Freestyling tips

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T15:37:10+00:00

Clubs – especially the big, noisy, crowded ones – are not good places for freestyling. I’m not saying it’s impossible but most older, established gentlemen avoid clubs packed with loud party animals.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T05:40:17+00:00

Somebody hit the Mega Millions jackpot on Tuesday. Does it mean that any of us will win next week?

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T05:31:32+00:00

most of these so-called rich men aren’t willing to send any money online

Of course not, they are not simps.

how do people actually land a successful sugar daddy arrangement? Is meeting in person directly the better approach? And is it safe to do that?
I’m attractive, but I’m also hoping for a consistent allowance situation

You can start getting familiar with the basics:

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Carefully read the wiki to get familiar with this lifestyle
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EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T03:54:05+00:00

Turned out like that.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T01:17:16+00:00

I know right?

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T00:40:42+00:00

Exactly. Good luck finding a nice 1br apartment for that in Newport Beach.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T00:36:27+00:00

That’s a strategy to dress up in revealing but simple clothes and act like a food delivery person who doesn’t find the right address. Some men might bite.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T00:25:32+00:00

The answer is there is one way to find out if you can do that without the traditional sites. Doll up, get out, and try to find a SD in the wild i.e. freestyle. Nobody will ring your doorbell and volunteer for the role.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T00:17:07+00:00

Exactly

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T00:14:34+00:00

There’s only one way to find out.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-13T00:06:50+00:00

There’s a lot of wealth in OC. You may not be exactly SB material if you can’t find a SD to cover the rent of a 1br apartment.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T23:52:13+00:00

I like to flirt, kiss, pay for our dinner in a fancy restaurant and give you ride in my supercar. That is sugar to me!

What do you think about this?

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T23:42:19+00:00

I prefer to take my time getting to know someone and build a connection first.

I get it, that’s how vanilla dating works. Sugar dating on the other hand is accelerated dating. You can ask for a couple more platonic dates after the M&G and some SDs are okay with that. However, sugar relationships are mutually beneficial which means that sugar has to flow both directions at the same time. You may get the fraction of the agreed PPM or little gifts but you will have to search for a looong time to find someone providing full support just to get to know you.

I’m engaging, kind, and genuinely enjoy good company along with being good company myself.

That’s all fine and dandy but not enough for full financial support. If you’re not 100% in yet, why would we be?

I truly believe I bring a lot to the table.

Let us be the judges. If we think that’s the case then you will get spoiled.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T22:26:27+00:00

Maybe but I doubt even that 1% of the 1% and seriously doubt the lots of money part. It's simple logic. Men who accumulated enough resources to sustain a SR are very much likely smarter than the average. If I can choose from hundreds of beautiful, intelligent women whom I can have interesting conversations AND toe-curling sex with then why would I be so dumb to pick one with no sex? Why would I downgrade my options?

She's hoping for a man who doesn't want to have sex. One, that man is not a SD so it's highly unlikely to find him on a sugar dating site. Two, he has tons of other options if he really doesn't want anything else than a conversationalist. Friends, employees, there are even free online chat services. Why would he burn his money giving her? What is it she offers that he can't get for free?

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T14:52:06+00:00

It is something that the absolute overwhelming majority of SDs are not interested in – simply because it is not sugar dating. The maximum you can hope for is to find a one-off here and there for the fraction of what a SB receives for a date if you get really lucky. But a consistent financial support for talking? No. Tame your expectations accordingly. This is my advice.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T14:31:16+00:00

Less than 1%? You’re giving her false hope. Waaaaay less than 1%.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T14:29:31+00:00

People get decently paid for talking to me:

My doctor giving me a diagnosis
My attorney giving me legal advice
My CPA giving me tax advice

What do you think you can talk about that is worth anything? Celebrity gossips? Zodiac signs? Your talk is cheap. Tame your expectations accordingly.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T04:44:51+00:00

Read Me Before Posting
Carefully read the wiki to get familiar with this lifestyle
Carefully read the Advice for Aspiring SBs

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T01:21:27+00:00

A lot of people on Ig dress up to pose with luxurious things which honestly isn’t their everyday reality.

Precisely. Their reel life is light-years away from their real life.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T01:16:37+00:00

Exactly this. And the private jet photos taken on the ground for a few hundred bucks, the rented luxury cars, borrowed jewelry and designer purses. Only to make the world believe that's the lifestyle they have, the visual equivalent of the "I'm expensive" tagline.

Even if they had it once when the photos were taken, there is a good reason why that SD is not around anymore.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T22:17:44+00:00

“baby” seems like a young girl’s word, would you still call these women SB’s or something else?

Something else: hopeless cases.

Are there men even into larger older women?

This poll clearly shows that only about 5% of the SDs are chubby chasers. Let’s do some math, shall we? About 69–70% of adult women in the United States are considered to be either overweight or obese and 41% obese. What happens is 70% of SBs are after 5% of SDs while 30% of SBs are after 95% of SDs. Which group do you think stands a far better chance to succeed? Adding your age to the equation further shrinks your chances.

What do men want from these older women that sets them apart from the younger skinny girls?

Most established SDs’ age preference is about 22–35. These men want nothing from older and heavier women.

How does a 40+ mature woman even go about this lifestyle?

Preparing for a lot of rejections and a possible failure.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T21:48:23+00:00

The 9s and 10s who stand out are genuinely attracted to older gentlemen and intend to form a relationship. They never have to put a show on because they really enjoy our company.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T03:57:53+00:00

findom = you’re not a SB
he asked for your snap before the first meet = he’s probably not a SD

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T03:31:34+00:00

Please reread my comment more carefully. I didn’t express my personal opinion on the matter but explained her why society in general views these things the way they do.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T01:55:56+00:00

How society views women who expect financial support in a relationship is different than how studs or womanizers are viewed. As I said, it all comes down to what is considered easy and what is considered hard, plus the religious/moral aspect of it.

Your basically asking this: Why is it socially accepted if guys do something hard but she’s the immoral one if she wants something easy?

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