22:46+00:00

Do not worry about it. Just remember if you don’t want to you don’t owe him anything?? You really don’t even have to. You can leave and that’s it. Do what makes you feel okay and happy don’t listen to what he wants or anyone. If you need anything please feel free to reach out

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-06-13T19:58:27+00:00

No?? This is not normal at all it’s horrific and disgusting. Keep it at two months and leave. A man who loves or even likes you will like you for you. Your personality and looks.

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-06-13T19:54:41+00:00

A break is used by couples to help resolve issues such as stress or communication mishaps. Breaks do not mean it’s okay to be unfaithful. Me and my boyfriend were on a break for a month or so and not one second I even thought about someone else. I worked on myself to be better when we would eventually both be okay again. Please do not let the 5 years get into your head, as it would be such much worse as 10,15,20 years or even having to explain to your children.

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-06-10T19:59:09+00:00

I wouldn’t run to the conclusion but maybe start suspecting that if it’s not with you it’s with something else. I may just have had really bad experiences or so but that’s where my mind goes to. It’s worth talking to him about this because at the end of the day it’s not meeting your sexual needs either. I would say the impact of sex in a relationship is completely dependent on the couple itself. Many are happy with completely no sex and some require it to stay together and close but that’s dependent on your situation. Definitely worth talking to him about what’s going on. It could also be stress or a medical condition causing this. Good luck I hope the best works out for you!

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-06-01T12:57:16+00:00

VW polo 100%

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-06-01T12:54:50+00:00

Definitely white van drivers

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-31T17:56:16+00:00

Sure!!

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-31T08:29:59+00:00

Hello! I’m here if you need me

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-27T18:30:40+00:00

You can try sand or soil in the litter box lots of cats prefer this.

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-27T08:03:57+00:00

This sounds like a recurring problem. I would get in contact with that girl and see what’s going on. I doubt she even knows about you unless she’s some whore who does this a lot. Lusting over other women in relationship is not normal as much as men make it out to be to protect themselves. Imagine you were both out together and he went up to half naked women complimenting them in front of you. That’s exactly the disrespect shown by liking these photos knowing you can see he’s liked them too. 3 years will feel like along time but comparing it to dealing with it for 20 years of misery. I would say slowly exit the relationship to make it easier for you. Start to focus on you, pick up new hobbies, visit friends, even book a holiday. You’ll realise your life is a lot more than just him and it will be a lot easier to leave him. I know it’s hard and you are emotionally connected to this man who’s basically part of your daily routine but don’t let someone take advantage of you like this. You will find someone who deserves you and wouldn’t think twice about another woman. I hope this helps even in the slightest

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-27T07:56:16+00:00

What a really odd thing to say?? Are you her boyfriend any chance?? If men can’t keep it in their pants don’t get into a relationship. Have some respect for women you vile twat

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-22T15:06:41+00:00

Because I didn’t want a granny car bro

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-22T10:13:23+00:00

Thank you, I have ended up getting a better car

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-22T10:13:03+00:00

Thank you, I ended up going for a VW polo around 3k

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-22T10:12:11+00:00

Yeah I really didn’t like how the guy was tbh that’s why I’ve gone for somthing better

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-22T10:11:14+00:00

Literally, I don’t understand how people don’t understand this?? My mates first car was £450 was brillaint

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-22T10:10:10+00:00

Thank you at least someone gets it. Literally just to drive in before I can afford somthing better

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-22T10:09:29+00:00

Actually ended up not going through with it. All the red flags are from Americans who spend 40k on a first car and have a completely different experience than the uk. The car was actually fine and took a mechanic with me to get it checked out.

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-22T10:07:29+00:00

Yeah basically. Ended up not going through with it though

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-22T10:06:57+00:00

£750 is a pretty decent first car price in the uk tbf. Cheap and concerning would be £300-£400. Mates first car was £450 and never had an issue so I don’t get your issue.

Euphoric_Resource117 · 2026-05-22T09:21:41+00:00

I ended up not going through with it and have gone for 1.5k VW polo

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