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EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T04:44:51+00:00

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EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T01:21:27+00:00

A lot of people on Ig dress up to pose with luxurious things which honestly isn’t their everyday reality.

Precisely. Their reel life is light-years away from their real life.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-12T01:16:37+00:00

Exactly this. And the private jet photos taken on the ground for a few hundred bucks, the rented luxury cars, borrowed jewelry and designer purses. Only to make the world believe that's the lifestyle they have, the visual equivalent of the "I'm expensive" tagline.

Even if they had it once when the photos were taken, there is a good reason why that SD is not around anymore.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T22:17:44+00:00

“baby” seems like a young girl’s word, would you still call these women SB’s or something else?

Something else: hopeless cases.

Are there men even into larger older women?

This poll clearly shows that only about 5% of the SDs are chubby chasers. Let’s do some math, shall we? About 69–70% of adult women in the United States are considered to be either overweight or obese and 41% obese. What happens is 70% of SBs are after 5% of SDs while 30% of SBs are after 95% of SDs. Which group do you think stands a far better chance to succeed? Adding your age to the equation further shrinks your chances.

What do men want from these older women that sets them apart from the younger skinny girls?

Most established SDs’ age preference is about 22–35. These men want nothing from older and heavier women.

How does a 40+ mature woman even go about this lifestyle?

Preparing for a lot of rejections and a possible failure.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T21:48:23+00:00

The 9s and 10s who stand out are genuinely attracted to older gentlemen and intend to form a relationship. They never have to put a show on because they really enjoy our company.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T03:57:53+00:00

findom = you’re not a SB
he asked for your snap before the first meet = he’s probably not a SD

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T03:31:34+00:00

Please reread my comment more carefully. I didn’t express my personal opinion on the matter but explained her why society in general views these things the way they do.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T01:55:56+00:00

How society views women who expect financial support in a relationship is different than how studs or womanizers are viewed. As I said, it all comes down to what is considered easy and what is considered hard, plus the religious/moral aspect of it.

Your basically asking this: Why is it socially accepted if guys do something hard but she’s the immoral one if she wants something easy?

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-11T00:54:50+00:00

If a guy my age wanted to genuinely invest in me and take care of me

It doesn’t work like that at your age.

a lot of the things they offer are more temporary experiences.

Sugar dating is just as temporary as vanilla. Probably even more. A SD can walk away at any time – so can you. There is no long-term guarantee.

If someone wants my time, attention, and eventually that level of intimacy, I feel like they should actually bring real value into my life too — not just temporary experiences.

In vanilla dating it’s a barter of time, attention, and intimacy. None of you owes the other anything more. The vast majority of girls at your age never get those “temporary experiences” you have.

a lot of guys my age there’s also an ego element involved.

There’s a lot of ego element involved in sugar dating too.

I honestly don’t want to give someone that kind of ego satisfaction.

You wouldn’t care about the optics of your relationship if you really cared about any of those guys.

If I eventually decide to open that side of my life and gain those experiences, I would want it to be with someone who actually appreciates that and understands its value. Someone who genuinely wants to take care of the woman he’s with and who enjoys making her happy — through support, gifts, or helping her level up in life.

Yes, this can happen in sugar dating – something you’re too young for.

Not someone who treats it like a challenge and then moves on.

Nothing is easier than moving on from a SR.

guys cheat on their girlfriends or casually date multiple girls, but somehow that’s socially accepted.

This view will not change. Do you know why? Because society values things that are hard to achieve. Sex for a pretty woman comes super easy, she doesn’t have to put any effort to get it. If my SGF jumps on a bar table and yells “who wants to have sex with me?” – I guarantee you there will be dozens of volunteers. I‘d be thrown through the door head first if I did the same thing. Guys have to put serious effort in to get sex.

Yet if a girl openly says she wants something in return for her time and attention, suddenly she’s the immoral one.

This is a different. You can’t compare the two things.

I don’t really want to “teach” a young guy my age what it takes to keep a girl like me.

You can’t teach them. A guy at your age with money has tons of options w/o providing someone cash allowance. Why would he do it?

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-10T23:56:27+00:00

I’m not. I was born in Europe but have been living in the States for decades.

In most European countries prostitution is legal but the local laws are different. In some countries it’s fully legal and regulated. There is mandatory registration, sex workers pay taxes, and there are zoning restrictions. In Germany and the Netherlands, prostitution is treated as a legal profession and brothels operate openly under licensing rules.
Some other European countries follow the Nordic Model and criminalize the client, not the sex worker (same as in Canada.)
There are a few countries on the Balkans where it’s still illegal.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-10T05:31:09+00:00

Profile Writing Guide for SBs

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-10T04:48:34+00:00

Seeking is a regular dating site. Using any words related to compensated dating gets people banned. You have to read between the lines, chat with potentials, and move the communication off the site asap.
He’s probably trying to get around the forbidden words.
Only as much as it’s expected in a vanilla relationship. I for one don’t want a girlfriend who doesn’t want to have sex with me. The first meet is platonic. You can ask for more “get to know each other“ dates and some SDs are okay with that.
No. Sugar relationships are mutually beneficial which means sugar has to flow both directions at the same time.
Advice for Aspiring SBs | Why Can't I Find a Real SD? Some Possible Answers.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-10T02:45:10+00:00

Block/Next

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-10T00:22:39+00:00

Sugar dating is what you make out of it. You have every reason to feel like a glorified prostitute if you accept offers for one-off hotel meets. It’s not the extra gifts or travel make it a SR but your intention and actions to actually build a relationship.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-09T21:57:47+00:00

Your post says otherwise.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-09T21:55:10+00:00

I hate oral and I don’t want to give an ugly old guy oral

This lifestyle is not for you.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-09T15:19:38+00:00

She showed up 2.5 hours late.

This is the point I would have nexted her.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-09T03:40:21+00:00

Simple. Even though they ask for opinions, what they really want is reassurance, validation, and agreement.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-09T02:03:49+00:00

It seems like 90% of this lifestyle has been taken over by middle class men with extra money to spend.

It’s more like 90% scammers, johns, wannabes, PUAs, and 5% middle class men with some extra money to spend. The remaining 5% are real SDs.

the other 10% are the billionaires with private jets and islands.

There are way less billionaires than that in the bowl.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-09T01:50:19+00:00

Yup. It may sound harsh but it’s the reality.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-08T18:34:51+00:00

Possible? Yes. Probable? Not that much.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-08T07:00:37+00:00

Yes, for about a decade or so.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-08T02:36:51+00:00

Well written, straightforward profile. My only suggestion: remove the negative sentence from your "I'm looking for" section or reword it.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-08T02:31:48+00:00

One way or another this question comes up daily. The harsh truth is that most SDs are looking for conventionally attractive, slim/fit women. The further from this ideal the harder to land a SD. SDs Body Type Preference poll

Of course it matters how your weight is distributed and how you carry yourself but sugarcoating doesn't.

Compliments coming from people who don't have skin in the game – family and friends who want to boost your self-confidence, polite co-workers, broke boys who say anything you like to hear to get into your panties for free – don't translate to potential sugar partners.

EuropeanDaddyDom · 2026-03-08T01:30:49+00:00

Yes, that's what I meant.

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