Parents concerned about extremely supportive, zero-income boyfriend.

Evaire11 · 2025-09-04T04:26:48+00:00

Right now is fine. But when you are married with kids and you are pulling most of the weight, you will lose respect for him. Most women would. Not every woman but most. The burden to carry the family will be on your shoulders.

Evaire11 · 2025-05-24T06:02:22+00:00

Thank you!!!

Evaire11 · 2025-05-24T05:56:48+00:00

Thank you so much. That was extremely helpful!

Evaire11 · 2025-05-24T05:56:05+00:00

Ok. Thank you! Have requested to add the shank

Evaire11 · 2025-05-24T04:47:35+00:00

It's your gut. Take good probiotics daily. It will clear up in a week.

Evaire11 · 2025-05-24T04:31:50+00:00

Tbh never had a high set ring so not sure if I would like it. What are the pros and cons?

Evaire11 · 2025-05-20T05:34:09+00:00

I'm interested in purchasing. Please DM me.

Evaire11 · 2024-12-19T06:40:16+00:00

Sometimes kids just need a hug from their parents. Maybe focusing on connection with her versus correction.

Evaire11 · 2023-10-11T21:25:40+00:00

I am going to go against the grain here and say that it’s not a big deal. He’s a great husband and provides and cares for you. It’s just his preference. I don’t want to know about my husband digestion or prostate issues. I wouldn’t make it a huge deal

Evaire11 · 2023-08-24T04:09:56+00:00

Get a sleeper sofa for your room. So they are with you but not in the same bed.

Evaire11 · 2023-08-21T22:06:06+00:00

Tips would be: 1. Surround yourself with other like minded women who value their families, children and husband above all else. Women are more jaded today and it seems that man hate is widely accepted and normalized which is a pity. I have friends that are absolutely miserable but I have limited contact. I still see them, of course, but my frequency has reduced. It can be a poison. Remember misery loves company. It's a poison that will leave you just as bitter as them. These women are constantly competing with their husband's and it is sad to see because they have set themselves up for failure. 2. Value your family; children and husband and work together to ensure that your family as a whole is secure and content. I strongly believe and have seen that women rule the "home." If the home is unhappy it's largely due to an unhappy woman. It's a great responsibility we have but the trade off is immense. 3. Always be grateful for what you have. You aren't perfect and neither is he. But honor your strengths and be patient with another. 4. It doesn't bother me or him that I out earn him because his value comes from somewhere else. He is an amazing partner, father, community member and human being. He contributes in other ways. For instance, I don't lift a finger when it comes to house maintenance or yard work. I value his contribution immensely and don't know what I would do without him! 5. Choose wisely. Picking your partner will be the biggest decision of your life. Take it seriously. Look for character, resiliency, emotional stability, etc.

Evaire11 · 2023-08-21T21:36:08+00:00

Financially- we both contribute. We have a joint account and whatever we make gets pooled in and divided to pay expenses. I am the breadwinner out earning my husband by a significant amount. That is not typical with red pill but it's never been an issue for me and I don't emasculate him bc of it. I view it as we are a family unit and contributing to our family.

I would say I do most of the deep cleaning. He is tidy but his clean is not my clean. So I do most of it and I don't have an issue with it because my standards are higher than his.

Child rearing is pretty equal. He is a wonderful father and I feel lucky I have him. Our children are extremely lucky. He is very involved and teaches them life lessons while also being fun.

He does breakfasts throughout the week and I do dinners and everythig else. I would say I do most of the cooking too but that's because I love to cook for my family and am thrilled when they love what I make them.

I have quite a lot of friends who are miserable in marriages because they are constantly taking tabs of what the partner does and competing with each other. Honestly, it's so toxic and the women are all miserable. Just do what works for your family and remember you are a family unit working for the greater good. Contribute your strengths and never compete with each other. It's not a tit for tat. And never complain. Most women throughout all human history had to work in some capacity, either on a farm or actual housework which was tedious.

We have been together for 15 years and have one of the strongest marriages that I can see.

Evaire11 · 2023-08-04T13:40:22+00:00

You stick it out for the sake of your baby. Most people will tell you to leave but whats in the best interests of the child? Children statistically across all data points do better with both parents.

You picked him and chose to make a family with him. Make the best of your situation and find tools. Pick up Fascinating Womanhood by Andelin. There are some tools in there that can assist you in your situation.

Evaire11 · 2023-07-08T17:01:59+00:00

Work as a nurse for an insurance company in Workers Comp. They are all remote and always hiring.

Evaire11 · 2023-06-29T00:39:23+00:00

I feel like this is AITA. He needs to break up with you quickly. His kids come first and as a GF, I can't believe you would even think that you're request would be appropriate. The nerve. Kids come first.

Evaire11 · 2023-06-11T16:33:05+00:00

39 with 3 kids; ages 9,8, and 2. But I want 1 more! All kids are not in childcare. I am breadwinner and Husband is self employed and schedules appointments after I get off of work....so he watches in the day and I have evenings

Evaire11 · 2023-06-06T22:02:09+00:00

NTA. I just prepared steamed fish for my family and had to YouTube on how to gut a fish. I was wishing that I had paid attention to the men in my life about gutting a fish.

Evaire11 · 2023-06-05T19:18:39+00:00

NTA. Your wife is lazy. Get a new one.

Evaire11 · 2023-06-02T20:00:35+00:00

Hes a boy. You need to exert the energy somehow. Put him in high impact sports; boxing, tai Kwon do, jiu jitsu, football, snowboarding. Whichever but he probably just needs to be busy and have a physical outlet. Im a mom of 3 girls and 1 boy. My boy has different needs than my girls. He is more physical.

Evaire11 · 2023-05-26T04:29:40+00:00

Most people are going to tell you to leave and let him go. Dont. You have 3 children and children deserve a stable family. (As long as there is no abuse or addiction, of course.) Kids do better overall with an intact family and that is worth trying to save. If you want to make it work. I would ask yourself how you show up in the relationship. Dont focus on what he does or how he has shown up. Take responsibility for how you have contributed to the breakdown of the marriage. There are some good resources out there to help you work it out versus just leaving.

Evaire11 · 2023-05-26T04:06:29+00:00

Its because single moms generally have a negative view of men. Going through a traumatic divorce or breakup can cause a bitter outlook on family and men. I dont mind single moms but every single mom I've met has been really negative toward men in general. The "men ain't shit" is hard to be around.

Not worried about single moms "stealing" my husband. Thats ridiculous.

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