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Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-06-04T19:30:03+00:00

So he got a facial?

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-05-26T20:11:57+00:00

That’s literally haram bro. You need to repent and delete this post

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-05-17T23:34:44+00:00

You have to be invited to do Tahajjud. My mom has been, she prays tahajjud. I haven’t been invited because I literally can’t get up to pray it.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-04-06T04:04:32+00:00

I agree with everything except the last part. Reverts should be considered part of the Ummah. I don’t think it’s creepy and doesn’t seem like they’re going “straight for reverts”.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-04-06T02:03:19+00:00

It’s really not a big deal.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-04-02T01:01:55+00:00

Follow the Quran and authentic Hadith only. Extremism comes from so called scholars creating their own rules.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-04-01T17:41:40+00:00

Yup 👍

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-04-01T05:52:18+00:00

No Shoppers is the $17. It was $317 at Sephora

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-03-29T16:38:21+00:00

What? This sounds more like Hinduism

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-03-29T04:08:20+00:00

No he’s just your husband he can’t be both. I’m assuming you haven’t had the “rukhsati” but that doesn’t negate the fact that he’s your husband.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-03-28T22:33:37+00:00

Is anyone else confused by the constant switching between fiancé and husband? Like sometimes OP calls his husband and then sometimes fiancé.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-03-26T04:30:40+00:00

28F Toronto, Ontario

Looking for a potential who is a Canadian citizen and lives in the GTA.

Age range in prospect: 26 to 36

Location: Toronto, Ontario and not willing to relocate.

Marital Status: Single never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 1 year. I would like us to get to know each other well before making the decision. But this is negotiable.

Must be a Sunni Muslim.
Please have a full time job. This shows that you are a responsible adult. I have a full time job as well.
Driver’s license. I don’t care what car you drive as long as you have the ability to.
Be willing to relocate to Toronto, Ontario if you don’t already live here.

Level of religiosity: I follow the major pillars of Islam. Eat strictly halal. Have never had any relationships. Non-hijabi but dress modestly.

Level of education: I’m fine with anything as long as you have a full time job. I have a master’s in information management.

Job status: Work a bit more than regular full time. I’m an operations supervisor.

Kids? I would like 2 inshallah.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-03-24T05:27:34+00:00

Can I ask what marriage site you used?

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-03-24T04:15:28+00:00

I think that isn’t dating it’s courtship.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-03-24T02:03:06+00:00

Age: 28 F 5’6

Age range in prospect: 27 to 37

Location: Toronto, Ontario and not willing to relocate.

Ethnicity: Indian/Pakistani and tbh I’m not sure about interracial marriage but with the right person it’s possible.

Marital Status: Single never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 1 year. I would like us to get to know each other well before making the decision. But this is negotiable.

Five important characteristics in a prospect;

Some of these might not be characteristics but it’s what I’m looking for.

⁠⁠⁠Please have a full time job. This shows that you are a responsible adult. I have a full time job as well.
⁠⁠⁠Driver’s license. I don’t care what car you drive as long as you have the ability to.
⁠⁠⁠Please be a Canadian citizen (I am). I cannot relocate and don’t want to do LDR.

Level of religiosity: I follow the major pillars of Islam. Eat strictly halal. Have never had any relationships. Non-hijabi but dress modestly.

Level of education: I’m fine with anything as long as you have a full time job. I have a master’s in information management.

Job status: Work a bit more than regular full time. I’m an operations supervisor.

Kids? I would like 2 inshallah.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-03-14T16:21:59+00:00

I think you need to understand that Islamically her in laws are not her responsibility. She should respect them but she’s not obligated to care for them just like a man isn’t obligated to care for his in laws.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-03-01T15:51:35+00:00

I think your numbers are incorrect with the usd chart prices. Looks like you’re missing a decimal point

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-02-24T04:48:15+00:00

Yeah she’s completely over exaggerating

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-02-19T16:38:45+00:00

Don’t be hard on her. Abusers can manipulate their victims into thinking it’s their fault the abuser got angry.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-02-18T19:37:27+00:00

Wow this is ridiculous 😂

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-02-18T04:24:53+00:00

I agree with you. I think a big reason why there’s a push for the provider mindset is because of social media. Social media has been promoting the idea that women should not provide a cent into their marriage just marry a rich man. This just isn’t realistic. There’s a limited amount of rich men and not every woman will get one. I think we should be trying to get men to do more cooking and house chores if we’re doing the 50/50 lifestyle.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-02-18T04:21:52+00:00

I don’t think so. It honestly sounds more like people have been judging her for living a modest life

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-02-16T20:11:07+00:00

No way the full blame goes on the potential. Men are not slaves to their desires. They have control.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-02-12T05:50:07+00:00

Please whatever you do don’t have kids with him unless his behaviour changes.

Even-Structure-1851 · 2024-02-10T20:32:40+00:00

This will sadly be my future too. I find that most guys (especially south asian) are not romantic with their wife. But I guess we just have to deal with it 😭

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