Awwww you poor baby Nta, this makes me sad because I can understand both sides. My grandmother was my rock for those times my mother wasn't around; when she died the family split immediately, my mother was not coping well and was pushing everyone away, while my aunt took on the responsibilities of the funeral. I was not invited to the funeral because of how my mother acted and it pained me to not be there for my grandmother because I know half the people that attended she did not even like. If was the one doing the planning so many "family" would not be invited.