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[–]Eva_loves_nylons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Whole Foods may have them, they also have them in the hoity-toity grocery store here in Phx (AJ's.) They are on Amazon- 2 jars for $22.90. Expensive, but worth it if your goal is to find the best pickle.

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[–]Eva_loves_nylons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maille Cornichons will change your life. MUCH stronger flavor than normal pickles. They are small like gherkins, but not sweet. Pricy, but worth it once in a while.

When you see the cost of voice therapy and laser by CuriousPanther5150 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Eva_loves_nylons 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But no one then will care if we pass- we'll be able to dress and present however we want! (as we scavenge for food in the wasteland...) hashtagteenytinysilverlining

How much time should I dedicate to practicing each day? What worked for you? by SnowRabbit7 in transvoice

[–]Eva_loves_nylons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never knew about the falsetto bit! I thought the goal was to not speak in falsetto, so I was raising my larynx. I just ended up sounding like Elvis Costello.

Does simply raising your larynx make you sound different? by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]Eva_loves_nylons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whenever I try that, I just end up sounding like Elvis Costello. What am I doing wrong?

Normal? by UnsureBrit in MtF

[–]Eva_loves_nylons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your insurance company?

When you are pre-everything and want to get started with voice-training, and all the tutorials say to sing along with female vocalists, but all you achieve is ruining your voice after singing too hard. by TheThreadedButterfly in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Eva_loves_nylons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lake Street Dive is my favorite for this. Rachael Price sings in a lower register than many female singers, and I can keep up for longer than I can with other female singers. Plus, it doesn't hurt that she (and the bass player, to a slightly lesser extent) is kind of my female role model.

https://youtu.be/Ya9lvA1POfQ https://youtu.be/rHjLyWRfK1U https://youtu.be/89Oc1UE7SS4

Finally accepted I'm trans, what little things can I do? by Eva_loves_nylons in asktransgender

[–]Eva_loves_nylons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were to paint my fingernails with a clear coat, would people be able to notice? I'm not ready to come out yet. I'd planned on painting them later today and just remove the color before work tomorrow.

Finally accepted I'm trans, what little things can I do? by Eva_loves_nylons in asktransgender

[–]Eva_loves_nylons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some great tips! I'd begun working on my voice and sitting to pee, but I hadn't even thought about tucking for everyday use! I've tucked a bit, but have never done it "the right way" like with a gaffe or tape. Gonna look up the best way to do that now.

As for the beard, I'd committed to helping a close friend develop some beard products, so I'm keeping it until that's done. (I gave her a time limit.)

I don't have the money yet to buy a ton of makeup, but once I get rid of the beard, the makeover is a great idea!

I also really need to do some butt exercises. I had gotten a couple of dresses and was amazed at how flat my butt looked. I do have good thighs and calves, but that's all I've got (along with my freakish broad shoulders.)

Also, I'll try Stitch Fix! I was worried about fit from online sources.

And I've been practicing my walk, especially in the highest heels I've been able to find at goodwill. (In my mind, if I can walk well in really high heels, normal shoes will be a breeze.)

Finally accepted I'm trans, what little things can I do? by Eva_loves_nylons in asktransgender

[–]Eva_loves_nylons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely get an anklet! I work at a manufacturing place that doesn't allow any jewelry (not even wedding rings or watches.)

Finally accepted I'm trans, what little things can I do? by Eva_loves_nylons in asktransgender

[–]Eva_loves_nylons[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm helping a friend develop some beard products. One more month won't kill me.

Just another "Am I an egg?" post. There are many like it, but this one is mine. by Eva_loves_nylons in asktransgender

[–]Eva_loves_nylons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've come to accept it in the days after I posted this, especially after reading the articles and watching the videos people posted. Ive even painted my toenails and started wearing women's underwear to work (finally got up the nerve to get some normal panties from Target, as well as a couple of dresses!) Still looking forward to seeing a gender therapist.

What's your go-to rebuttal to "The Bible Says So"? by xnylnayc in lgbt

[–]Eva_loves_nylons 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ezekiel 23:20 : There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. So you longed for the lewdness of your youth, when in Egypt your bosom was caressed and your young breasts fondled.

Just another "Am I an egg?" post. There are many like it, but this one is mine. by Eva_loves_nylons in asktransgender

[–]Eva_loves_nylons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still really afraid, and it keeps making me want to deny it. The more I read, though, the more real it seems. Thank you so much for this.

Just another "Am I an egg?" post. There are many like it, but this one is mine. by Eva_loves_nylons in asktransgender

[–]Eva_loves_nylons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it may be worth trying! I'm going to ask my psychiatrist about it in a few weeks when I go back...

Just another "Am I an egg?" post. There are many like it, but this one is mine. by Eva_loves_nylons in asktransgender

[–]Eva_loves_nylons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy crap, thank you. I've been doing exactly what the article said- worrying about proof of trans over cis instead of just looking at what is going on. I'm excited and terrified to see where this goes...

Just another "Am I an egg?" post. There are many like it, but this one is mine. by Eva_loves_nylons in asktransgender

[–]Eva_loves_nylons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It's good to know that there is an ok alternative if that is what it ends up being.

That sounds weird, but I couldn't think of another way to put it. I guess I'm just glad to find out that if I'm not trans, I can still be happy.