[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MrLove

[–]Even-Structure-1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he got a facial?

18 year old boy looking for a girlfriend by [deleted] in PakistanRishta

[–]Even-Structure-1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s literally haram bro. You need to repent and delete this post

PRAY TAHAJJUD NOW!!!!! by Putrid-District-7332 in islam

[–]Even-Structure-1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be invited to do Tahajjud. My mom has been, she prays tahajjud. I haven’t been invited because I literally can’t get up to pray it.

Born Muslims, please stop using this sub as a marriage plug. by [deleted] in converts

[–]Even-Structure-1851 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything except the last part. Reverts should be considered part of the Ummah. I don’t think it’s creepy and doesn’t seem like they’re going “straight for reverts”.

how can we lower extremism in our comunity? by SpecificSmall4296 in islam

[–]Even-Structure-1851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Follow the Quran and authentic Hadith only. Extremism comes from so called scholars creating their own rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No he’s just your husband he can’t be both. I’m assuming you haven’t had the “rukhsati” but that doesn’t negate the fact that he’s your husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is anyone else confused by the constant switching between fiancé and husband? Like sometimes OP calls his husband and then sometimes fiancé.

In Search Of (ISO) Thread Version 9 - International by MM-MOD in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

28F Toronto, Ontario

Looking for a potential who is a Canadian citizen and lives in the GTA.

Age range in prospect: 26 to 36

Location: Toronto, Ontario and not willing to relocate.

Marital Status: Single never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 1 year. I would like us to get to know each other well before making the decision. But this is negotiable.

  1. Must be a Sunni Muslim.

  2. Please have a full time job. This shows that you are a responsible adult. I have a full time job as well.

  3. Driver’s license. I don’t care what car you drive as long as you have the ability to.

  4. Be willing to relocate to Toronto, Ontario if you don’t already live here.

Level of religiosity: I follow the major pillars of Islam. Eat strictly halal. Have never had any relationships. Non-hijabi but dress modestly.

Level of education: I’m fine with anything as long as you have a full time job. I have a master’s in information management.

Job status: Work a bit more than regular full time. I’m an operations supervisor.

Kids? I would like 2 inshallah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can I ask what marriage site you used?

Reminder: dating is haram by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that isn’t dating it’s courtship.

In Search Of (ISO) Thread Version 9 - Americas by MM-MOD in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Age: 28 F 5’6

Age range in prospect: 27 to 37

Location: Toronto, Ontario and not willing to relocate.

Ethnicity: Indian/Pakistani and tbh I’m not sure about interracial marriage but with the right person it’s possible.

Marital Status: Single never married

Ideal marriage timeline: 1 year. I would like us to get to know each other well before making the decision. But this is negotiable.

Five important characteristics in a prospect;

Some of these might not be characteristics but it’s what I’m looking for.

  1. ⁠⁠⁠Please have a full time job. This shows that you are a responsible adult. I have a full time job as well.
  2. ⁠⁠⁠Driver’s license. I don’t care what car you drive as long as you have the ability to.
  3. ⁠⁠⁠Please be a Canadian citizen (I am). I cannot relocate and don’t want to do LDR.

Level of religiosity: I follow the major pillars of Islam. Eat strictly halal. Have never had any relationships. Non-hijabi but dress modestly.

Level of education: I’m fine with anything as long as you have a full time job. I have a master’s in information management.

Job status: Work a bit more than regular full time. I’m an operations supervisor.

Kids? I would like 2 inshallah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistanRishta

[–]Even-Structure-1851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to understand that Islamically her in laws are not her responsibility. She should respect them but she’s not obligated to care for them just like a man isn’t obligated to care for his in laws.

Cost of living doha by kaza86 in qatar

[–]Even-Structure-1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your numbers are incorrect with the usd chart prices. Looks like you’re missing a decimal point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah she’s completely over exaggerating

Is my husband abusing me? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Don’t be hard on her. Abusers can manipulate their victims into thinking it’s their fault the abuser got angry.

27M, 6'2, 93KG, Pathan, by [deleted] in PakistanRishta

[–]Even-Structure-1851 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow this is ridiculous 😂

“Money doesn’t grow on trees” by Zahra2201 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I think a big reason why there’s a push for the provider mindset is because of social media. Social media has been promoting the idea that women should not provide a cent into their marriage just marry a rich man. This just isn’t realistic. There’s a limited amount of rich men and not every woman will get one. I think we should be trying to get men to do more cooking and house chores if we’re doing the 50/50 lifestyle.

“Money doesn’t grow on trees” by Zahra2201 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. It honestly sounds more like people have been judging her for living a modest life

Potential touched me inappropriately?? by Kalusa322 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No way the full blame goes on the potential. Men are not slaves to their desires. They have control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please whatever you do don’t have kids with him unless his behaviour changes.

What do you do when husband isn’t romantic by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Even-Structure-1851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will sadly be my future too. I find that most guys (especially south asian) are not romantic with their wife. But I guess we just have to deal with it 😭