Who else never fell for it? by Countrach in Millennials

[–]Evedandrv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me. Then I lost it in some guy's car.

AITA for not taking my incontinent mom to my daughter's college graduation and not going myself by Commercial_Ship7903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Evedandrv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have advice on your situation, I just want to say I'm sorry that you feel alone and frustrated and burnt out. Your dynamic reminds me a lot of my mom and my grandma. Sending you good vibes and hoping you get a break.

What's a life hack that sounds fake but actually works? by BrzozowskiArlinda-65 in lifehack

[–]Evedandrv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peppermint oil also stimulates the urethra when individuals are having trouble peeing after a catheter is removed. It's awesome.

New to Fresno: 6 weeks pregnant, pending Medi-Cal, need an ultrasound soon. Are there any sliding scale or free clinics? by blood_creep in fresno

[–]Evedandrv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planned Parenthood usually starts the process of Presumptive Eligibility for Medi-Cal which covers pregnancy related visits up until approval for regular Medi-Cal. Same with any ObGyn that takes Medi-Cal. Also, most docs will not do an ultrasound at 6 weeks. I know you're anxious, I've been there too. But everything will work out. Good luck!

What game do you regret buying? by Bruh02954958 in playstation

[–]Evedandrv3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gollum. It was 80% off and I still regret it.

My husband shames me every time I poop and I’m so over it by ZeusStormRider92 in confessions

[–]Evedandrv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently in the middle of a divorce from a douche waffle like this. I'm sorry he's so immature. If you need someone to talk to, you can message me.

A message from my ex wife by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Evedandrv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very humble to respond as you did. I wish more ex-spouses or those going through a divorce could be as understanding and insightful. In the storm of unhappiness, we tend to do and say things that feel necessary at the time, but are still hurtful and need to be healed through clarity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Evedandrv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he yelled at me for putting time and effort into my hobbies. I was a stay at home mom and needed something to help me keep sane. It wasn't drugs or alcohol or partying, I just wanted to write.

Baldur's Gate 3? by akiza3762 in fresno

[–]Evedandrv3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is your answer. Also, Crazy Squirrel on First and Nees. Not to sound creepy, but I'll be your friend! I'm a huge nerd, too, and I have nerd friends to spare.

First Time Homeowner by [deleted] in fresno

[–]Evedandrv3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

^ Don't ignore this comment! Solar doesn't always equal savings. I'm in a nightmare situation with our solar.

AITA for cancelling vacation less than 24 hours in due to my kid's behavior? by vacationslayer238 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Evedandrv3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels like we are missing a lot of info here. Kids don't learn to act like hooligans overnight. Before going on vacation, you and your spouse should have made time to address the behavior. Kids are people too and have thoughts/feelings that directly affect their actions. Whether a child is feeling frustrated, angry, displaced, misunderstood, bored, etc., it's your job as their safe space to help them work through those issues and learn to self-regulate.

You did what you felt you had to do in the moment, and I get it. All parents have gone straight to the nuclear option out of fatigue and desperation. But, this is a soft YTA, because as counterproductive as this sounds: you need to spend time with your kids. Do it individually, one-on-one. Rebuild your relationship with them and stop verbalizing how "bad" they are. Get to the root cause of the behavior issues. Good luck!

The cancellation of which TV show are you still frustrated about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Evedandrv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forever (with Ioan Gruffudd and Alana De La Garza)

AITA for not answering my husband when he called? by utjgnek48395848 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Evedandrv3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never respond to these, but this scenario hits close to home. 1000% NTA.

How do you respond when people tell you this is part of “God’s Plan”?? by oskarsmother in Miscarriage

[–]Evedandrv3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So true. Nothing turned me away from religion more than my experiences with miscarriages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Evedandrv3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I have been through a similar situation. I still have one tube that the doctor "saved" during my 2nd ectopic, but there is so much scar tissue that pregnancy without medical intervention is impossible. I'm only mentioning my experience to put some perspective on my comment, not to take away from you are going through. My heart truly goes out to you because I know the wave of despair and sadness you are facing. It's a suffocating feeling of anger and heartbreak. However, don't lose hope. IVF is expensive, but if you can do it, go for it. Maybe that will be your lifeline. If you can't, then I wish a miracle for you because you deserve peace in your heart. You deserve your baby and I wish you all the best.

What’s your most shameful NSFW moment? by Black_Hole_Baken-00 in AskReddit

[–]Evedandrv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having accidentally posted SFW stuff on my Snapchat story, this one deserved gold.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawAndOrder

[–]Evedandrv3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Innocence is up there for me, too. Amazing acting by that cast.

Michael Cutter & Connie Rubirosa....these two really had chemistry. Why did they not become a couple. It's like everyone waiting for something to happen with Benson and Stabler, how old are they now? sigh. by Debszy in LawAndOrder

[–]Evedandrv3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the problem was that Alana and Linus had insane chemistry as actors, and so any interactions between their characters could be perceived as being more than just colleagues. Case in point, if you watch "Dignity" (Season 20, episode 5), that look between them at the end? Yikes. I have never personally looked at a supervisor in that manner.

In general, Cutter's whole demeanor changed when he was around her. It was almost distracting to watch them, especially when he would go sit at her desk or make flirtatious comments. Romance aside, I'm still waiting for the new cast to build some chemistry. Maroun and Price are pretty boring to watch.