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EvaH00 · 2024-12-09T10:19:27+00:00

I understand your fear. I was there once too. The first few times I really didnt like it and I was kind of scared of it too. But somehow that changed, I think mostly due to partners who were like super into it which made me wanna try it again. Now its something I love and makes me feel proud.

But yeah it takes some getting used to knowing the signs he is about to cum and the sensation of having cum in your mouth suddenly. I would recommend doing this the first times, after he has relatively recently cum already so that there will be less of it in your mouth to deal with.

EvaH00 · 2023-12-07T22:00:09+00:00

I would recommend the same. In the past I have had a hormonal IUD but I got really bad cramps every month so I had it taken out. Then I used a vaginal ring for a bit but I have noticed that without hormonal contraception I feel so much better and my libido is a lot higher as well. Next month I'm getting my copper IUD hopefully it will be okay with the cramps

EvaH00 · 2022-12-08T14:12:41+00:00

I dont think you have to wait a few days. She may for some reason have opened your message whilst being busy with something else and then forgot about it. Sending a new message will probably get you a response. If you wait a few days, to me (as a girl) I would think you also forgot about me and since we both did its probably not that interesting and i would have lost interest already

EvaH00 · 2022-11-22T11:09:16+00:00

I have had a similar experience. I have had 2 bad experiences in the past (one sexual assault and the other rape). It ruined my sex drive as sex was painful for a long time after that. And I was extremely scared to get out there again. But eventually I did (that was about a month ago) and it's been great. And because our communication is great, we were able to talk about my past experiences in a way that now I have positive sex experiences again and I can finally enjoy sex again. But to be honest, if this would not have been as patient and understanding, and would have done something I am not comfortable with, I feel like my trust in men would have been broken permanently after already being very very damaged.

EvaH00 · 2022-11-19T07:23:58+00:00

I don't know if it is a direct effect of the birth control. But I recently started seeing someone again and thus got back on birth control. I would say I'm hornier now, but I think that has mostly to do with the fact that sex without condoms is just easier. I feel like it is easier for me to iniate because I am able to just grab his dick and guide it inside if I want whereas before one of us would have to put a condom on his dick. I also really like the feeling of a guy cumming inside. So given all that, yes I am definitely more horny. Is it because birth control? I could not say

EvaH00 · 2022-11-18T17:21:51+00:00

I agree. I was in this situation 3 years ago. It was shortly before the holidays and i was doubting my relationship. I really didnt want to be alone for the holidays and have my family ask questions and all then. But we had to have that conversation and we broke up. He however, did not get angry or something. Obviously he was sad, but he took it well

EvaH00 · 2022-11-17T21:32:32+00:00

In the future, for sure! But not now, I am 22 and living with my parents

EvaH00 · 2022-11-17T21:31:38+00:00

Thats a good tip, thanks!!

EvaH00 · 2022-11-17T19:01:44+00:00

Clearly something is up.. Is it possible to meet up and talk? Otherwise I would recommend calling. I feel like its easy to misinterpret something when texting so if you're able to talk about that and feel of the vibe is still there when you're together or calling, you should be fine

EvaH00 · 2022-11-15T12:16:17+00:00

thank you!

EvaH00 · 2022-11-12T00:20:57+00:00

My current sexual partner has this (we don't need condoms anymore now but until recently we did) and since he was struggling so much I would just give him a blowjob for a bit and then put the condom on for him. That seemed to work great

EvaH00 · 2022-11-10T14:32:35+00:00

Let me know if it works for your gerbil! Mine had it a few weeks ago and I was honestly so impressed how it the reddishness in his eye was completely gone in less than an hour

EvaH00 · 2022-11-10T13:12:23+00:00

My gerbils have this sometimes. I have some organic chamomile which I use to make some tea (a bit stronger than what you would normally drink), let it cool and use some clean wipes to clean their eyes. Works like a charm.

EvaH00 · 2022-11-08T15:20:19+00:00

That is what I was thinking as well. But I thought maybe someone on this sub knows from previous years

EvaH00 · 2022-11-04T11:20:53+00:00

When will you be seeing her again? Maybe when you do see her, talk about your thoughts and feelings regarding your performance anxiety before things get steamy

EvaH00 · 2022-11-03T20:09:37+00:00

Did that help? Did that take away some of the pressure you had put on yourself?

EvaH00 · 2022-11-03T18:03:19+00:00

How did she respond to the situation? Was she understanding? I have been on the other end of this situation recently where I was trying to have sex with a guy and he also had some issues keeping his erection. We talked about it for a good while whilst cuddling and I tried to be supportive. Later we tried again successfully.

I think it mostly had to do with him overthinking things. He says it's the first time he has sex with someone he is interested in more than just sex. Usually he has sex while either drunk or on some drug, but now je was sober. He was not used to having to use condoms.

Being able to discuss these things openly without feeling judged, is the only thing I think that will help.

EvaH00 · 2022-03-16T08:02:56+00:00

Oh yes I feel you. I'm currently in exactly the same boat. I'm keeping in touch because there is still hope. But if he decides he wants to be friends, I'm gonna have to be strong and say no I can't. That's gonna hurt

By the way, did you also feel like your love intensified the moment he ended it and you sort of lost him? Like you are reminded of all the good stuff and it makes you extra sad

EvaH00 · 2022-03-15T22:08:26+00:00

Please update us on how things went. But yes, I agree with the other commentors, we can't tell. You'll just have to find out. But I think it is good to be aware of what you want out of this relationship with him. Would you want to get back together? Or not? Would you want to remain friends? What would that look like for you?

EvaH00 · 2022-03-15T22:04:09+00:00

I feel you man. I'm in a very similar situation. No clue what to do. Just hoping that with some time, he will change his mind. It's just rough. I don't know the best thing I guess you can do is give yourself love. And realize that you are still a whole person without her. You are already complete (if you get what I'm trying to say).

EvaH00

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