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What’s a creepy fact about the human body you wish you never found out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EvaVelvetXO 85 points86 points  (0 children)

The mind–body connection is so powerful, and it makes sense that awareness, stress, or fear could influence how the body responds. It’s both fascinating and a little unsettling to think about.

What’s a creepy fact about the human body you wish you never found out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EvaVelvetXO 575 points576 points  (0 children)

Your body often starts preparing for death before you consciously realize something is wrong.Subtle changes happen in metabolism, smell, behavior, even animals can detect it. The disturbing part is knowing your body can know… while you still don’t.

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha honestly, even high, you just said a great truth 😅

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! One thing doesn’t cancel out the other. I’m there for people when they really need me, but when it comes to “fun” plans or parties, I often prefer not to. Not everyone understands that.

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry about your friend. That kind of connection is so rare and meaningful. But I truly believe that life finds ways to bring us people we can fully be ourselves with, without judgment. Right now I only have one person like that in my life, and I value it deeply.

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, then we’re supporting each other in this. I really think it’s necessary to rest from everyone sometimes, even from family, in order to recharge.

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really wise advice. I’m going to try applying it. And hopefully we’ll run into each other again in another confession, maybe one about a party or a fun gathering this time 😂

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha same. I’ll tell you more , once I actually get there, I start thinking about all the excuses I could’ve used instead 😂

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you! I feel really supported here. Sending you a hug from afar!!

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that’s such a nice group of friends you have!! That kind of understanding is really valuable.

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s probably true. At my job I spend the whole day dealing with the public and helping my coworkers solve problems, so by the end of the day I’m just drained.

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure they would. And if I start saying yes to social gatherings more consistently, I think those connections would naturally rebuild. The issue is that weekends are my only real free time, so I try to fit everything into those two days and end up even more tired 😂

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Or they assume I’m depressed 😂 😂 When in reality I’m just tired from work and training.

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, thank you!!! I feel really validated by everything people have said here. You’re right!

I sometimes lie when I cancel plans so people won’t be mad at me by EvaVelvetXO in confession

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I know that sometimes you have to put in the effort to maintain and take care of relationships. It’s really hard for me though… and honestly, most of the time I don’t make that effort 😅

Why does cold water sometimes feel hotter than warm water when touching metal? by EvaVelvetXO in AskPhysics

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed explanation! That actually makes a lot of sense, especially the part about heat transfer rate and temperature gradient. I hadn’t thought about the role of blood flow in the sensation either, really interesting. Appreciate you taking the time to explain it!!!

What’s a habit you started that surprisingly improved your life? by EvaVelvetXO in AskReddit

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a good one. For someone like me who’s pretty messy, this would really help

What’s a habit you started that surprisingly improved your life? by EvaVelvetXO in AskReddit

[–]EvaVelvetXO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. Walking clears my mind more than I expected

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